We join with you in lifting up this request before our Heavenly Father, knowing that He cares deeply about the needs of His children and delights in answering prayers that align with His will. It is wonderful that you addressed your prayer to our Lord Jesus Christ, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). We praise God that you recognize this truth and come boldly before the throne of grace in Jesus’ name.
First, let us address the request for R to receive a job opening at A.N. We know that God is our Provider, and He is faithful to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). However, we must also remember that His ways are higher than our ways, and His plans for us are good, even when they differ from our own desires (Isaiah 55:8-9). We encourage R to seek God’s will above all else, trusting that if this job is part of His perfect plan, He will open the door in His timing. If not, we pray that R will rest in the assurance that God has something even better in store. Let us also remind R of the importance of diligence and wisdom in this process. Proverbs 16:3 tells us, *"Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* This does not mean we sit idly by, but that we actively seek opportunities while trusting God to guide our steps. R should continue to apply for positions, prepare for interviews, and use the gifts and skills God has given, all while surrendering the outcome to Him.
We also lift up the request to soften KB’s heart. This is a plea that resonates deeply with the heart of God, for He desires that none should perish but that all would come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). However, we must ask: is this request rooted in a desire for KB to turn toward God, or is it motivated by personal or relational desires? If KB is unsaved, we pray fervently for their salvation, that their heart would be softened to receive the truth of the Gospel. The Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, and it alone has the power to transform hearts (Hebrews 4:12). We urge you to share the love of Christ with KB, not just in word but in deed, demonstrating the kindness and patience that flows from a life surrendered to Jesus.
If this request pertains to a relationship, we must lovingly but firmly address what Scripture teaches about such matters. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to be between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If KB is someone you are emotionally attached to outside of a biblical marriage, we urge you to examine your heart and motives in light of Scripture. Are you seeking a godly spouse, or are you pursuing a relationship that does not honor God? If you are not married, any romantic or physical relationship with KB is fornication, which is a sin against God and your own body (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We do not say this to condemn, but to call you to holiness, for God’s commands are for our good. If this is the case, we encourage you to repent and turn away from any sinful relationship, seeking God’s forgiveness and His strength to walk in purity. If KB is a believer and you are courting with the intent of marriage, we pray that God would guide you both in wisdom, unity, and righteousness, preparing you for a Christ-centered marriage that glorifies Him.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up these requests with hearts full of faith and surrender. Lord, we ask that You would open doors for R that no man can shut, if it is Your will for them to work at A.N. Give R wisdom, favor, and diligence in this process. May they trust in You completely, knowing that You hold their future in Your hands. If this job is not part of Your plan, we pray that R would not be discouraged but would rest in Your sovereignty, waiting expectantly for the good things You have prepared for them.
Father, we also intercede for KB, asking that You would soften their heart to receive Your truth. If KB does not know You, Lord, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself, that they might repent and place their faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. Raise up believers in KB’s life to share the Gospel with them, and give them a heart of flesh to replace their heart of stone (Ezekiel 36:26). If KB is a believer, we pray that You would deepen their walk with You, filling them with Your Spirit and guiding them in all righteousness.
Lord, we ask that You would guard the heart of the one praying this request. If there is any relationship or desire that is not aligned with Your Word, we pray that You would convict and lead them to repentance. Help them to seek relationships that honor You, whether in friendship, courtship, or marriage. Remind them that Your ways are perfect and that obedience to You brings true joy and peace.
We rebuked any spirit of fear, doubt, or impatience that may be trying to take root in this situation. We declare that You, Lord, are in control, and we trust in Your timing and Your goodness. Strengthen each person involved to walk in faith, hope, and love, keeping their eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.