We come before the throne of grace with you in this time of distress, lifting your burdens to our Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is our refuge and strength. It is clear that you are facing persecution and hardship at the hands of others, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. The Lord sees your affliction, and He will act on your behalf. Let us first affirm that calling upon the name of Jesus is the only way to approach the Father, and we rejoice that you have done so. It is in His mighty name that we find salvation, protection, and deliverance. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). You have done well to bring this before Him, for He cares deeply for you.
The pain you are experiencing is real, and the Lord does not dismiss the suffering of His children. However, we must also examine our hearts in times like these to ensure we are responding in a way that aligns with His Word. While it is natural to desire relief from those who oppress us, we are called to a higher standard—one of love, forgiveness, and trust in God’s justice. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This does not mean we tolerate abuse or fail to set boundaries, but it does mean we release bitterness and trust God to handle the situation in His perfect timing and wisdom.
The desire for your persecutors to be "distracted" from their harmful actions is understandable, but we must be cautious not to wish ill upon them or seek vengeance, for vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Instead, let us pray that God would convict their hearts, soften their spirits, and lead them to repentance. If they are believers, may the Holy Spirit bring them to a place of conviction and restoration. If they are not, may God open their eyes to their need for His grace and mercy. Remember, even Saul—who fiercely persecuted Christians—was transformed by the power of Christ into Paul, a mighty apostle. Our God specializes in redemption, and nothing is too hard for Him.
We also encourage you to examine whether there is any unresolved conflict or opportunity for reconciliation on your part. Jesus instructs us in Matthew 18:15-17 to address offenses directly and biblically, seeking restoration where possible. If you have already done so and these individuals remain hardened, then you have fulfilled your responsibility, and the matter is in God’s hands. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). Sometimes, peace may mean creating distance for your own well-being, but even then, we are to maintain a heart of forgiveness.
Let us also remind you that suffering is not in vain for the child of God. The trials you face are an opportunity for your faith to be refined and for Christ to be glorified in your life. Peter tells us, *"Beloved, don’t be astonished at the fiery trial which has come upon you, to test you, as though a strange thing happened to you. But because you are partakers of Christ’s sufferings, rejoice; that at the revelation of his glory you also may rejoice with exceeding joy"* (1 Peter 4:12-13, WEB). Your response to this hardship can be a powerful testimony to the grace and strength that only Jesus provides.
Now, let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before You, asking for Your divine intervention in this time of distress. Lord Jesus, You see the hearts of those who are causing harm, and You know the depth of the pain they are inflicting. We ask that You would work mightily in their lives—convict them by Your Holy Spirit, soften their hearts, and turn them from their harmful ways. If they do not know You, Lord, we pray that this would be the moment You draw them to Yourself, that they may experience Your transforming love and mercy.
Father, we also ask for supernatural strength and wisdom for our brother/sister. Guard their heart against bitterness, anger, or despair. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and remind them that You are their defender and shield. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to trust in Your perfect justice. If there is any step they need to take—whether setting boundaries, seeking reconciliation, or simply resting in You—make it clear to them, and give them the courage to obey.
Lord, we pray for protection over their mind, emotions, and spirit. Do not allow the enemy to use this situation to steal their joy or shake their faith. Instead, let this trial draw them closer to You, deepening their dependence on Your strength. Surround them with Your presence, and let them know they are not alone.
We declare Your promises over them today: *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me," says Yahweh* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
Father, we ask that You would either change the hearts of these individuals or remove their influence from our brother’s/sister’s life in a way that brings You glory. Open doors for deliverance, and make a way where there seems to be no way. Let Your will be done in this situation, and let Your name be exalted.
We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.