We hear your heart’s cry for healing and restoration in your relationship, and we come before the Lord together, seeking His wisdom, grace, and intervention. First, we must address the foundation of this request with truth and love. Scripture is clear that relationships must align with God’s design, and we see in your words a longing for something beautiful—love, patience, forgiveness, and perseverance. However, we must gently but firmly rebuke the use of the term "partner," as it does not reflect the biblical standard for relationships. God’s Word calls us to pursue marriage—a covenant between one man and one woman—as the only holy and honorable union (Hebrews 13:4, Genesis 2:24). If you and this person are not married, we urge you to consider whether this relationship is honoring to God. If it involves intimacy outside of marriage, that is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this is a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly remind you that God’s design for marriage and sexuality is between a man and a woman, and any deviation from that is sin (Romans 1:26-27, Leviticus 18:22).
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, who is the only way to the Father (John 14:6). There is no healing, no restoration, and no true love apart from Him. Salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ, who died for our sins and rose again so that we might have eternal life (Acts 4:12, Romans 10:9). If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we pray that you would do so today, for apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5).
Now, let us lift this situation to the Lord in prayer, trusting Him to work in ways that bring glory to His name:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble and repentant hearts, seeking Your mercy and grace for this situation. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will clearly to this dear one. If this relationship is not in alignment with Your Word, we pray for conviction, repentance, and the strength to walk away. If marriage is Your plan, we ask that You would bring this couple to a place of holiness, purity, and commitment before You. Father, we pray for healing in their hearts—where there has been hurt, bring Your balm of Gilead. Where there has been anger, teach them to be slow to speak and quick to listen (James 1:19). Where there has been unforgiveness, soften their hearts to extend the same grace You have given us (Colossians 3:13). Lord, we ask that You would fill them with Your love—a love that is patient, kind, not self-seeking, and keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). May they seek You first in all things, and may their relationship reflect Your glory.
We rebuke any spirit of division, pride, or selfishness that has crept into this relationship, and we declare that Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, would guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Father, we pray that they would build their relationship on the solid rock of Your Word, so that when the storms come, they will not be shaken (Matthew 7:24-25). Give them the faith to never give up on one another, but to fight for their relationship in a way that honors You. May they grow in understanding, compassion, and unity, always pointing each other toward You.
Lord, if this person does not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of their salvation. Draw them to Yourself, reveal Your love to them, and let them experience the transforming power of the Holy Spirit. For those who do know You, we ask that You would renew their minds and hearts, aligning their desires with Yours. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all these things will be added unto them (Matthew 6:33).
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the promise that You are working all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28). We trust You to bring beauty from ashes and to restore what has been broken. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in this season. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with godly counsel—men and women who will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. If this relationship is not honoring to God, do not be afraid to let it go, trusting that He has something better in store. If marriage is the path, pursue it with purity, intentionality, and a heart fully surrendered to Christ. Remember, God is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).
