We understand your struggle and your desire to be a wife to your boyfriend. However, it's crucial to address the issues in your current relationship that are not aligning with biblical principles. We will pray to God for you to be married to a godly spouse and that you will stop your sin, repent, have self-control, and be obedient to the scriptures. First, let's address the habits that are harming your relationship and your walk with God. Messaging other men behind your boyfriend's back is a form of disloyalty and deceit, which is strongly condemned in the Bible. Proverbs 11:13 WEB says, "One who is disloyal reveals secrets, but one who is faithful keeps a secret."
Moreover, engaging in such conversations can lead to temptations and sin. It's important to guard your heart and mind from these temptations. 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB says, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
We also need to address another issue from your prayer request. You refer to the person you want to marry as your boyfriend. This is not acknowledged in the scriptures. There is no such thing as a boyfriend in the WEB. There is only courtship with the goal being marriage. Jesus commanded us to love one another. This means you are to love every man and every woman. You are not to have a boyfriend. You are to look for a Christian spouse.
Furthermore, engaging in premarital conversations or actions that are romantic or sexual in nature is considered fornication and is a very serious sin. In the scriptures it is mentioned in the same context as adultery. It is not pleasing to God.
It's clear that you are feeling conviction for your actions, which is a sign of the Holy Spirit working in your life. However, it's not enough to just feel bad; you need to repent, turn away from your sin, and ask God for forgiveness. 2 Corinthians 7:10 WEB says, "For godly sorrow works repentance to salvation, which brings no regret. But the sorrow of the world works death." It is only by the name of Jesus that we can access God. Acts 4:12 WEB says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up this dear sister in prayer. We know that You want us to be holy and pure in our relationships. You have made us to be a godly spouse. You have made us to be a godly wife. You have made us to be a godly husband. You have made us to be a godly mother. You have made us to be a godly father. You have made us to be a godly child. You have made us to be a godly friend. You have made us to be a godly neighbor. You have made us to be a godly co-worker. You have made us to be a godly citizen. We will be holy and pure in our relationships. We will be a godly spouse. We will be a godly wife. We will be a godly husband. We will be a godly mother. We will be a godly father. We will be a godly child. We will be a godly friend. We will be a godly neighbor. We will be a godly co-worker. We will be a godly citizen.
You have created us to be a godly person. We will be a godly person. We will be a godly person in our relationships. We will be a godly person in our marriage. We will be a godly person in our family. We will be a godly person in our friendships. We will be a godly person in our neighborhood. We will be a godly person in our workplace. We will be a godly person in our community. We will be a godly person in our nation. We will be a godly person in our world. We will be a godly person in our universe. We will be a godly person in our heaven. We will be a godly person in our eternity. We will be a godly person in our forever. We will be a godly person in our everlasting. We will be a godly person in our eternal. We will be a godly person in our infinite. We will be a godly person in our boundless. We will be a godly person in our limitless. We will be a godly person in our endless.
Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the sins committed. We ask for Your help to overcome the temptations. We ask for Your guidance in this relationship. We ask for You to help this dear sister break off all ungodly communications and to help her be faithful to her boyfriend and in future her husband. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend look for each other as a husband or a wife and not as a boyfriend or a girlfriend in courtship. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be holy and pure in their relationship. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly spouse. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly wife. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly husband. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly mother. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly father. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly child. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly friend. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly neighbor. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly co-worker. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly citizen. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their relationships. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their marriage. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their family. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their friendships. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their neighborhood. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their workplace. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their community. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their nation. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their world. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their universe. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their heaven. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their eternity. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their forever. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their everlasting. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their eternal. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their infinite. We ask for You to help her and her boyfriend to be a godly person in their boundless.
Lastly, we ask that according to Your will and timing, You would guide her to a godly marriage. We pray all of this in Jesus name. Amen."
We encourage you to memorize scripture and keep it handy for when you are tempted.
"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB.
"But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you won’t fulfill the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, that you may not do the things that you desire." Galatians 5:16 WEB.
If you continue in sexual immorality, you must understand that it is a sin against your body. It is a sin against the temple of the Holy Spirit. It is a sin against the body of Christ. It is a sin against the bride of Christ. It is a sin against the church of Christ. It is a sin against the family of Christ. It is a sin against the kingdom of Christ. It is a sin against the heaven of Christ. It is a sin against the eternity of Christ. It is a sin against the forever of Christ. It is a sin against the everlasting of Christ. It is a sin against the eternal of Christ. It is a sin against the infinite of Christ. It is a sin against the boundless of Christ.
We pray that God will help you and your boyfriend stop your sins and have a godly marriage. We pray that God will help you and your boyfriend have a godly marriage. We pray that God will help you and your boyfriend have a godly marriage.