We join you in lifting up your sisters and this family situation before the Lord, and we are grateful that you have brought this request in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Your prayer reflects a heart that longs for unity and restoration, and we know that God honors such desires when they are rooted in love and aligned with His Word.
The strife you describe is a painful reminder of how easily worldly concerns—like money, responsibility, and perceived unfairness—can divide even the closest of families. Yet Scripture calls us to something higher: *"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace"* (Ephesians 4:2-3, WEB). This is not just a suggestion but a command for believers, especially within families where the bonds should reflect Christ’s love most clearly.
We must also address the danger of bitterness taking root, for the Bible warns: *"Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:15, WEB). If resentment is allowed to grow, it will poison not only your relationships but also your own heart. Forgiveness is not optional for the Christian—it is a direct reflection of the forgiveness we have received in Christ. Jesus said, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). This is a sobering truth, and we urge you to examine your heart and release any unforgiveness, trusting God to bring justice and restoration in His timing.
As for the business, it is wise to remember that all we have belongs to God, and He calls us to steward it with integrity and fairness. *"Don’t overwork to be rich. Because of your own understanding, stop!"* (Proverbs 23:4, WEB). If the burden feels unequal, it may be time to have an honest but loving conversation with your sisters—not in accusation, but in humility, seeking a solution that honors God and preserves your relationship. *"A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1, WEB). Pray for the right words and the right heart before approaching them, and trust the Holy Spirit to guide the conversation.
Now, let us pray together for you and your sisters:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family and the brokenness they are experiencing. Lord, You see the pain, the misunderstandings, and the weight of responsibility that has caused division. We ask that You soften the hearts of these sisters, removing pride, selfishness, and any spirit of contention. Replace it with Your love, which is patient and kind, not envious or boastful (1 Corinthians 13:4). Father, remind them that family is a gift from You, and unity is a testimony of Your goodness.
Lord, we pray for wisdom in how to handle the business fairly, that no one would feel exploited or overlooked. Give them clarity in communication and a spirit of cooperation. Where there has been neglect or unfairness, bring conviction and repentance. Where there has been bitterness, bring forgiveness. Where there has been weariness, bring renewed strength and hope.
We rebuke any spirit of division or strife in Jesus’ name, declaring that this family will walk in unity and love. *"How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity!"* (Psalm 133:1, WEB). May their reconciliation bring glory to Your name and be a witness to others of Your power to restore.
Father, we also ask that You guard the heart of the one who has brought this request. Protect them from discouragement and fill them with Your peace as they trust You to work in this situation. Remind them that You are their Provider and Defender, and they need not strive in their own strength.
Finally, Lord, we pray that this family would seek You above all else—above money, above being "right," above temporary successes. May their greatest desire be to honor You in their words, actions, and relationships. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Mediator and Peace. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, beloved, and trust that God is at work even when you cannot see it. *"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). Keep praying, keep loving, and keep pointing your sisters to Christ. He is able to do far more than we can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).
