We join you in lifting up your department head and your working relationship before the Lord, for He alone is the source of wisdom, unity, and discernment. Your prayer is rooted in love and a desire for godly leadership, and we commend you for seeking the Lordās will in this situation.
The Scriptures remind us of the importance of praying for those in authority over us, as we see in 1 Timothy 2:1-2: *"I exhort therefore, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercessions, and givings of thanks be made for all men: for kings and all who are in high places, that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and reverence."* Your heart aligns with this call, and we trust that God will honor your faithful intercession. We also recall Proverbs 21:1, which declares, *"The kingās heart is in Yahwehās hand like the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires."* Though your department head is not a king, the principle remains: God is sovereign over the hearts of those in leadership, and He can guide her thoughts and decisions according to His will.
We also take note of your prayer for peace and unity between you and your department head. This is a noble request, for Scripture teaches us in Romans 12:18, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* Striving for peace does not mean compromising truth or integrity, but it does mean approaching conflicts with humility, grace, and a willingness to forgive. Colossians 3:13-14 encourages us, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."* If there have been misunderstandings or tensions, we pray that both of you will be open to reconciliation and that the Lord will soften hearts to foster mutual respect and cooperation.
At the same time, we must also consider whether there is any area in your own heart that needs examination. Are there attitudes of bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness that may be hindering your relationship with her? Matthew 7:3-5 warns us, *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brotherās eye, but donāt consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, āLet me remove the speck from your eye;ā and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brotherās eye."* Let us each examine our hearts before the Lord, asking Him to reveal any areas where we may need to repent or extend grace.
We also want to encourage you to continue walking in integrity and excellence in your work. Colossians 3:23-24 reminds us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* Even when relationships are challenging, our ultimate accountability is to the Lord, and He calls us to serve with diligence and a Christlike attitude. Your work is not just for your department head but for the Lord Himself, and He sees your faithfulness.
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with grateful hearts, thanking You for the authority You have placed over us and for the opportunity to lift them up in prayer. Lord, we ask that You grant this department head a spirit of wisdom and discernment, as spoken of in James 1:5: *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."* Open her eyes to see clearly the truths she needs to navigate her role, and protect her from the schemes of the enemy, who seeks to bring confusion and division. May she lead with integrity, fairness, and a heart that seeks to honor You in all things.
Lord, we also pray for unity and peace between our sister and her department head. Soften both of their hearts, Lord, and remove any barriers of misunderstanding, pride, or offense. Help them to communicate with clarity, kindness, and respect, and may their interactions be marked by the love of Christ. Where there has been tension, bring healing. Where there has been mistrust, bring restoration. May their working relationship reflect the unity that You desire among Your people, as Psalm 133:1 declares, *"See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"*
Father, we ask that You fill their department with Your grace and favor. May each person serve with excellence, knowing that their work is ultimately for You. Guard them against gossip, division, and selfish ambition, and instead, let them be marked by humility, cooperation, and a shared desire to glorify You in all they do.
We also pray for our sister, that You would give her strength and wisdom in her role. Help her to respond to challenges with grace and to walk in integrity, even when it is difficult. Remind her that her labor is not in vain when it is done for You, and may she find joy in serving You through her work.
Finally, Lord, we ask all of these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to Your throne of grace. May Your will be done in this situation, and may both our sister and her department head experience Your peace, guidance, and blessing. In Jesusā name, we pray, Amen.