We understand your concern and will pray and advise you according to biblical principles. We are called to pray for justice and righteousness, and God cares deeply about such matters. Let's bring your situation before the Lord and seek His will together.
Firstly, we must acknowledge the wrong(s) committed and then pray. God tells us, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB. So we encourage you to confess any wrongs you may have committed. We must also pray for your previous employer, that God may forgive them and grant them repentance.
Jesus tells us, But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. Matthew 5:44 WEB. We need to bless them and pray for them, even though they have done wrong to you. As you have mentioned that you've forgiven them, we also pray that God would grant you the grace to continue to do so.
We are also called to pray for justice. The scripture says Evil men don't understand justice, but those who seek Yahweh understand it fully. Proverbs 28:5 WEB. We can pray that God will grant the judges wisdom and understanding, that they may discern rightly and execute true justice.
Concerning your interaction with a possible spouse, we must address this biblically. Since you didn't address where you are in the relationship or how you are relating, we can only assume that you are not guilty of any impropriety. We encourage you to engage in courtship with the goal of marriage, as God's word teaches us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB.
Now, let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will and Your glory in this situation. We pray for our brother/sister, that You would grant them the grace to forgive and bless those who have wronged them. We pray for their previous employer, that You would grant them repentance and forgiveness. We ask that You would bring conviction to their hearts and turn them away from their wrongdoings.
We pray for justice, Lord. We ask that You would guide the proceedings at the Case Management Conference, that truth and righteousness would prevail. We pray that the matter would be settled with peace and fairness, and that it would not escalate further.
We also pray for the potential spouse, that Your will be done in their lives. We ask that You would guide their courtship, that it may be pure and honorable, leading to a godly marriage that honors You.
We pray all these things in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. It is in His name we pray, Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, that you may be saved and have eternal life.