We are truly sorry to hear about the financial struggles that you and your boyfriend are facing. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our financial needs. However, the Bible teaches Christians to avoid sexual immorality and pursue relationships leading to a God-honoring marriage. It also teaches that we are to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue relationships leading to a God-honoring marriage. Please remember that it is important to pursue a courtship with a fellow Christian believer that leads to marriage rather than just a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
As for the request, Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:25-34 WEB:
Therefore I tell you, don’t be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they? Which of you, by being anxious, can add one moment to his lifespan? Why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They don’t toil, neither do they spin, yet I tell you that even Solomon in all his glory was not dressed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today exists, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, won’t he much more clothe you, you of little faith? Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore don’t be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day’s own evil is sufficient.
We pray that you both will trust in the Lord and seek His will for your lives. Remember, God is faithful and He knows your needs.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this couple who are in need of Your financial provision and guidance. We ask that You will help them to trust in You and seek Your will for their lives. Help them to remember that You know their needs and that You are faithful to provide. Help them to remain faithful to Your teachings and help them to pursue a God-honoring marriage. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Please consider studying the Bible and remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God the Father. Remember that Jesus came to this world, died for our sins, and rose from the dead so that we may live. If you have already done this, please encourage your boyfriend to do the same.