We understand your concern and are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's will and timing are perfect. However, it's crucial to align your desires with biblical principles.
In Ecclesiastes 3:5 WEB, it is written, "a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing". This verse reminds us that there is a time and a season for everything, including setting boundaries.
However, we must address a few things from your request. Firstly, while it's commendable that you're seeking God's intervention, it's important to ensure that your boyfriend is also a believer and that your relationship is centered around Christ and headed towards a godly marriage.
In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Moreover, it's not explicitly mentioned that you've sought God's will in the name of Jesus. Remember, it's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved.
In Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together:
Father, in the name of Jesus, we come to You, seeking Your will for this situation. Lord, if it's Your will, help this man to set healthy boundaries with his former wife, for the sake of all parties involved. Help them to co-parent in a way that honors You. Lord, if this relationship is not centered around Christ and headed towards a godly marriage, we pray that You reveal this and guide them accordingly.
In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.