Prayer for marrige restoration

[Anonymous]

I was suffering deeply. To feel loved by my husband as you intend a husband to love his wife and take responsibility for his wife and children keeping us his priority before any other earthy man and woman and famil and friends and even above his work and pride He criticized everything I do and say lately. He blames me for his wrong doing and habits he blames me for his doen fall and him chasing money wrong way quick money bu trading and all day nit giving much tome go family. Its like its nitntje same person ive marry. We used ti communicate all fay and night and laugh and thats why made us marry each other and now we hardly even communicate it feels its heavines,". Ever since i conceived second child as a girl he desired a boy he has been acting so different knowing his wife had complicated pregnancy he stilll choose to trade and soend anytime either me just chasing his happiness and else palace. We had argument cause i saw him following call girls and Women on instagram profile and he was following many girls with unholy intentions and when i asked him he got angry and arguing with me why inhad to look on who he follows on instagram when i was carrying our child he clkept trading and after out argument on this instagram talk he lost major money in tadong which caused termpil and depression and theb he lost his job. He hurt me a lot in between all this with words with not being there to support emotional during phase of high risk pregnancy just chasing his own happiness, he wanted a boy and i had conceived a girl he kept telling me his parent and him can do anything to have a boy and other women are willing to carry his child cause his parents are rich and so many hurtful things but i still stayed grounded crying all through pregnancy praying him. He has been touch with many women form his past relationship and he kept telling me his marry me cause he loved me and suddenly his behavior has changed it just feel like he has been very selfish lately . Ever since he started hurting me his downfalls started happening he lost a good job loss lots of money in trading. He had major deprssivr thoughts and he is blaming me and the place we live in which is my parents home its been blessing us fir 2 years nitnhaving to worry about paying rents or utilities still he keeps blaming us for his downfall and it has been sad situation i still love him but it hurts when he does hurtful things please intervene on my behalf. I don't even know what to pray i am still staying humble trying to love him. Please pray to restore love harmony and joy Please pray for god to bring conviction to my husband for his wrong doing and turn away from sin and temptation Please pray that non other women will have his children or have any ungodly relationship with any other women outside of the marrige. Please pray Lord to teach him to love and prioritize his wife and daughters and see us a his biggest blessings . Restore and shile our marrige form scheme of the enemy and husband to be a loving husand and father, Prayer for new born baby ti be in health and for her protection from seen and unseen danger God to destroy every unholy relationship my husband have had in past and still trying to stay in touch Also husband to stop belittling me because of my education lifestyle and see me through gods love For the man I love to become my partner not enemies . Our home touched and restored by the grace of God. God transform your marriage and your family, and you want to discover the journey that turned my brokenness into a testimony…

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and brokenness in your heart, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting up your marriage, your husband, and your precious family. The Word of God tells us in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it." Your husband is called to love you sacrificially, to cherish you, and to prioritize you and your children above all else. It grieves us to hear how he has fallen short of this calling, and we rebuke the spirit of selfishness, pride, and ungodly desires that have taken root in his heart. We declare that these things have no place in your marriage, and we command them to leave in the mighty name of Jesus.

The Bible is clear in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 about what love looks like: "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." Your husband’s actions, criticizing you, blaming you, chasing after worldly gain, and entertaining unholy relationships, are not aligned with this kind of love. We rebuke the spirit of accusation and blame that has been spoken over you, and we declare that you are not responsible for his choices or his downfall. The enemy seeks to destroy your marriage, but we stand on the promise of Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce,” says Yahweh, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence!” says Yahweh of Armies. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t deal treacherously."

We also address the sin of adultery and emotional unfaithfulness in your husband’s life. Following women with unholy intentions, engaging with past relationships, and even entertaining the idea of having children with other women are grave sins that break the covenant of marriage. Jesus said in Matthew 5:28, "But I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." We rebuke these ungodly connections and command every unholy soul tie to be broken in the name of Jesus. We pray that God would bring deep conviction to your husband’s heart, that he would repent and turn away from these sins, and that he would be restored to the man God created him to be.

Your humility and love for him, even in the midst of such pain, are a testament to the grace of God in your life. The Bible tells us in 1 Peter 3:1-2, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear." Your quiet strength and faithfulness are powerful, and we believe God will honor that. However, we must also encourage you to set boundaries where necessary. Love does not mean enduring abuse, whether emotional or verbal. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."

We lift up your precious newborn daughter and declare God’s protection over her. Psalm 121:7-8 says, "Yahweh will keep you from all evil. He will keep your soul. Yahweh will keep your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forever more." We pray that she would grow up in a home filled with the love and presence of God, and that she would never know the pain of division or strife. We also pray for your firstborn child, that they would feel secure and loved, and that they would see their father step into the role God has called him to as a protector and provider.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the brokenness, and the ungodly patterns that have taken root in this home. We ask that You would intervene in power and might, breaking every chain of selfishness, pride, and unfaithfulness in her husband’s life. Bring deep conviction to his heart, Lord, and turn him away from sin and temptation. Restore in him the love and devotion he once had for his wife and children. Teach him to prioritize his family as You intend, to cherish his wife, and to lead his home with humility and grace.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of accusation and blame that has been spoken over this sister. We declare that she is not responsible for her husband’s choices, and we ask that You would heal the wounds in her heart caused by his words and actions. Fill her with Your peace, Your strength, and Your unshakable love. Help her to stand firm in faith, even when the circumstances seem impossible. Give her wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to speak truth in love.

Lord, we pray for this marriage to be restored to the beauty and harmony You intended. Break every unholy connection in her husband’s life, every past relationship, every temptation, every ungodly desire. Let no other woman have a place in his heart or life. We declare that this marriage is a covenant before You, and we ask that You would rebuild the trust, communication, and love that have been lost. Let their home be filled with Your presence, Your joy, and Your peace.

We pray for their children, Lord, especially their newborn daughter. Protect her from all harm, seen and unseen. Surround her with Your angels and let her grow up in the safety of Your love. Heal any wounds in their firstborn child’s heart and help them to feel secure in their parents’ love.

Father, we ask that You would turn this brokenness into a testimony of Your power and grace. Let this family be a light to others, showing what restoration and redemption look like through Christ. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the name by which we are saved and through which we have access to You. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue standing on God’s promises and seeking Him in prayer. The road to restoration may not be easy, but it is possible through Christ. Surround yourself with godly counsel and community who can support you and hold you accountable. Remember, God sees your faithfulness, and He will not abandon you. Isaiah 41:10 says, "Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy and bewildering this all is right now. You're carrying a complicated pregnancy, caring for a young child, and longing for the husband you remember, the one who used to laugh and talk with you. Instead, you're met with criticism, blame, and distance, and that cuts deep. What you're describing isn't small or petty; being belittled, blamed for another adult's choices, and made to feel like a burden while you're growing a new life is genuinely painful. We ache with you over that loneliness.

It makes sense that you feel unsure even what to pray. When someone's behavior has shifted so drastically, it can leave you disoriented and emotionally exhausted. You've done something very brave by staying grounded, by naming what's happening, and by reaching out like this. That kind of steady, quiet strength matters.

In a situation this layered, pregnancy, emotional strain, a spouse who's pulling away and being hurtful, please make sure you also have a trusted person in your corner nearby. That could be a wise pastor, a Christian counselor, or a mature friend who can sit with you, hear the whole picture, and help you discern wise next steps. You're not meant to navigate this kind of turmoil alone, and having someone who can support you practically and spiritually is not a sign of weak faith; it's a wise way to care for yourself and your children.

We're lifting this with you now.

Lord Jesus, we come to you with a hurting wife and mother. You see the tears she's cried, the words that have wounded her, and the confusion that won't seem to lift. Please be her steady shelter right now. Guard her heart and her body as she carries this precious baby girl, give her strength and surround her little one with health and protection. Bring clear, undeniable conviction to her husband. Unmask the sin and selfishness that have entangled him, and let him feel the weight of what he's doing to his own family. Sever any unholy connection he's pursuing and turn his heart completely away from fantasy and escape and back toward the real life you've given him with his wife and daughters. Restore what the enemy is trying to steal. Give her wisdom, give her a calm spirit, and put trustworthy people around her who will walk with her through this. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The sorrow you pour out is deep and real, and I do not pass over it lightly. To be wounded in the tenderest place, where love expected kindness and found cruelty, is a grief that only the Man of Sorrows fully knows. Yet, in this brokenness, turn your eyes away from the unfaithfulness of an earthly husband and fix them upon that heavenly Bridegroom who never breaks His covenant. He is a Husband to His people with a love that does not waver with passing whims or sinful desires; He communes lovingly, provides faithfully, and covers His own with a care that no human failure can diminish. When the heart of a bride wanders, it is a grievous offense, but Christ’s heart never wanders from His chosen.

The man you describe is indeed walking in a path of ruin, and you have rightly sensed that his downfalls are not mere accidents, they are the merciful hammer blows of a God who would shatter his false peace. Yet, be not deceived: judgments alone do not produce true repentance. A man may tremble under losses, may weep under affliction, and yet never repent to give God glory. The repentance that saves is not the mere fright of a startled conscience, but a heartfelt turning from sin because of the goodness and love of God. True repentance makes a rainbow with her tears of grief for sin and her glances of hope at the cross of Christ.

Pray then, not chiefly for his circumstances to mend, but that the goodness of God might lead him to repentance. How many tokens of undeserved kindness has he spurned, the gift of a faithful wife, the shelter of a home, the life of a child? These are God’s cords of love, drawing him from the pit. Ask the Lord to send that look which broke Peter’s heart: one glance from the eyes of the risen Christ can dissolve the stoniest soul in streams of godly sorrow. And when repentance comes, it will not be a bare acknowledgment of fault, but a loathing of the sin that wounded his God and his wife; it will be followed by fruits meet for repentance, a changed walk, a protective love, a holy jealousy for his family.

For your own soul, take care that your suffering does not harden into a root of bitterness. Offer up the sacrifice of a broken and a contrite heart, for the Lord will not despise it. In your tears, cling to this true word: “repentance and remission of sins” are preached together in Christ’s name. Where the Spirit works true repentance, forgiveness blooms full and free. Plead this on behalf of your husband, and also for your own peace. The God who restores the wanderer can make your marriage a new creation, but the work must begin in a hidden place, with a look that is altogether between the Lord and the sinner.

Commit your infant and yourself into the keeping of the Husband of the widow and the Father of the fatherless. He will be a shield from seen and unseen danger. Wait upon Him with patient hope, and in due season He will lift you up. May He teach you both that the sweetest union of spirit comes not by our own mending of outward things, but by a mutual brokenness before the cross, where enmity dies and love is born again.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.