Whiotarvor
Disciple of Prayer
I want my love to love me back and not think about any other girl except me.
Prayer for ### to love me
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We understand the deep longing in your heart for love and affection, but we must first address this request with truth and biblical clarity. The desire for love is God-given, but it must be pursued in a way that honors Him and aligns with His Word. Your request seems to focus on an unhealthy obsession with controlling someone else’s heart, which is not within your power—or ours to pray for in that manner. The Bible warns us against idolatry, and when we place a person (or a relationship) above God, we risk making them an idol in our lives. Exodus 20:3 reminds us, *"You shall have no other gods before me."* Your longing should first and foremost be for God, who is the source of all love. He alone can satisfy the deepest desires of your heart in a way no human ever could.
Additionally, we must address the nature of the relationship you’re describing. The Bible is clear that romantic relationships outside of marriage are to be pursued with purity, self-control, and the intention of honoring God. If this relationship involves physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, it is sinful and must be repented of. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If you are not married to this person, you are not their spouse, and the desire to "possess" their heart exclusively is not a biblical foundation for love. True love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, is patient, kind, and selfless—it does not demand or control.
Most importantly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to turn to Him first. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. Only then will your prayers—and your relationships—be aligned with God’s will.
If you are already a believer, we encourage you to seek God’s heart above all else. Ask Him to shape your desires to match His. Pray for this person, yes, but pray that *they* would come to know Christ if they do not already, and that *both of you* would walk in obedience to Him. If this relationship is not honoring to God—whether because of sinful behavior, unequal yoking with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14), or an unhealthy focus—then you must be willing to let it go for the sake of your walk with Christ.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You alone see the depths of their heart. Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to Yourself, that they would find their satisfaction and identity in You alone. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship, whether it be lust, idolatry, or a lack of trust in Your perfect plan. Cleanse their heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within them.
If this person they mention is not their spouse, we pray that You would guard their heart and mind from sinful desires. Help them to pursue purity and to seek a relationship that honors You—one that is built on Your Word and led by Your Spirit. If this relationship is not of You, give them the strength to walk away, trusting that Your plans for them are good.
We pray that You would surround them with godly community—believers who can encourage them, hold them accountable, and point them to You. Fill them with Your love, which casts out all fear and insecurity. Remind them that they are deeply loved by You, and that no human love can compare to the love You have for them.
If this person they mention does not know You, Lord, we pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Soften their heart to receive Your love and salvation. But even as we pray this, we ask that You would protect our brother or sister from being unequally yoked. Give them wisdom to discern Your will.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would align their desires with Yours. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your perfect timing. May they find peace in surrendering this relationship—and their future—to You.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Additionally, we must address the nature of the relationship you’re describing. The Bible is clear that romantic relationships outside of marriage are to be pursued with purity, self-control, and the intention of honoring God. If this relationship involves physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, it is sinful and must be repented of. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If you are not married to this person, you are not their spouse, and the desire to "possess" their heart exclusively is not a biblical foundation for love. True love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, is patient, kind, and selfless—it does not demand or control.
Most importantly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to turn to Him first. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. Only then will your prayers—and your relationships—be aligned with God’s will.
If you are already a believer, we encourage you to seek God’s heart above all else. Ask Him to shape your desires to match His. Pray for this person, yes, but pray that *they* would come to know Christ if they do not already, and that *both of you* would walk in obedience to Him. If this relationship is not honoring to God—whether because of sinful behavior, unequal yoking with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14), or an unhealthy focus—then you must be willing to let it go for the sake of your walk with Christ.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You alone see the depths of their heart. Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to Yourself, that they would find their satisfaction and identity in You alone. Forgive them for any sin in this relationship, whether it be lust, idolatry, or a lack of trust in Your perfect plan. Cleanse their heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within them.
If this person they mention is not their spouse, we pray that You would guard their heart and mind from sinful desires. Help them to pursue purity and to seek a relationship that honors You—one that is built on Your Word and led by Your Spirit. If this relationship is not of You, give them the strength to walk away, trusting that Your plans for them are good.
We pray that You would surround them with godly community—believers who can encourage them, hold them accountable, and point them to You. Fill them with Your love, which casts out all fear and insecurity. Remind them that they are deeply loved by You, and that no human love can compare to the love You have for them.
If this person they mention does not know You, Lord, we pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Soften their heart to receive Your love and salvation. But even as we pray this, we ask that You would protect our brother or sister from being unequally yoked. Give them wisdom to discern Your will.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would align their desires with Yours. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your perfect timing. May they find peace in surrendering this relationship—and their future—to You.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We hear your heart's cry, and we're here for you. It's natural to long for love and affection, but remember, God's love is the ultimate source of all love. He wants to fill that deep longing in your heart. Let's pray together, asking God to help you see this relationship through His eyes and to guide your steps according to His will.
Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up our friend to You. We ask that You would fill their heart with Your love, a love that is patient, kind, and selfless. Help them to see this relationship as You see it, and to act in a way that honors You in all things.
If this relationship is not honoring to You, give them the strength to let it go, trusting that Your plans for them are good. Surround them with godly community, and fill them with Your love, casting out all fear and insecurity.
Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your perfect timing. Give them wisdom to discern Your will, and align their desires with Yours.
In Jesus' mighty and precious name, we pray. Amen.
Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up our friend to You. We ask that You would fill their heart with Your love, a love that is patient, kind, and selfless. Help them to see this relationship as You see it, and to act in a way that honors You in all things.
If this relationship is not honoring to You, give them the strength to let it go, trusting that Your plans for them are good. Surround them with godly community, and fill them with Your love, casting out all fear and insecurity.
Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to them in Your perfect timing. Give them wisdom to discern Your will, and align their desires with Yours.
In Jesus' mighty and precious name, we pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We are so grateful that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to stand with you in prayer for your relationship. It has been on our hearts to lift up your desire for your love to return your affection wholeheartedly and to focus solely on you. We have prayed that God would soften their heart, remove any distractions or temptations, and draw them closer to you in a way that honors Him.
If God has answered this prayer in any way—whether through a change in their heart, a deeper connection between you, or even a peace that surpasses understanding—we would love to hear a praise report so we can rejoice with you! If, however, you feel that your prayer has not yet been answered, please know that we are still here to intercede on your behalf. You are welcome to post this request again, and we will continue to stand in agreement with you, trusting that God hears and answers in His perfect timing.
May the Lord bless you with patience, faith, and the assurance that He is working all things for your good. We pray that His love would fill your heart, His wisdom would guide your steps, and His peace would guard your mind as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
If God has answered this prayer in any way—whether through a change in their heart, a deeper connection between you, or even a peace that surpasses understanding—we would love to hear a praise report so we can rejoice with you! If, however, you feel that your prayer has not yet been answered, please know that we are still here to intercede on your behalf. You are welcome to post this request again, and we will continue to stand in agreement with you, trusting that God hears and answers in His perfect timing.
May the Lord bless you with patience, faith, and the assurance that He is working all things for your good. We pray that His love would fill your heart, His wisdom would guide your steps, and His peace would guard your mind as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
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