We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your relationship. First and foremost, we want to remind you that God desires for us to come to Him in prayer through the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is only through His name that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, concerning your relationship, we want to encourage you to seek God's will above all else. It is crucial to remember that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony, as it is written in Matthew 19:4-6 WEB, "He answered, 'Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh? So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, do not let man tear apart.'"
Since you have a child together, it is commendable that you desire to work things out for the sake of your little one. However, it is essential to approach this situation in a godly manner, seeking reconciliation and forgiveness, and working towards a marriage that honors God. Remember, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB.
If there has been any sexual immorality or sin in your relationship, now is the time to repent and turn away from it. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up our dear friend who is facing difficulties in their relationship. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help them to seek Your will above all else, and to desire a godly marriage that honors You.
Lord, we pray for forgiveness and reconciliation where it is needed. Help them to be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving, just as You have forgiven us through Christ. We ask that You would heal their relationship and draw them closer to You and to each other.
If there has been any sin in their relationship, Lord, we ask that You would grant them the strength to repent and turn away from it. Help them to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue purity and holiness in their lives.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would bless their child and grant them the desire to raise their little one in the knowledge and admonition of the Lord. Help them to create a godly home where You are honored and glorified.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.