Prayer for my daughter and her relationship with her boyfriend

Tyriolfield

Disciple of Prayer
Please pray with me in the name of Jesus for God to sort out these issues. I previously asked for prayer for my daughter’s boyfriend (who she is dating to marry and they express that they desire to be holy relationally until marriage). He lost his funding for college because his dad stopped paying. So he lost his place on the football team also. He is struggling. He has been out of school now for about 2 weeks. He is lost and doesn’t know what to do. He and my daughter do a daily devotional together so he is seeking the Lord. But I don’t know if he is seeking direction because he has grown very involved in a video game. My daughter is stressed and worried about the future with him not pursuing anything career wise or education. And she feels like she is competing with the game for attention. I know it’s an escape for him but it does seem to have become a stumbling block. Please help me with how to pray for this and believing with me for a do one intervention and grace and mercy that this won’t be an area where the enemy can diode and conquer. Her boyfriend has lost so much in the way of family and there are general sins and curses that he battles, like gambling. He don’t have a relationship with his mom at all and his dad has left him with his school debt. He tends to shut down emotionally and not cope. I’m praying he will grow and be a man of God that takes these situations and overcomes by the power of the Holy Spirit!
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your daughter and her boyfriend in prayer, seeking God’s intervention, wisdom, and healing in their lives. Father, we thank You for their desire to honor You in their relationship and for their commitment to purity until marriage. We ask that You strengthen that resolve and protect their hearts from temptation, for Your Word warns us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Lord, guard their minds and bodies as they wait for Your perfect timing for marriage.

We also lift up this young man, who is facing overwhelming challenges—financial strain, the loss of his education, the rejection of his family, and the weight of past sins and generational strongholds. Father, we rebuke the spirit of escapism that has taken root in his life through video games, for we know that *"no temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). Lord, break the hold of this distraction and replace it with a hunger for Your purpose and direction. We declare that he is not defined by his circumstances but by Your love and calling. *"For I know the plans I have for you," says the Lord, "plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11).

We also address the sin of gambling in his life, for Your Word is clear: *"He who loves pleasure will be a poor man. He who loves wine and oil won’t be rich"* (Proverbs 21:17). Lord, we ask that You convict his heart of this destructive habit and replace it with a spirit of stewardship and self-control. We pray for emotional healing from the wounds inflicted by his parents—rejection, abandonment, and financial betrayal. Father, You are the perfect Father who never leaves nor forsakes us (Deuteronomy 31:6). Comfort him with Your love and teach him to process his pain in healthy ways, rather than shutting down or numbing himself.

For your daughter, Lord, we ask that You grant her peace and discernment. It is understandable that she feels stressed and uncertain about the future, but we pray that she will not carry burdens that are not hers to bear. *"Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved"* (Psalm 55:22). Give her wisdom in how to support her boyfriend without enabling unhealthy patterns. Help her to encourage him toward godly ambition, education, and responsibility, while also trusting You with the outcome. Remind her that her worth and security are found in You alone, not in his circumstances.

We also pray for a divine intervention—a moment of clarity and conviction where this young man surrenders fully to Your will. Lord, raise up godly mentors in his life—men who can speak truth, accountability, and encouragement into his situation. Break the generational curses of addiction, financial irresponsibility, and emotional detachment in his family line. We declare that *"if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new"* (2 Corinthians 5:17). Let this be his testimony!

Father, we ask that You would open doors for this young man—whether in education, employment, or ministry—that align with Your purpose for his life. Give him the courage to step out in faith, even when it feels uncertain. We pray for financial provision, not just for his immediate needs, but so that he can be a good steward and provider in the future. *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19).

Most of all, Lord, we pray that both of them would grow deeper in their relationship with You. Let this season of struggle draw them closer to Your heart and to one another, with a shared commitment to building a marriage that honors You. We declare that the enemy will not have victory over their lives or their future. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is of me," says the Lord* (Isaiah 54:17).

Heavenly Father, we trust You to work all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). Give them patience, faith, and perseverance as they wait on You. May this season refine them, strengthen their character, and prepare them for the blessings You have in store. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who overcame the world and who holds their future in His hands. Amen.
 
We're right there with you, standing in faith for your daughter and her boyfriend. Let's lift them up together in prayer, asking God to intervene and guide their steps.

Lord, we thank You for their desire to honor You in their relationship, and for their commitment to purity until marriage. Please strengthen their resolve and protect their hearts from temptation. Help them to flee from sexual immorality, remembering that their bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. Guard their minds and bodies as they wait for Your perfect timing for marriage.

We also lift up this young man, who's facing overwhelming challenges. Father, we rebuke the spirit of escapism that's taken root in his life through video games. Break the hold of this distraction and replace it with a hunger for Your purpose and direction. We declare that he is not defined by his circumstances but by Your love and calling. You have plans for him, plans to give him hope and a future.

We also address the sin of gambling in his life. Lord, convict his heart of this destructive habit and replace it with a spirit of stewardship and self-control. We pray for emotional healing from the wounds inflicted by his parents - rejection, abandonment, and financial betrayal. Comfort him with Your love and teach him to process his pain in healthy ways.

For your daughter, Lord, we ask that You grant her peace and discernment. Help her to support her boyfriend without enabling unhealthy patterns. Give her wisdom in encouraging him toward godly ambition, education, and responsibility, while trusting You with the outcome. Remind her that her worth and security are found in You alone, not in his circumstances.

We also pray for a divine intervention - a moment of clarity and conviction where this young man surrenders fully to Your will. Lord, raise up godly mentors in his life - men who can speak truth, accountability, and encouragement into his situation. Break the generational curses of addiction, financial irresponsibility, and emotional detachment in his family line. We declare that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.

Father, we ask that You would open doors for this young man - whether in education, employment, or ministry - that align with Your purpose for his life. Give him the courage to step out in faith, even when it feels uncertain. We pray for financial provision, not just for his immediate needs, but so that he can be a good steward and provider in the future.

Most of all, Lord, we pray that both of them would grow deeper in their relationship with You. Let this season of struggle draw them closer to Your heart and to one another, with a shared commitment to building a marriage that honors You. We declare that the enemy will not have victory over their lives or their future.

In Jesus' name, we trust You to work all things together for their good. Give them patience, faith, and perseverance as they wait on You. May this season refine them, strengthen their character, and prepare them for the blessings You have in store. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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