We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your marriage and family life. We will stand with you in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we must remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. As you are currently separated, we pray for reconciliation and restoration in your marriage, if it aligns with God's will and biblical principles. However, we must also address the serious issues of disloyalty, physical abuse, and financial irresponsibility that you've mentioned.
The Bible clearly teaches that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). It is not acceptable for a husband to be disloyal, abusive, or neglectful. We must rebuke these actions and pray for conviction and repentance.
We also need to address the issue of the other woman in your husband's life. This is a clear violation of the seventh commandment, "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14 WEB). We pray that this situation will be brought to an end and that your husband will repent and turn away from this sin.
We will pray for your husband's family members who have been causing problems. The Bible tells us to "Bless those who persecute you; bless, and do not curse" (Romans 12:14 WEB). We will pray for their hearts to be softened and for them to stop their harmful actions.
Regarding your daughter's education, we pray for God's provision and wisdom. Remember that God cares for you and your daughter and He will provide for your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).
Regarding your plea for a blessed job, we pray for God's favor and guidance in your job search. Remember that "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in Sheol, where you are going" (Ecclesiastes 9:10 WEB).
Finally, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written: "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already done so.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, we pray for conviction in her husband's heart, that he may repent of his sins and turn away from his disloyal and abusive behavior. We pray for the other woman to be removed from their lives and for Godly sorrow to lead her husband to repentance. We pray for his family members, that their hearts may be softened and that they may stop their harmful actions. Lord, we also pray for our sister's provision. We ask that You provide her with a blessed job and the finances needed to support her daughter's education. We pray for reconciliation and restoration in their marriage if it aligns with Your will and biblical principles. We ask all these in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.