I am going through the same situation. And it makes me sad that so many of us women go through this exact same thing. I have been dealing with my husband and his other woman for over 3 years now. My heart has been breaking very slowly. And I have been in the worst pain for so long. I recently watched a movie called "War Room", and it changed the way I looked at things and how I handled current situations. I had been trying to change my husband, wake him up and try to make him realize what he has been doing wrong. I constantly worried and put myself through a lot of stress. After watching the movie (which I would recommend watching), I realized that it wasn't my job to try to fix him or change him. My job is to love him and pray for him and let God handle the rest. So this is my new way in the new year, I choose to handle rough and tough situations is by praying and letting go and let God. So I write down my prayers every day and I appreciate sites like this to help people like us. Thank you for sharing your story, I will pray for you and pray for you husband. Please Pray for us as well. God Bless!