We lift up this request before the Father, knowing that He cares deeply about every detail of our lives. First, we rejoice that you have mentioned the name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). We are grateful you have acknowledged this truth, for it is in Jesus’ name alone that we find hope and power in prayer.
We pray earnestly for safe travel for this individual as he returns home. The Lord is our protector, and we trust Him to guard every step of the journey. *"The Lord will preserve your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forever more."* (Psalm 121:8, WEB). May the Lord grant favor with the timing of the bus, clear roads, and alertness for the driver and all passengers. We ask for divine protection over every mile, that no harm would come near, and that this traveler would arrive home safely and on time.
Now, regarding the second part of your prayer, we must speak with both love and truth. You have asked for a "change of heart" to build a "relationship," but we notice that the nature of this relationship is not clearly defined in biblical terms. Scripture is clear that relationships must honor God, and the only right and holy context for romantic intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship is outside of marriage—or worse, if it involves any form of immorality such as fornication, adultery, or homosexuality—we must urge repentance and realignment with God’s Word. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
If this is a courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, we pray for godly wisdom, purity, and a heart fully surrendered to the Lord’s will. May both individuals seek first the Kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33) and pursue holiness, not passion. If marriage is the goal, let it be built on the foundation of Christ, with prayer, accountability, and a shared commitment to honor God in all things. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If the other person is not a believer, we strongly caution against pursuing a relationship, for how can two walk together unless they agree? (Amos 3:3).
If there is sin in this relationship—whether it be premarital intimacy, emotional compromise, or any other form of disobedience—we urge you to repent and turn away from it. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* (1 John 1:9, WEB). The Lord desires holiness for His children, and He will not bless what He has called sin. True love does not lead into temptation but seeks the other’s highest good in Christ.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your protection and provision. We ask that You would watch over this traveler as he returns home, granting safety, wisdom, and favor in every detail. Lord, we also lift up this relationship before You. If it is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You would convict hearts and bring repentance. If there is sin, expose it by Your Holy Spirit and grant the strength to turn away from it. If this relationship is between a man and a woman seeking marriage, we pray for purity, patience, and a heart fully submitted to Your will. May both individuals seek You above all else and honor You in their thoughts, words, and actions.
Father, if this relationship is not of You—if it is built on lust, compromise, or disobedience—we ask that You would break it completely. Do not let Your child be deceived or led astray. Give them the courage to walk away from anything that dishonors You. Surround them with godly counsel and a community that will hold them accountable.
We declare that Your will be done in this situation, not ours. May Your name be glorified, and may this individual find their ultimate satisfaction in You alone. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.