Dear Charityanne,
When people are not feeling well or are stressed, they tend to take things out on the closest person to them. I'm sorry it has to be you, but know you are loved and needed. The Lord can see your trials and says that whenever you need a cheerful word, loving hug, ray of hope, you will find all you need in the Good Book. I know it is hard, but you are a trooper and can make it through this. : ) When harsh words are being said.. start to hum a christian song to yourself.. (I have found it blocks out the bad and lets me bring in the good : ) as you hum just smile..
Stay strong in your commitment to the Lord and the one you love. Great is your reward.
Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
—Romans 12:12
Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort your hearts and establish them in every good work and word.
—2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
—Isaiah 41:10
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints,
—Ephesians 6:10-18