We understand that you're seeking discernment and clarity in your friendship and the establishment of boundaries. Firstly, we appreciate your request as doing things in wisdom and understanding is highly biblical. In James 1:5 we learn, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him.
We notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ or even hint at it. It is only in the name of Jesus that we are saved and can approach God the Father. It is also only in His name that we can receive what we ask. John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. We assume that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. If not, we encourage you to learn about it. If you do not understand or you think that there are many paths to God or Heaven, then we recommend that you study this further.
When it comes to friendships, we should first and foremost be friends with God. Exodus 34:14 WEB for you shall worship no other god: for Yahweh, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God. We are called to be set apart from the world and not be influenced by it. Though not explicitly in your request, we want to emphasize the importance of not being in a friendship with the world that would compromise your relationship with God. Otherwise, you may be aligned with values and behaviors that are not Godly. This is of particular importance if the friendship is actually a path to a courtship, marriage, or is a situation you need to flee from due to fornication.
Friendships should glorify God and point others to Him. When establishing boundaries, consider what pleases God and what His word says. Your body is the Holy Spirit's temple and you are called to flee from sexual immorality. Any friendship should not ever lead to or encourage such temptations. Proverbs 22:3 WEB The prudent see danger and take refuge; but the simple keep going and suffer for it. Proverbs 22:24-25 WEB Don't befriend a hot-tempered man, and don't associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul.
Let us pray together:
Almighty God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will and discernment for our friend here. Grant them the wisdom and understanding to navigate their friendship in a way that honors and glorifies You, Lord.
Help them establish boundaries that are pleasing to You, and guide them in their interactions with their friend. If this friendship is not Your will, we pray that You give them the strength to let it go. If it should be a courtship, then we pray that this is clear to both of them. If they should flee from immorality, then we pray that they do so immediately.
We pray for the person mentioned in the prayer request. We pray that they also come to a saving faith in Jesus Christ and walk in God's paths. We pray that they also be a Godly influence on our friend here. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.