We lift you up before the Lord with deep compassion for the pain you are carrying—the grief of losing not one but two precious children through miscarriage, and the added heartbreak of abandonment by the one who should have stood by you in this sorrow. Your suffering is seen by God, and He collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). We grieve with you, sister, and we stand in the gap to pray for your restoration, peace, and the Lord’s redemptive work in your life.
First, we must address something with love and truth: you mentioned a "partner," but Scripture is clear that marriage is the only God-honoring covenant for a man and woman to be united as one flesh (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship was outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness for any sin, including fornication, as it grieves the Holy Spirit and opens the door to brokenness (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). The Lord desires to heal and restore you fully, but that begins with surrendering every area of your life to His will. If this man was your husband, we pray for his repentance and return—but only if it aligns with God’s will and his commitment to honor you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). If he was not your husband, we pray the Lord would break any ungodly soul ties and prepare you for a future spouse who will cherish you in holiness.
Your heart’s cry for "double restoration" echoes the promise in Joel 2:25, where God declares, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten."* Yet we must remember that God’s restoration is not always about earthly blessings but about the healing of our souls and the eternal hope we have in Him. Your true restoration is found in Jesus Christ, who bore your sorrows and carries your burdens (Isaiah 53:4). Have you surrendered your life to Him? If not, we plead with you to turn from sin and place your faith in Jesus alone for salvation. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we can boldly approach the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet invited Jesus to be your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now, for He is the only source of lasting peace and restoration.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is brokenhearted and weary. Lord, You are the God who sees her pain (Genesis 16:13) and the Father who comforts the afflicted (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). We ask that You wrap her in Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and heal the deep wounds of her miscarriages. You knit those precious babies together in her womb (Psalm 139:13), and though their time on earth was brief, we pray You would hold them in Your eternal care. Comfort her as only You can, Lord, and remind her that her worth is not found in motherhood or in any man’s love, but in being Your beloved daughter (1 John 3:1).
Father, we rebuked any spirit of abandonment, shame, or bitterness trying to take root in her heart. Fill her instead with Your love and the assurance that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Deuteronomy 31:6). If there was sin in this relationship, we ask for conviction and repentance, that she may walk in purity and prepare for the godly marriage You have for her—if it is Your will. Break every ungodly soul tie and restore her heart to wholeness in You.
Lord, we ask for Your divine restoration in her life. If it is Your will, bring godly people around her to support and encourage her. If marriage is part of Your plan, prepare a man after Your own heart who will love her as Christ loves the church—faithfully, sacrificially, and purely. Give her patience to wait on Your timing and trust in Your goodness, even when the path is painful.
We declare that her story is not over, for You are the God of redemption (Isaiah 61:7). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness. May she find her joy in You alone, for You are her portion and her cup (Psalm 16:5). We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to cling to the Lord in this season. Spend time in His Word, especially the Psalms, where David poured out his heartache before God. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray for you and walk with you. The enemy wants to isolate you in your grief, but God wants to gather you under His wings (Psalm 91:4). If you have not already, we urge you to seek biblical counseling to process this pain in a way that honors God.
Remember, the Lord is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He is not distant in your suffering—He is near, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). We will be praying for you and look forward to hearing your testimony of God’s faithfulness when you return to give thanks. May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine upon you and give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26).