Prayer for ###

[Anonymous]

Dear God,
I pray for your will to be done in my husband’s ### life, only you know what he needs and what can help him. He is so angry and prideful, selfish and easily offended. His anger creates a wall between us Lord. He does not lead our family because I do everything to avoid his discomfort because his anger is something I long to avoid! He makes threats of suicide and depression and the only thing I can do is rely on you to work in his heart and mind. Admittedly he is very difficult to love and respect because of the emotional and mental drain he puts me through especially when I am carrying his baby and going through post delivery. Being godly conviction to his heart. Deliver him from generation curse and evil. And ego Please help me to be the woman you’d have me be, please help me relinquish control to you. Please guide me with my words, my tone, and my actions, He is a narcissist and it’s difficult to be empathetic because I think he manipulates that, it’s like I closed off caring to protect myself…which just creates more distance especially when he should be more helpful with newborn and we have another ### year daughter. Dear God I need help only you can provide. Please protect our daughter from emotional and mental spiritual attacks. My heart is heavy and burden I need you Lord.

Please pray for me.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry, dear sister, and we join you in lifting this heavy burden before the throne of grace. Your husband’s anger, pride, and manipulation have created deep wounds in your marriage and family, and we grieve with you over the pain this has caused. The Lord sees your exhaustion, your fear, and your longing for a godly marriage—one where your husband leads with humility, love, and selflessness as Christ leads the church.

First, we must address the spiritual reality of this situation. The Bible warns us in **Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB)**, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Your husband’s unchecked anger is not just a personal struggle—it is a foothold for the enemy, and it is grieving the Holy Spirit. His threats of suicide and depression are serious, and while we trust God to intervene, we also encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel—perhaps from a pastor or Christian counselor—who can help him confront these strongholds. **James 4:7 (WEB)** tells us, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* This battle is not yours alone; it is the Lord’s, and He will fight for you if you stand firm in faith.

We also must rebuke the spirit of narcissism and manipulation at work here. **Proverbs 16:18 (WEB)** declares, *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."* Your husband’s pride is destroying his soul and your marriage, and it must be broken. Yet we know that only the Holy Spirit can bring true conviction. **John 16:8 (WEB)** says, *"When he has come, he will convict the world about sin, about righteousness, and about judgment."* Pray that God would pierce his heart with godly sorrow, not worldly regret, but a brokenness that leads to repentance (**2 Corinthians 7:10**).

Sister, you are carrying so much—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The Lord sees your weariness, and He calls you to cast your burdens upon Him (**1 Peter 5:7**). You mentioned struggling to love and respect your husband, and we understand why. But Scripture commands wives to respect their husbands (**Ephesians 5:33**), not because they deserve it, but because it is God’s design for marriage. This does not mean enabling sin or tolerating abuse—God does not call you to endure harm. However, it does mean praying for him, speaking truth in love (**Ephesians 4:15**), and trusting God to work even when you see no change.

You also expressed concern about your daughters being exposed to this environment. **Proverbs 22:6 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Cover your children in prayer daily, asking God to shield their hearts from fear, bitterness, and confusion. Pray that they would see Christ’s love through you, even in the midst of this storm.

Now, let us pray together:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and find true help. Lord, we lift up this sister and her family to You. You see the pain, the exhaustion, and the brokenness in their home. We ask You to break the chains of anger, pride, and manipulation in her husband’s life. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the destruction his sin is causing. Convict him deeply, not with condemnation, but with Your loving correction.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of narcissism and every generational curse that has taken root in this family. We declare that in Jesus’ name, these strongholds are broken! **Galatians 3:13 (WEB)** tells us, *'Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us.'* We claim that redemption over this family now.

Lord, strengthen this sister. Give her wisdom in her words, gentleness in her tone, and patience in her actions. Help her to relinquish control to You, trusting that You are working even when she cannot see it. Guard her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**).

Protect her daughters, Lord. Let them know Your love, Your security, and Your truth. Surround them with Your angels and let no weapon formed against them prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**).

Father, we ask for a miracle in this marriage. Restore what has been broken, heal what has been wounded, and bring Your glory into this home. We trust You, Lord, for You are faithful. In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen."*

Sister, you are not alone. The Lord is your refuge and strength (**Psalm 46:1**), and He will sustain you. Seek godly community—women who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. If your husband’s behavior becomes abusive or dangerous, do not hesitate to seek help from your church or local authorities. God’s design for marriage is love, respect, and mutual submission (**Ephesians 5:21-33**), and He will equip you to walk in His will, even in this trial. Keep pressing into Him. He is your hope.

 

[Fyreodarargate]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Sister,

We echo the prayers of our friend and join you in lifting this heavy burden to the Lord. Your husband's anger, pride, and manipulation have indeed caused deep wounds in your marriage and family, and we grieve with you over the pain this has caused. The Lord sees your exhaustion, your fear, and your longing for a godly marriage, one where your husband leads with humility, love, and selflessness as Christ leads the church.

Firstly, we must address the spiritual reality of this situation. The Bible warns us in Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB), "Be angry, and do not sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, and don't give place to the devil." Your husband's unchecked anger is not just a personal struggle; it's a foothold for the enemy and it's grieving the Holy Spirit. His threats of suicide and depression are serious, and while we trust God to intervene, we also encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel, perhaps from a pastor or Christian counselor, who can help him confront these strongholds.

We also must rebuke the spirit of narcissism and manipulation at work here. Proverbs 16:18 (WEB) declares, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." Your husband's pride is destroying his soul and your marriage, and it must be broken. Yet, we know that only the Holy Spirit can bring true conviction. Pray that God would pierce his heart with godly sorrow, not worldly regret, but a brokenness that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10).

Sister, you are carrying so much - physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The Lord sees your weariness, and He calls you to cast your burdens upon Him (1 Peter 5:7). You mentioned struggling to love and respect your husband, and we understand why. But Scripture commands wives to respect their husbands, not because they deserve it, but because it's God's design for marriage (Ephesians 5:33). This doesn't mean enabling sin or tolerating abuse - God doesn't call you to endure harm. However, it does mean praying for him, speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and trusting God to work even when you see no change.

You also expressed concern about your daughters being exposed to this environment. Proverbs 22:6 (WEB) reminds us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Cover your children in prayer daily, asking God to shield their hearts from fear, bitterness, and confusion. Pray that they would see Christ's love through you, even in the midst of this storm.

Now, let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and find true help. Lord, we lift up this sister and her family to You. You see the pain, the exhaustion, and the brokenness in their home. We ask You to break the chains of anger, pride, and manipulation in her husband's life. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the destruction his sin is causing. Convict him deeply, not with condemnation, but with Your loving correction.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of narcissism and every generational curse that has taken root in this family. We declare that in Jesus' name, these strongholds are broken! Galatians 3:13 (WEB) tells us, 'Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us.'

Lord, strengthen this sister. Give her wisdom in her words, gentleness in her tone, and patience in her actions. Help her to relinquish control to You, trusting that You are working even when she cannot see it. Guard her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Protect her daughters, Lord. Let them know Your love, Your security, and Your truth. Surround them with Your angels and let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17).

Father, we ask for a miracle in this marriage. Restore what has been broken, heal what has been wounded, and bring Your glory into this home. We trust You, Lord, for You are faithful. In Jesus' precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen."

Sister, you are not alone. The Lord is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and He will sustain you. Seek godly community - women who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. If your husband's behavior becomes abusive or dangerous, do not hesitate to seek help from your church or local authorities. God's design for marriage is love, respect, and mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21-33), and He will equip you to walk in His will, even in this trial. Keep pressing into Him. He is your hope.

 

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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