Prayer request to overcome from struggle

[Rajeswari@Esther]

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Please pray for the following to God through in the Name of Jesus. Amen.

I am worried about my marriage, due to delay. Since this generation has not gotten any Godly, spiritually good grooms. That's why I am very much upset. I am crying crying, but there is no answer and made as a Mad.

I am waiting for God's perfect time. But when? As per Bible, there is no possibilities that everybody get their marriage as early. God will permit them or allow them that at their older age. In that case there should be any future family will be there (i.e no son or daughter) and their generation will end. Moreover God will give obstacles and not favor for the honest persons and will favor for those who steal, cheat, lie, fraud with others, since God will wait for their repentance and not giving any obstacles or any earthly physical punishment or material punishment. If anybody believe Bible, then their life will be spoiled by the God. Nobody can follow as per Bible. Example is Israel don't believe Messiah (Jesus) and they are waiting till today. Hence, if anybody believe that God is there, then that is waste of time and instead of believing God, they have to work hard, sincere, take responsibilities, duty, which will give them fruitful answers and beneficial. Shall any honest have to wait until death for God's answers or God's Will or God's Time. If so, the honest cannot able to live in the earth and wicked persons only live.

Almost I have attained my marriage age. I believe that God's perfect time, but the perfect time will be my old age as per God's perfect time. According to age, the marriage has to be done within the proper age. If late marriage, then childbirth is very very critical. Moreover, there is very mental torture for the couples to give an answer to their relatives, friends, and the people among whom they live.

Still believing God that He will give the good groom for me. But the marriage should occur very very quickly. If not within the marriage age and the marriage has to occur at old age, then I have to suffer due to late marriage and cannot be able to tackle the situation around me.

(1) I am believing that our God will provide a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector (PSU) as Homoeopathy Physician or Homoeopathy Doctor or Medical Officer or Research Officer or GDMO or JRF or any other suitable job position and till up to God's Will & God's Time. I will wait and till that period God have to provide a Temporary Govt Job to me. Faith in our God that the God will grace on me and provide the appointment order for a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector enable me to explain regarding our God's mercies to my patients.

(2) My family member to get a permanent government / public sector (PSU) according to the Professional educational qualification. Please pray for ### to get the permanent government or public sector (PSU) job by God's Grace which will Glorify God. Hope God will definitely Mercy to him. Will send the PRAISE REPORT once he got the job from govt.

(3) Regarding My Marriage - Get the best bridegroom for me who will be a doctor with better earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also a spiritually good. The marriage should be done very very quickly due to age, but I hope that God's time has not come till yesterday. Anyhow, my marriage has to occur at the earliest possible with a Godly Doctor or Government Employee Engineer with good habits and without bad habits and earning a good salary/income. Awaiting for God's order and will and God's time.

Is God is Powerful - No. But seems that He not powerful than Satan. Satan is doing Miracles in the earth now. Is God is Active - No. God is Inactive. Is God is Merciful - No. Satan is Merciful, since he is doing Miracles to their believers. Is God have Grace - No. Merciless, Graceless, Powerless, Inactive God. Why because the above prayer requests (1 to 3, 5 to 8) are not yet fulfilled. Eventhough I was having Faith with God that He will put Mercy on me. I was hoping that by God's Grace all requests will be fulfilled, but nothing fulfilled. Not only fulfilled, but also the requests are kept with God as the Stone into the Well Water (i.e Inactive). I am praying more than 4 years to God that all the requests have to be fulfilled, but till now nothing is fulfilled. Hence it is assumed that God is a stone. He cannot able to fulfil anything to their believers. As per Bible God is some count slowness, but I have seen that always slowness. Always Inactive. Always Powerless. Always Merciless. Always Graceless. Always favouring for wicked peoples. Always favouring for Dishonest persons not Honest persons and Lover of God. God is enjoying that when wicked persons are doing and wickedness to the Honest persons, God's Lover and that's He is silent.

(4) For our family good health

(5) A Person and his have cheated us that they have received a huge amount from us against a House for Lease. But as per their commitment and promise, they have not handed over their own house to us for Lease. Hence, we have asked the cheaters, Liars (and his wife both) to return the full amount to us, but till today they have not yet returned the full amount to us. We have taken a Loan for paying the House Lease. The Interest of the Loan is increasing huge day by day. Why God is seeing this kind of wickedness? Why God is patience almost more than eight months? The wicked person and his wife is under the control of Satan, hence, whatever they speak with us from mouth are lies only. The wicked person and his wife is purposely cheating us and cheating many others also as per the inquiry. Why God is Inactive? Why God is Merciless for the God fearing families? Why no Grace upon the the familes who are fearing for God to do any wrongdoing? Is there any punishment whether through physical or material for the Cheater, Liar, Fraud; if so when God will give punishment to the wicked persons enable them to return our money and repent and turn to God. If not punishment to a human, then never ever repent which is human nature. Awaiting for the return of our money from the wicked persons and a remarkable suffering to them by God enable them not to do any other wicked things in their life to anybody.

(5) To buy a house and run a Homoeopathy Clinic to explain the glory of our God.

(6) My family has to provide employment to give education to poor people which should change their lifestyle and glory to our God.

(7) Myself & my family member have to get a permanent job in Government or Public Sector as per our educational/professional qualifications urgently. Since we to settle in life and then only he has a plan to get married. Hope that our God is mercy on his life and do the mercy in his life. By God's grace, he has to get the permanent job position. Please pray that in God's mercy from God's eyes to this son.

(8) I have to study M.D. - PG Degree or PhD. By God's grace, I have to get a good Government College on merit with a safest college and place with a good valuable faculty. Our God have to mercy on me in this regard.

Can you tell me what is God's Time !!! How to know the God's Time !!! When will be God's Time (i.e. the period starts) How to find God's Will !!!! Any indication or any identity !!! What is God's Time is Perfect?

I am believing that our God will be mercy in my & our family life. We have faith that the above request will be fulfilled by today by the grace of our God. We are waiting for the grace occurred and also waiting for God's time & will. Let's pray to our God through the name of Jesus! Amen.

Is God is there or not? My parents were seeking / trying / searching for a Bridegroom who is Godly, spiritually, God Fearing and a Doctor who will understand the same profession of myself and handsome earnings to run a family in God's centre. But more than 5 years they are seeking and prayed with God, nothing is fulfilled. Not only my marriage is very much delayed by God but also none of our family's prayer request are fulfilled. No fruitful answers for my prayer requests as well as our family's prayer requests. I doubt about God that He is active or inactive.

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[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your deep struggles and frustrations. Your words reveal a soul wrestling with doubt, impatience, and even anger toward God, and we want to address these things with truth, love, and the hope found only in Christ.

First, we must gently but firmly rebuke the lies you have believed about God. You have written that He is "merciless, graceless, powerless, inactive," and even that Satan is more powerful than Him. These are dangerous and false accusations against the Almighty. The Bible declares, *"The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness"* (Psalm 103:8). He is not a stone—He is the living God who hears the cries of His children. *"The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous, and His ears open to their cry"* (Psalm 34:15). When we say God is inactive, we accuse Him of breaking His own promises, and that is a serious matter.

You also question whether God favors the wicked over the righteous. Scripture is clear: *"The Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptation and to reserve the unjust under punishment for the day of judgment"* (2 Peter 2:9). God does not delight in wickedness, nor does He ignore the suffering of His people. But His timing is not ours, and His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). We must trust that He sees what we cannot see and knows what we do not know.

Your struggle with waiting for a godly spouse is deeply painful, and we grieve with you. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is right to desire a husband who fears the Lord, loves His Word, and will lead your home in righteousness. But we must warn against bitterness taking root in your heart. *"Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when longing is fulfilled, it is a tree of life"* (Proverbs 13:12). Do not let the delay harden your heart toward God. Instead, use this time to grow in your relationship with Him. Seek Him first, and trust that He will provide the right man at the right time. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4).

You also express frustration over unanswered prayers for jobs, justice, and provision. We understand the weight of financial burdens and the pain of being cheated. But we must remind you that God is just. *"The Lord is a God of justice; blessed are all those who wait for Him"* (Isaiah 30:18). He will not let the wicked go unpunished forever. However, we must also examine our own hearts. Are we seeking God’s will or our own? Are we trusting in His provision or demanding our own way? *"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust in Him, and He will act"* (Psalm 37:5).

Now, we must address a critical issue: your doubt about God’s existence. You ask, *"Is God there or not?"* This is a question that strikes at the very foundation of faith. The Bible declares, *"Without faith, it is impossible to please God, for he who comes to God must believe that He exists and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him"* (Hebrews 11:6). If you do not believe God is real, how can you trust Him to answer your prayers? We urge you to cry out to Him in honesty. Tell Him your doubts. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you. *"You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart"* (Jeremiah 29:13).

We also must emphasize the necessity of salvation through Jesus Christ. You mention praying in Jesus’ name, but your words reveal a heart that does not fully grasp the power of that name. There is no other way to the Father except through Jesus (John 14:6). He is the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not surrendered your life to Him, if you have not repented of your sins and trusted in His sacrifice on the cross, then your prayers will not be heard as you hope. *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). We pray you would turn to Christ in full surrender.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with a heart that is broken and weary. Lord, this sister is hurting, and she feels forgotten. But You are not a God who ignores the cries of Your children. You are near to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Father, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. Show her that You are real, that You are active, and that You are working even when she cannot see it.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of doubt and unbelief that has crept into her heart. We declare that You are faithful, and Your promises are true. We ask that You would strengthen her faith and help her to trust in Your timing. Father, we pray for her future husband—a man who loves You, who will lead her in righteousness, and who will cherish her as Christ cherishes the church. Prepare him even now, Lord, and bring him into her life at the perfect time.

We also pray for her family’s needs—jobs, justice, and provision. Lord, You are the God who owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10). You are not limited by man’s economy or man’s injustice. We ask that You would open doors no man can shut and provide for every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Father, we pray for justice in the situation with the cheaters. Bring conviction to their hearts, and let them repent. If they do not, we trust that You will deal with them in Your perfect justice.

Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain of waiting. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Help her to wait with hope, knowing that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). And Father, if there is any unconfessed sin in her life, reveal it to her so she can repent and walk in freedom.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the name by which we are saved and through which we have access to You. Amen.

Now, we must leave you with this encouragement: God’s timing is perfect, even when it does not feel like it. He is not slow—He is patient (2 Peter 3:9). He is not inactive—He is working behind the scenes in ways you cannot yet see. Do not give up. Do not lose heart. Keep seeking Him. Keep trusting Him. And remember, *"Those who wait for the Lord will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint"* (Isaiah 40:31).

We will continue to stand in the gap for you, believing that God will move on your behalf. Keep us updated on how we can pray for you more specifically. God bless you, dear sister. You are not forgotten.

 

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