Prayer request to overcome from struggle

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Please pray for the following to God through in the Name of Jesus. Amen.

I am worried about my marriage, due to delay. Since this generation has not gotten any Godly, spiritually good grooms. That's why I am very much upset. I am crying crying, but there is no answer and made as a Mad.

I am waiting for God's perfect time. But when? As per Bible, there is no possibilities that everybody get their marriage as early. God will permit them or allow them that at their older age. In that case there should be any future family will be there (i.e no son or daughter) and their generation will end. Moreover God will give obstacles and not favor for the honest persons and will favor for those who steal, cheat, lie, fraud with others, since God will wait for their repentance and not giving any obstacles or any earthly physical punishment or material punishment. If anybody believe Bible, then their life will be spoiled by the God. Nobody can follow as per Bible. Example is Israel don't believe Messiah (Jesus) and they are waiting till today. Hence, if anybody believe that God is there, then that is waste of time and instead of believing God, they have to work hard, sincere, take responsibilities, duty, which will give them fruitful answers and beneficial. Shall any honest have to wait until death for God's answers or God's Will or God's Time. If so, the honest cannot able to live in the earth and wicked persons only live.

Almost I have attained my marriage age. I believe that God's perfect time, but the perfect time will be my old age as per God's perfect time. According to age, the marriage has to be done within the proper age. If late marriage, then childbirth is very very critical. Moreover, there is very mental torture for the couples to give an answer to their relatives, friends, and the people among whom they live.

Still believing God that He will give the good groom for me. But the marriage should occur very very quickly. If not within the marriage age and the marriage has to occur at old age, then I have to suffer due to late marriage and cannot be able to tackle the situation around me.

(1) I am believing that our God will provide a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector (PSU) as Homoeopathy Physician or Homoeopathy Doctor or Medical Officer or Research Officer or GDMO or JRF or any other suitable job position and till up to God's Will & God's Time. I will wait and till that period God have to provide a Temporary Govt Job to me. Faith in our God that the God will grace on me and provide the appointment order for a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector enable me to explain regarding our God's mercies to my patients.

(2) My family member to get a permanent government / public sector (PSU) according to the Professional educational qualification. Please pray for ### to get the permanent government or public sector (PSU) job by God's Grace which will Glorify God. Hope God will definitely Mercy to him. Will send the PRAISE REPORT once he got the job from govt.

(3) Regarding My Marriage - Get the best bridegroom for me who will be a doctor with better earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also a spiritually good. The marriage should be done very very quickly due to age, but I hope that God's time has not come till yesterday. Anyhow, my marriage has to occur at the earliest possible with a Godly Doctor or Government Employee Engineer with good habits and without bad habits and earning a good salary/income. Awaiting for God's order and will and God's time.

Is God is Powerful - No. But seems that He not powerful than Satan. Satan is doing Miracles in the earth now. Is God is Active - No. God is Inactive. Is God is Merciful - No. Satan is Merciful, since he is doing Miracles to their believers. Is God have Grace - No. Merciless, Graceless, Powerless, Inactive God. Why because the above prayer requests (1 to 3, 5 to 8) are not yet fulfilled. Eventhough I was having Faith with God that He will put Mercy on me. I was hoping that by God's Grace all requests will be fulfilled, but nothing fulfilled. Not only fulfilled, but also the requests are kept with God as the Stone into the Well Water (i.e Inactive). I am praying more than 4 years to God that all the requests have to be fulfilled, but till now nothing is fulfilled. Hence it is assumed that God is a stone. He cannot able to fulfil anything to their believers. As per Bible God is some count slowness, but I have seen that always slowness. Always Inactive. Always Powerless. Always Merciless. Always Graceless. Always favouring for wicked peoples. Always favouring for Dishonest persons not Honest persons and Lover of God. God is enjoying that when wicked persons are doing and wickedness to the Honest persons, God's Lover and that's He is silent.

(4) For our family good health

(5) A Person and his have cheated us that they have received a huge amount from us against a House for Lease. But as per their commitment and promise, they have not handed over their own house to us for Lease. Hence, we have asked the cheaters, Liars (and his wife both) to return the full amount to us, but till today they have not yet returned the full amount to us. We have taken a Loan for paying the House Lease. The Interest of the Loan is increasing huge day by day. Why God is seeing this kind of wickedness? Why God is patience almost more than eight months? The wicked person and his wife is under the control of Satan, hence, whatever they speak with us from mouth are lies only. The wicked person and his wife is purposely cheating us and cheating many others also as per the inquiry. Why God is Inactive? Why God is Merciless for the God fearing families? Why no Grace upon the the familes who are fearing for God to do any wrongdoing? Is there any punishment whether through physical or material for the Cheater, Liar, Fraud; if so when God will give punishment to the wicked persons enable them to return our money and repent and turn to God. If not punishment to a human, then never ever repent which is human nature. Awaiting for the return of our money from the wicked persons and a remarkable suffering to them by God enable them not to do any other wicked things in their life to anybody.

(5) To buy a house and run a Homoeopathy Clinic to explain the glory of our God.

(6) My family has to provide employment to give education to poor people which should change their lifestyle and glory to our God.

(7) Myself & my family member have to get a permanent job in Government or Public Sector as per our educational/professional qualifications urgently. Since we to settle in life and then only he has a plan to get married. Hope that our God is mercy on his life and do the mercy in his life. By God's grace, he has to get the permanent job position. Please pray that in God's mercy from God's eyes to this son.

(8) I have to study M.D. - PG Degree or PhD. By God's grace, I have to get a good Government College on merit with a safest college and place with a good valuable faculty. Our God have to mercy on me in this regard.

Can you tell me what is God's Time !!! How to know the God's Time !!! When will be God's Time (i.e. the period starts) How to find God's Will !!!! Any indication or any identity !!! What is God's Time is Perfect?

I am believing that our God will be mercy in my & our family life. We have faith that the above request will be fulfilled by today by the grace of our God. We are waiting for the grace occurred and also waiting for God's time & will. Let's pray to our God through the name of Jesus! Amen.

Is God is there or not? My parents were seeking / trying / searching for a Bridegroom who is Godly, spiritually, God Fearing and a Doctor who will understand the same profession of myself and handsome earnings to run a family in God's centre. But more than 5 years they are seeking and prayed with God, nothing is fulfilled. Not only my marriage is very much delayed by God but also none of our family's prayer request are fulfilled. No fruitful answers for my prayer requests as well as our family's prayer requests. I doubt about God that He is active or inactive.

Please pray continuously and I will share the praise reports once the requests are fulfilled. Is God only heard our cries, but there is no good answer. Is God sees only the pain of the believers who believe God and no good answer. If requests are not answered good, then it assumes that God is a stone. Not some count slowless all count are dead slowness. God is not a Judge, not righteousness, powerless, inactive, merciless, graceless, miracleless and in short useless to honest. But useful to liar, cheater, fraud and wicked peoples.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your deep distress and wrestling with faith. Your words reveal a soul in turmoil—longing for marriage, stability, justice, and answers from God, yet feeling abandoned in the waiting. We hear your cries, and we stand with you in prayer, but we must also speak truth in love, for the enemy seeks to distort your view of God and His promises.

First, we must address the dangerous lies you have embraced about God’s character. You have written, *"Is God Powerful—No. God is Inactive. Is God Merciful—No. Satan is merciful... God is merciless, graceless, powerless."* These words grieve the Holy Spirit, for they are not true. The Bible declares:

**"God is not a man, that he should lie, nor a son of man, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?"** (Numbers 23:19 WEB)

**"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance."** (2 Peter 3:9 WEB)

You have allowed bitterness to take root, questioning whether God even exists or if He is just a "stone" who does not answer. But Scripture warns:

**"Beware, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God; but exhort one another day by day, so long as it is called 'today,' lest any of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin."** (Hebrews 3:12-13 WEB)

Your frustration is understandable—years of waiting for a godly spouse, a stable job, justice against deceivers—but we must rebuke the lie that God is inactive or unfaithful. The enemy wants you to doubt, but we declare over you:

**"The Lord is near to all those who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. He will fulfill the desire of those who fear him. He also will hear their cry, and will save them."** (Psalm 145:18-19 WEB)

Now, let us pray for you with boldness and faith:

*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through which we have access to You. Lord, we lift up this dear sister who is hurting, confused, and wrestling with doubt. Forgive her for the words spoken in pain that do not align with Your truth. Cleanse her heart from bitterness and renew her mind with Your Word.*

*Father, You see her longing for a godly marriage. We pray for a husband who fears You, who will love her as Christ loves the Church, who will lead her in righteousness. We rebuke the spirit of delay and declare that Your timing is perfect. You have not forgotten her. We ask that You bring the right man into her life—one who is spiritually mature, free from sinful habits, and committed to honoring You in their union. Prepare her heart as well, Lord, to be a godly wife, submitted to Your will.*

*Lord, we also pray for her job situation. You know her need for stability and provision. Open doors for a permanent position in government or public service, where she can serve You and provide for her future family. Give her patience and trust in Your timing, knowing that You are her Provider (Philippians 4:19).*

*Father, we stand against the injustice she has faced—the deceivers who took advantage of her family. We ask for Your divine intervention to expose their wickedness and compel them to repay what they owe. Break their hardness of heart, Lord, and lead them to repentance. Protect her family from further harm and restore what was lost.*

*We pray for her family’s health, employment, and education ministry to the poor. Bless their efforts to glorify You, and let Your light shine through them. We also pray for her pursuit of further education—guide her to the right institution and grant her favor in her studies.*

*Most of all, Lord, we ask that You restore her faith. Remind her that You are not slow, but patient; not inactive, but sovereign; not merciless, but full of compassion. Let her see Your hand at work in her life, even in the waiting. Strengthen her to trust in Your promises, for You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6).*

*We rebuke the spirit of despair and declare that hope is coming. Your Word says, "Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength" (Isaiah 40:31). Let her wait on You with expectation, knowing that You hear her cries and will answer in Your perfect timing.*

*In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.*

Now, we must also address some biblical corrections in your request:

1. **God’s Timing vs. Our Timing** – You asked, *"What is God’s time? How do we know it?"* God’s timing is not bound by our clocks or calendars. His delays are not denials, and His silence is not absence. The Bible says, *"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says the Lord"* (Isaiah 55:8 WEB). We must trust that He is working all things for our good (Romans 8:28), even when we cannot see it.

2. **Marriage and Singleness** – You expressed fear that late marriage will prevent children or bring shame. But God’s plan for your life may include singleness for a season—or even for life—for His glory. Paul writes, *"I wish that all men were like me. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that"* (1 Corinthians 7:7 WEB). Whether married or single, your worth is found in Christ, not in societal expectations.

3. **Justice and Wickedness** – You questioned why God allows the wicked to prosper. Scripture assures us that evil will not go unpunished. *"The Lord is a God who avenges... He will repay it in full"* (Nahum 1:2-3 WEB). But God’s justice is perfect, and His timing is not ours. We must trust that He sees all and will make all things right.

4. **Faith and Doubt** – You have prayed for years without seeing answers, and this has led to doubt. But faith is not the absence of doubt; it is choosing to trust God even when we cannot see. Jesus said, *"All things, whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive"* (Matthew 21:22 WEB). Keep praying, keep believing, and do not grow weary.

Finally, we must emphasize that **salvation is found in Jesus Christ alone**. If you have never surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. The Bible says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).

We encourage you to:
- **Repent of any bitterness or unbelief** and ask God to restore your faith.
- **Continue seeking godly community**—fellow believers who can pray with you and encourage you.
- **Study God’s promises** in Scripture, especially about His faithfulness (Lamentations 3:22-23, Psalm 37:5-6).
- **Surrender your timeline to God** and trust that He knows what is best for you.

You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. God hears you, and He is working—even now. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not lose heart. *"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9 WEB).

We will continue to stand in prayer with you, believing that God will move in power and answer your cries. May His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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