We lift up your daughter before the Lord with deep concern and urgency, for we see how the enemy is using this man to oppress her spirit and dim the light God has placed within her. The Word of God is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This relationship is not of God, and the behavior of this man is not only unholy but dangerous—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. He is manipulating her with false spirituality, shifting blame to "evil spirits" rather than taking responsibility for his own sinful words and actions. This is deception, and Scripture warns us that *"Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light"* (2 Corinthians 11:14, WEB). A man who refuses to repent, who speaks cruelty into her life, and who drains her strength is not walking in the Spirit of Christ. Jesus said, *"You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? Even so, every good tree produces good fruit; but the corrupt tree produces evil fruit"* (Matthew 7:16-17, WEB). His fruits are rotten, and your daughter deserves far more than this.
We must also address something critical: you mentioned asking "saints" to intercede for your daughter. While we understand your heart’s cry for help, there is only *one* Mediator between God and humanity—*Jesus Christ*. The Bible declares, *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). There is no biblical basis for praying to or through deceased saints, angels, or any other being. Our prayers must be directed to God the Father *in the name of Jesus alone*, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have been placing hope in intercession from anyone other than Christ, we lovingly but firmly urge you to repent and turn wholly to Jesus, who is the *only* way to the Father (John 14:6). He alone has the power to break these chains and set your daughter free.
To your daughter, we say this: You are *not* a doormat. You are a daughter of the Most High God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). The Lord did not create you to be crushed under the weight of another’s sin. He calls you to *"stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and don’t be entangled again with a yoke of bondage"* (Galatians 5:1, WEB). This relationship is a yoke of bondage, and the Lord is calling you to break free. You may feel weak now, but *"he gives power to the weak. He increases the strength of him who has no might"* (Isaiah 40:29, WEB). The same God who parted the Red Sea and raised Jesus from the dead can give you the courage to walk away. He will restore what has been stolen from you—your joy, your confidence, your peace.
We also speak to the spiritual strongholds at work here. The enemy has gained a foothold through lies, fear, and manipulation, but *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4, WEB). We bind every spirit of deception, control, and fear in the name of Jesus, and we declare that your daughter’s eyes will be opened to the truth. We rebuke the spirit of intimidation that has kept her silent and paralyzed. *"The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1, WEB). Fear is not from God—it is a tool of the enemy, and we command it to flee in Jesus’ name.
Now, let us pray with authority and faith:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious daughter who is trapped in a web of deception and emotional abuse. Lord, You see her pain, her exhaustion, and the way her spirit has been worn down. We ask You to *intervene* with Your mighty hand. Break every chain that binds her to this man—chains of fear, lies, and false guilt. Expose his darkness for what it is, Lord, and let her see him through Your eyes, not through the lens of his manipulation.
Father, we ask for a *supernatural strength* to rise up within her. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, who is the Spirit of *power, love, and sound mind* (2 Timothy 1:7). Let her hear Your voice above all others, saying, *"You are mine. You are loved. You are worth more than rubies"* (Proverbs 3:15). Restore her confidence, Lord, and remind her that she is *not* defined by his words or his treatment of her. She is defined by *You*, and You call her *beloved*.
We pray for godly wisdom to surround her—through Your Word, through godly counsel, and through the still, small voice of Your Spirit. Place people in her path who will speak *truth* into her life and help her see the way out. If she has been blinded by his lies, Lord, *open her eyes*. If she has been weakened by his words, *renew her strength*. If she has been isolated, *bring her into community* with believers who will uplift her and point her to You.
We also pray for *conviction* upon this man. Lord, if he claims to be holy, let him be confronted with the holiness of God. Let him see his sin for what it is, and may he either repent *truly* or be removed from her life entirely. Do not let him continue to harm Your daughter. *"Vengeance is mine; I will repay,"* says the Lord (Romans 12:19). We trust You to handle him justly.
Father, we declare *freedom* over her in the name of Jesus. We speak *life* into her spirit, *restoration* to her soul, and *hope* for her future. Let her know that You have plans for her—plans for *welfare*, not for evil, to give her a *future and a hope* (Jeremiah 29:11). Surround her with Your angels, Lord, and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. Let her *run* to You, not to him.
And finally, Lord, we pray for this mother who is heartbroken for her daughter. Comfort her, strengthen her, and give her the words to speak when the time is right. Let her be a beacon of Your love and truth in her daughter’s life. Unify them in Your Spirit, and let this trial draw them both closer to You.
We pray all these things in the *powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ*, our Lord and Savior. Let Your will be done, and let Your kingdom come in this situation. We trust You, Lord. *Amen.*
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To you, dear mother, we say: *Do not grow weary in praying*. Keep standing in the gap for your daughter, but always direct your prayers to God through Jesus Christ alone. Share Scripture with her—especially verses about her identity in Christ and God’s love for her. If she is open to it, encourage her to seek godly counseling from a pastor or biblical counselor who can help her see the truth and find practical steps to leave this relationship. Remind her that *no* relationship is worth her peace, her dignity, or her walk with God. If she is a believer, urge her to cling to Jesus above all else. If she is not yet saved, pray that this trial would drive her to the cross, where true freedom is found.
We will continue to lift her up in prayer. Stay strong in the Lord, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He has not forgotten your daughter. *He will fight for her.*