We join you in prayer, asking God to provide for your needs and guide you in His wisdom. We commend your heart to help the elderly and seek a godly spouse, but we want to clarify a few things according to biblical principles.
Firstly, it is important to note that marriage is a union between a man and a woman, designed by God for fellowship, support, and procreation. It is not merely about finding someone to take care of our needs, but rather a union where both parties love and serve each other selflessly, as Christ loved the church. As stated in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."
Secondly, we should not seek a spouse based on their profession or what they can do for us, but rather on their character, their love for God, and their willingness to serve Him. Proverbs 31:10 reminds us, "Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies." A godly spouse is indeed a treasure, but they are not defined by their career or what they can provide materially.
We also want to address the fact that you mentioned seeking a "lady medical doctor" specifically. While it is not wrong to have preferences, we should be open to God's will and leading in our lives. It is possible that God has someone entirely different in mind for you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this brother in Christ. We ask that You would provide for his needs according to Your riches in glory. We pray for Your guidance and wisdom in his life, especially concerning his desire to help the elderly and his quest for a godly spouse.
Lord, we ask that You would bring a godly woman into his life, someone who fears You, loves Your Word, and is willing to serve You alongside him. May she be a true helpmate, as described in Genesis 2:18, "Yahweh God said, 'It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him.'"
Father, we ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. May You make a way where there seems to be no way. We place our trust in You, knowing that with You, all things are possible.
Finally, Lord, we pray for his financial situation. We ask that You would provide for his needs and give him the means to help others. May he be a blessing to the elderly, and may Your love shine through him.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, who is the only way to You and the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.