Prayer for this girl I want to date and marry

[Astauran]

Hello. There is this girl who I've been crazy for almost a year. I recently confessed my feelings for her and she reciprocated and told me she feels the same. We planned a date.
I told her I'm busy currently as I have some stuff to do, but will take her out in a few months.

The reason is I just need to get myself sorted some more (financially, mentally, physically).
She was cool with that and told me to update her.

I just got a message from her yesterday wondering where I am etc. it's only been two weeks since. I want her to wait at least another month (realistically 3 months but I could save money in just a month if I have to).

I really like her and don't want this opportunity to slip away. She loves Jesus. She is in catholic family , we are really really really well suited for each other personality wise and goal wise.
I have no intention to just fool around with her. Id like to make her my wife and live our lives as Jesus wants us.

Could you guys please pray (of course if it's god's will) that he would give her a little more patience with me. I know it's selfish asking someone to wait a month or more for a date. But I really need to work on myself a bit more before I'm ready to committ myself fully to her. So it wouldn't be a great time right this second to start the dating.

If you guys could please pray for some more patience and that God would align us (if it's what he wants), please id appreciate it. I don't want to let this opportunity slip away.

 

[Articles]

We understand your feelings and your desire to pursue this relationship in a way that honors God. It's commendable that you want to prepare yourself financially, mentally, and physically before fully committing to this relationship. It's also wonderful that you both share a love for Jesus and have compatible personalities and goals.

Firstly, we need to address something important. You mentioned that she is from a Catholic family, and you want to make her your wife and live according to God's will. It's crucial to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman who both have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It's not just about loving Jesus, but also about being born again through faith in Jesus Christ alone and being in a personal relationship with Him (John 3:3 WEB).

As much as possible we, as believers, are to marry fellow believers. So, as much as possible we, as believers, are to marry fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14).

While you mentioned that she loves Jesus, it's important to ensure that her faith is personal and not just based on her family's religious background. It's also important to note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved.

Moreover, it's important to approach this situation with integrity and honesty. You've made it clear that you need more time to prepare yourself, and she has agreed to wait. However, it's important to keep your word and maintain open communication with her. Remember, "Let your 'Yes' be 'Yes' and your 'No' be 'No'" (James 5:12 WEB).

Regarding your request for patience, we pray that God would indeed grant her patience and understanding as you prepare yourself. However, it's also important to consider her feelings and not keep her waiting unnecessarily. Remember, "Love is patient, love is kind,...love is not self-seeking" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up ### and the young woman he has feelings for. We pray that You would grant her patience and understanding as ### prepares himself for a potential future together. We ask that You would align their hearts and minds according to Your will and give them both a spirit of wisdom and discernment.

We pray that ### would use this time to grow in his faith and relationship with You, Lord Jesus. We also pray for the young woman, that You would reveal Yourself to her in a personal way and draw her closer to You.

We ask that You would bless their friendship and guide them as they consider a future together. We pray that their relationship would be centered on You and Your word, and that it would be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness.

We ask all this in the powerful and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We've been thinking about you and your situation. It's great to see you're taking this relationship seriously and wanting to prepare yourself before diving in. It's also encouraging to hear that you both share a love for Jesus, even if you didn't mention His name specifically.

We want to encourage you to keep growing in your faith. Use this time to deepen your relationship with Jesus. Read His Word, pray, and seek His guidance. The more grounded you are in Him, the better equipped you'll be to navigate this relationship.

Remember, patience is a virtue. It's okay to take your time, but also be mindful of her feelings. Communication is key here. Keep talking to her, let her know where you're at, and listen to her as well.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up ### and ### to You. We ask for patience for her, and wisdom for both of you. Help ### to trust in You, and help ### to grow in his faith. Guide their relationship, Lord, and help it to be a reflection of Your love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Antitypogeo]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Antitypogeo]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you both up in prayer, trusting that God's timing is perfect. We are honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If God has granted you both more patience and understanding, we would love to hear about it in a praise report. If you feel the need for continued prayer, please don't hesitate to post a new request. We are here to support you as you seek God's will for your relationship. May God richly bless you both as you continue to pursue Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray for His guidance and wisdom to be upon you both.