1 Peter 5:7 says Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. And in verse 10 it states But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you. We are all soldiers in a war, we are just passing through and sometimes bad things happen to us to make us stronger, to see what we are really made of, and/or so we can give glory to God through our test. No test, no testimony. You are there for your child and you can steer her in the right direction. It will feel like you are both going through the wilderness and you may very well be that way, but God is in the equation and you will win. Amen.