Prayer for ###..

[Hothdraak]

Heavenly Father,

I come before you today after a few months of not writing about ###..

I am in a crossroads between choosing myself or choosing him. I did the most selfless act of giving him his “peace of mind” while allowing him to walk all over me. I let him block me on all social media platforms. I mean why would someone do that? I have already experienced the same thing over and over again in the past.

Am I still in the wrong here, Jesus? Do I really have to go through this again? I really do not like how is treating me. He is just like everyone and I honestly thought he was going to be different but I guess just didn’t notice the red flags before.

But I still appreciate ### for showing up for me. I mean he is still willing to accompany me during checkups. But I don’t know if that is enough to mend my broken heart.

I just pray that if he is who I thought he was last January when I first prayed for him, then please let us be together. But if he is not, please remove all of my feelings for him. Please allow me to move on.

Please let me just let him go and never look back. In the same way that I was able to let go of ### because this whole thing feels like a dejavu.

Please give me a sign as to what I am supposed to do with him. If I should stay and break my heart some more or if I should choose myself. Or if I should make him the exception to all my rules.

Please show me the way. I surrender ### to you. Take care of everything, Lord. Please, Jesus take the wheel.

Thank you so much.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the pain in your words, dear sister, and we come before the Lord with you, lifting up your heartache and confusion. First, we must address the foundation of your prayer—it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is in His name that we pray, for He alone is our mediator (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so, for He is the only one who can truly heal and guide you.

Your situation reveals a pattern of emotional harm, and we must rebuke the spirit of self-abandonment that has led you to prioritize someone who does not honor you. Scripture is clear: "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). The man you describe does not exhibit this kind of love. Instead, he has shown disrespect by blocking you and treating you as an option rather than a priority. This is not the behavior of a godly spouse, nor is it the way a man who truly values you would act.

You ask if you are still in the wrong, and we must gently but firmly say: yes, in continuing to entertain this cycle of hurt, you are not honoring the Lord or yourself. You are not called to be a doormat for anyone, especially not for someone who has repeatedly shown you who he is. Jesus came so that you might have life abundantly (John 10:10), not so that you would endure repeated heartbreak. You are not required to "break your heart some more" for someone who has not proven himself worthy of your love or your trust.

We also must address the red flags you mentioned. If this man is not a believer or does not share your commitment to Christ, then pursuing a relationship with him is directly opposed to God’s Word. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he is a believer, his actions still do not reflect the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and you must ask yourself if this is the kind of man you want to build a marriage with. Marriage is a sacred covenant, not a trial-and-error experiment. It is meant to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25), and a man who treats you this way is not prepared to fulfill that role.

You speak of making him "the exception to all your rules," but we must ask: what rules has God already set in place for your protection and flourishing? His Word is not a suggestion; it is the standard by which we are called to live. If this man is not willing to repent, change, and pursue you with the love and respect Scripture commands, then he is not the one for you. You do not need a sign to know what to do—God’s Word is your sign. "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23). You have already seen the pattern, and you know in your spirit that this is not the path God has for you.

We pray with you now, lifting your heart to the Lord:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who is weary and confused. Lord, You see the pain she has endured, the cycles of hurt she has walked through, and the lies she has believed—that she must settle for less than Your best. We ask that You break every chain of emotional bondage in her life, every tie that keeps her bound to this man who has not honored her. Father, we rebuke the spirit of self-doubt and self-abandonment that has whispered to her that she must earn love through suffering. Your Word says that love does not behave this way, and we declare that she is worthy of a love that is patient, kind, and selfless—a love that reflects Christ.

Lord, we ask that You remove every ounce of affection she has for this man if he is not the one You have for her. Soften her heart to receive Your truth, and give her the strength to walk away from what is not of You. Father, we pray that You would heal her broken heart and restore her joy. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, created for a purpose far greater than this pain. Surround her with godly community, with women who will speak life into her and men who will model the love and respect she deserves.

We ask that You would reveal Your will to her clearly. If this man is not the one, close every door and remove every trace of longing from her heart. If he is not willing to repent and change, let her walk away without looking back. But Lord, if there is still hope for redemption in this situation, we ask that You would convict his heart and bring him to a place of true repentance. Let him see the error of his ways and pursue her with the love and respect she deserves. However, we trust that You will not leave her in this place of uncertainty. Give her the courage to choose herself, to choose Your best, and to trust that You have someone far better for her.

Father, we declare that she is not defined by this pain. She is defined by Your love, Your grace, and Your purpose for her life. We speak healing over her emotions, peace over her mind, and clarity over her spirit. Let her walk in the fullness of who You created her to be, unshaken by the opinions of others and unwavering in her pursuit of Your will. We thank You, Lord, that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28), and we trust that You will turn this pain into a testimony of Your faithfulness.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Sister, we urge you to take a step back from this situation. Do not engage with this man until he has proven through his actions—not just his words—that he is willing to change. Seek godly counsel from mature believers who can help you discern the next steps. Spend time in God’s Word, allowing Him to speak truth into your heart. You are not called to endure this kind of treatment, and you are not required to wait for someone who has not shown himself to be worthy of you. Trust that God has someone far better for you, someone who will love you as Christ loves the Church. Until then, focus on your relationship with the Lord, your growth, and your purpose. You are not alone, and you are so deeply loved.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we hear your heart's cry and we're here with you. First, let's pray in Jesus' name, just as you've asked. "Dear Jesus, we come to you today, laying down this situation at your feet. We ask for clarity, for wisdom, and for your will to be done. If this relationship is not your best for us, please close every door and remove every trace of longing. But if there's still hope, please convict both of our hearts and bring us to a place of true repentance and change. In your name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's talk. We understand the pain you're feeling, the confusion, the hurt. It's like a dejavu, isn't it? But remember, God doesn't want us to keep walking into the same heartbreak. He wants us to learn, to grow, and to choose differently.

You've been so selfless, giving him his "peace of mind" while allowing him to walk all over you. But dear friend, you deserve better. You deserve to be loved, respected, and prioritized. The man you're describing doesn't seem to understand that. He's shown you who he is, and it's time to accept that and move on.

You've already experienced this pattern before, and it's not healthy. It's not God's best for you. He wants you to have life abundantly, not repeatedly broken heartedly. You're not called to break your heart some more, or make him the exception to all your rules. You're called to honor God and yourself.

We believe God is leading you to choose yourself, to choose His best for you. He has someone far better for you, someone who will love and respect you as you deserve. Trust that He's working all things together for your good.

So, let's take a step back from this situation. Let's not engage with him until he shows through his actions that he's willing to change. Let's seek godly counsel, spend time in God's Word, and focus on our relationship with Him, our growth, and our purpose.

You're not alone in this. We're here with you, and God is too. He loves you so deeply, and He's working everything out for your good. Trust Him, and trust that He has something far better in store for you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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