Caluingonmere
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God please expose ### I can't take the lies and deceit anymore I have tried everything lord I place this in your hands
prayer for exposure of cheating
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We understand the deep pain and betrayal you are experiencing, and we grieve with you over the deception that has wounded your heart. The lies and unfaithfulness you describe are not only hurtful but are also a direct violation of God’s design for relationships. Scripture is clear that dishonesty and infidelity are detestable to the Lord, and He calls His people to walk in truth and faithfulness. Proverbs 6:16-19 tells us, *"There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* Infidelity is a form of lying and discord, and it breaks the covenant that should exist in a marriage or courtship.
Before we proceed, we must address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation and answers to our prayers. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* And in John 16:23-24, He tells us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Hitherto, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Without Him, there is no true hope, peace, or access to the Father. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. Only then can you fully experience His comfort, justice, and restoration.
If you are already a believer, we encourage you to always bring your requests before God in the name of Jesus, for it is through Him alone that we have boldness and confidence to approach the throne of grace. Hebrews 4:16 reminds us, *"Let’s therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need."*
Now, regarding the deceit you are facing, we want to remind you that nothing is hidden from the Lord. Hebrews 4:13 declares, *"There isn’t any creature hidden from his sight, but all things are naked and laid open before the eyes of him to whom we must give an account."* If there is unfaithfulness or dishonesty in this relationship, God already sees it, and He will bring the truth to light in His perfect timing. You do not need to take matters into your own hands or manipulate the situation. Instead, trust in the Lord’s justice and sovereignty. Proverbs 16:2 says, *"All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but Yahweh weighs the motives."* And in 1 Corinthians 4:5, we are told, *"Therefore don’t judge anything before the time, until the Lord comes, who will both bring to light the hidden things of darkness and reveal the counsels of the hearts. Then each man will get his praise from God."*
We must also ask: Is this relationship one that honors God? If you are not married to this person, we urge you to consider whether this courtship is aligned with biblical principles. Are you both believers? Are you pursuing marriage with purity and integrity, or has there been sexual immorality? If this is a courtship (not a marriage), and there has been fornication, we must address that this is sin in the eyes of God. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 says, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin, seeking God’s forgiveness and restoration. If this relationship is built on ungodly foundations, it may be time to reevaluate whether it is truly from the Lord.
If you are married, then the betrayal you are experiencing is even more grievous, for marriage is a covenant before God. Malachi 2:14-16 says, *"Yahweh has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously. Yet she is your companion and the wife of your covenant. Did he not make you one, although he had the residue of the Spirit? Why one? He sought a godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For I hate divorce,’ says Yahweh, the God of Israel, ‘and him who covers his garment with violence!’ says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t be unfaithful.'" Infidelity in marriage is a serious violation of this covenant, and while God hates divorce, He also calls for repentance and restoration. If your spouse has been unfaithful, the path forward must include truth, repentance, and a commitment to rebuild the marriage on godly principles—if that is possible. If the unfaithful party is unrepentant, then you must seek the Lord’s wisdom for how to proceed, which may include separation or, in some cases, divorce (Matthew 19:9). But this is a decision that must be bathed in prayer and guided by wise, biblical counsel.
We also want to encourage you to examine your own heart. Have you sought the Lord’s will in this relationship from the beginning? Have you trusted in Him rather than trying to control or fix things in your own strength? Jeremiah 17:9 warns us, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?"* Even in our pain, we must ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal any areas where we, too, may have strayed from His will. Psalm 139:23-24 says, *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."*
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity and worth are not found in this relationship or in the approval of the one who has betrayed you. Your worth is found in Christ alone. If you are in Him, you are deeply loved, fully known, and completely accepted by the Father. No deceit or betrayal can change that. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees your pain, and He is close to you in this moment. Lean on Him, not on your own understanding or efforts.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the weight of deceit and betrayal. Lord, You are the God of all truth, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You expose every lie, every hidden sin, and every unfaithful act in this situation. Bring the truth to light, Lord, not for the sake of harm or vengeance, but for the sake of righteousness, repentance, and restoration. If this relationship is not of You, Lord, we ask that You make it abundantly clear and give our sister the strength to walk away in obedience to Your will. If there has been sexual immorality or any other sin, convict the hearts of those involved and lead them to repentance.
Father, we pray for our sister’s heart, which is broken and weary. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Heal her wounds, Lord, and restore her trust in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the wisdom to set godly boundaries and make decisions that honor You.
If this is a marriage, Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration if it is Your will. Softens hearts, break down walls of pride and deceit, and bring true repentance and healing. If this is not a marriage, Lord, we ask that You make Your will clear. If this relationship is not from You, give our sister the courage to let it go and trust in Your plan for her life. Remind her that You have a good and perfect will for her, and that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6).
We rebuke the spirit of deception and infidelity in the name of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against our sister shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that the truth will prevail. Lord, surround her with godly counsel, wise believers who can speak Your truth into her life and help her navigate this difficult season.
Finally, Father, we pray that our sister would draw closer to You through this trial. Let her find her identity, worth, and peace in You alone. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing and Your justice. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Before we proceed, we must address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation and answers to our prayers. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* And in John 16:23-24, He tells us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Hitherto, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Without Him, there is no true hope, peace, or access to the Father. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. Only then can you fully experience His comfort, justice, and restoration.
If you are already a believer, we encourage you to always bring your requests before God in the name of Jesus, for it is through Him alone that we have boldness and confidence to approach the throne of grace. Hebrews 4:16 reminds us, *"Let’s therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need."*
Now, regarding the deceit you are facing, we want to remind you that nothing is hidden from the Lord. Hebrews 4:13 declares, *"There isn’t any creature hidden from his sight, but all things are naked and laid open before the eyes of him to whom we must give an account."* If there is unfaithfulness or dishonesty in this relationship, God already sees it, and He will bring the truth to light in His perfect timing. You do not need to take matters into your own hands or manipulate the situation. Instead, trust in the Lord’s justice and sovereignty. Proverbs 16:2 says, *"All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but Yahweh weighs the motives."* And in 1 Corinthians 4:5, we are told, *"Therefore don’t judge anything before the time, until the Lord comes, who will both bring to light the hidden things of darkness and reveal the counsels of the hearts. Then each man will get his praise from God."*
We must also ask: Is this relationship one that honors God? If you are not married to this person, we urge you to consider whether this courtship is aligned with biblical principles. Are you both believers? Are you pursuing marriage with purity and integrity, or has there been sexual immorality? If this is a courtship (not a marriage), and there has been fornication, we must address that this is sin in the eyes of God. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 says, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin, seeking God’s forgiveness and restoration. If this relationship is built on ungodly foundations, it may be time to reevaluate whether it is truly from the Lord.
If you are married, then the betrayal you are experiencing is even more grievous, for marriage is a covenant before God. Malachi 2:14-16 says, *"Yahweh has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously. Yet she is your companion and the wife of your covenant. Did he not make you one, although he had the residue of the Spirit? Why one? He sought a godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For I hate divorce,’ says Yahweh, the God of Israel, ‘and him who covers his garment with violence!’ says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t be unfaithful.'" Infidelity in marriage is a serious violation of this covenant, and while God hates divorce, He also calls for repentance and restoration. If your spouse has been unfaithful, the path forward must include truth, repentance, and a commitment to rebuild the marriage on godly principles—if that is possible. If the unfaithful party is unrepentant, then you must seek the Lord’s wisdom for how to proceed, which may include separation or, in some cases, divorce (Matthew 19:9). But this is a decision that must be bathed in prayer and guided by wise, biblical counsel.
We also want to encourage you to examine your own heart. Have you sought the Lord’s will in this relationship from the beginning? Have you trusted in Him rather than trying to control or fix things in your own strength? Jeremiah 17:9 warns us, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?"* Even in our pain, we must ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal any areas where we, too, may have strayed from His will. Psalm 139:23-24 says, *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."*
Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity and worth are not found in this relationship or in the approval of the one who has betrayed you. Your worth is found in Christ alone. If you are in Him, you are deeply loved, fully known, and completely accepted by the Father. No deceit or betrayal can change that. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees your pain, and He is close to you in this moment. Lean on Him, not on your own understanding or efforts.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the weight of deceit and betrayal. Lord, You are the God of all truth, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You expose every lie, every hidden sin, and every unfaithful act in this situation. Bring the truth to light, Lord, not for the sake of harm or vengeance, but for the sake of righteousness, repentance, and restoration. If this relationship is not of You, Lord, we ask that You make it abundantly clear and give our sister the strength to walk away in obedience to Your will. If there has been sexual immorality or any other sin, convict the hearts of those involved and lead them to repentance.
Father, we pray for our sister’s heart, which is broken and weary. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Heal her wounds, Lord, and restore her trust in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the wisdom to set godly boundaries and make decisions that honor You.
If this is a marriage, Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration if it is Your will. Softens hearts, break down walls of pride and deceit, and bring true repentance and healing. If this is not a marriage, Lord, we ask that You make Your will clear. If this relationship is not from You, give our sister the courage to let it go and trust in Your plan for her life. Remind her that You have a good and perfect will for her, and that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6).
We rebuke the spirit of deception and infidelity in the name of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against our sister shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that the truth will prevail. Lord, surround her with godly counsel, wise believers who can speak Your truth into her life and help her navigate this difficult season.
Finally, Father, we pray that our sister would draw closer to You through this trial. Let her find her identity, worth, and peace in You alone. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing and Your justice. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We're here with you, dear friend. We know the pain and confusion you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone. God sees your tears, and He cares deeply about the deceit you're experiencing. In times like these, it's easy to feel helpless, but remember, God is in control, and He will bring truth to light in His perfect timing.
We want to encourage you to trust in God's justice and sovereignty. Proverbs 16:2 reminds us, "All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the motives." God sees all, and He will make all things right. So, let's leave room for God to work, and trust that He has everything under control.
In the meantime, let's also examine our own hearts. Have we sought God's will in this relationship from the beginning? Have we trusted in Him, or have we tried to control things in our own strength? Let's ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal any areas where we may have strayed from His will.
And remember, your worth and identity are not found in this relationship or in the approval of the one who has betrayed you. You are deeply loved, fully known, and completely accepted by the Father. No deceit or betrayal can change that. As Psalm 34:18 reminds us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the weight of deceit and betrayal. Lord, You are the God of all truth, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You would expose every lie, every hidden sin, and every unfaithful act in this situation. Bring the truth to light, Lord, not for the sake of harm or vengeance, but for the sake of righteousness, repentance, and restoration.
If this relationship is not of You, Lord, we ask that You would make it abundantly clear and give our sister the strength to walk away in obedience to Your will. If there has been sexual immorality or any other sin, convict the hearts of those involved and lead them to repentance.
Father, we pray for our sister's heart, which is broken and weary. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Heal her wounds, Lord, and restore her trust in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the wisdom to set godly boundaries and make decisions that honor You.
If this is a marriage, Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration if it is Your will. Soften hearts, break down walls of pride and deceit, and bring true repentance and healing. If this is not a marriage, Lord, we ask that You would make Your will clear. If this relationship is not from You, give our sister the courage to let it go and trust in Your plan for her life. Remind her that You have a good and perfect will for her, and that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in her.
We rebuke the spirit of deception and infidelity in the name of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against our sister shall prosper, and we declare that the truth will prevail. Lord, surround her with godly counsel, wise believers who can speak Your truth into her life and help her navigate this difficult season.
Finally, Father, we pray that our sister would draw closer to You through this trial. Let her find her identity, worth, and peace in You alone. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing and Your justice. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We want to encourage you to trust in God's justice and sovereignty. Proverbs 16:2 reminds us, "All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the motives." God sees all, and He will make all things right. So, let's leave room for God to work, and trust that He has everything under control.
In the meantime, let's also examine our own hearts. Have we sought God's will in this relationship from the beginning? Have we trusted in Him, or have we tried to control things in our own strength? Let's ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal any areas where we may have strayed from His will.
And remember, your worth and identity are not found in this relationship or in the approval of the one who has betrayed you. You are deeply loved, fully known, and completely accepted by the Father. No deceit or betrayal can change that. As Psalm 34:18 reminds us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the weight of deceit and betrayal. Lord, You are the God of all truth, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You would expose every lie, every hidden sin, and every unfaithful act in this situation. Bring the truth to light, Lord, not for the sake of harm or vengeance, but for the sake of righteousness, repentance, and restoration.
If this relationship is not of You, Lord, we ask that You would make it abundantly clear and give our sister the strength to walk away in obedience to Your will. If there has been sexual immorality or any other sin, convict the hearts of those involved and lead them to repentance.
Father, we pray for our sister's heart, which is broken and weary. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that she is not alone. You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Heal her wounds, Lord, and restore her trust in You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, but also give her the wisdom to set godly boundaries and make decisions that honor You.
If this is a marriage, Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration if it is Your will. Soften hearts, break down walls of pride and deceit, and bring true repentance and healing. If this is not a marriage, Lord, we ask that You would make Your will clear. If this relationship is not from You, give our sister the courage to let it go and trust in Your plan for her life. Remind her that You have a good and perfect will for her, and that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in her.
We rebuke the spirit of deception and infidelity in the name of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against our sister shall prosper, and we declare that the truth will prevail. Lord, surround her with godly counsel, wise believers who can speak Your truth into her life and help her navigate this difficult season.
Finally, Father, we pray that our sister would draw closer to You through this trial. Let her find her identity, worth, and peace in You alone. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing and Your justice. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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