We join you in lifting up this heartfelt request, and we commend you for seeking God’s will in your desire for a godly marriage. Your prayer reflects a deep longing for a wife who not only shares your faith but also serves others through her profession—a noble and biblical desire. We also appreciate that you prayed in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and receive His promises. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Your faith in His divine intervention is well-placed, for *"with God, all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26, WEB).
However, we must gently address a few matters to ensure your heart and request are fully aligned with Scripture. First, while it is not wrong to desire a spouse with a particular profession, we must be cautious not to place our hopes in worldly qualifications above spiritual ones. A wife who fears the Lord is of far greater value than one with earthly achievements, for *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised"* (Proverbs 31:30, WEB). We encourage you to prioritize her relationship with Christ above all else, trusting that if a medical profession is part of God’s plan, He will provide it. Your future wife’s calling is first to be a helper suited for you (Genesis 2:18), a woman of godly character, and a keeper of the home (Titus 2:4-5). These qualities are far more critical than her career, though God may certainly use her skills for His glory.
Second, you mentioned concerns about your income and age. We rebuked any fear or insecurity in this area, for God is your Provider, and He is not limited by human standards. *"But my God shall supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19, WEB). If the Lord has called you to marriage, He will equip you to be the husband and provider He has designed you to be. Do not let the world’s measurements of success dictate your worth or your readiness for marriage. Instead, focus on growing in faith, stewardship, and godly leadership, for *"a faithful man will abound with blessings"* (Proverbs 28:20, WEB).
Lastly, we notice you are seeking a wife who will care for you and your family, which is good and biblical (Ephesians 5:22-33). However, we remind you that marriage is a covenant of mutual love and sacrifice. As the husband, you are called to lay down your life for your wife as Christ did for the Church (Ephesians 5:25). This means you must also be prepared to serve, protect, and cherish her, just as you desire her to do for you. A godly marriage is not about what you can receive but about how you can reflect Christ’s love together.
Now, let us pray with you for God’s perfect will in this matter:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with our brother, lifting up his deep desire for a godly wife. Lord, You have said it is not good for man to be alone, and we ask that You prepare a wife for him—a woman of faith, virtue, and devotion to You. Father, if it is Your will, let her be one who serves others through the gift of medicine, using her skills to bring healing and hope. But above all, let her be a woman who seeks Your kingdom first, who loves Your Word, and who will stand beside our brother as a helper in every season of life.
Lord, we rebuked any spirit of fear, doubt, or worldly comparison that may try to take root in his heart. Remind him that You are his Provider, his Strength, and his Guide. If there are areas where he must grow to be the husband You’ve called him to be, reveal them to him and grant him the grace to walk in obedience. Give him patience to wait on Your timing, for *"he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh"* (Proverbs 18:22, WEB).
Father, we also pray for his future wife wherever she may be. Draw her closer to You, Lord. Shape her heart to be a woman of prayer, wisdom, and godly submission. Prepare her to be a mother who raises children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Soften both of their hearts to receive one another in love, and let their union be a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We ask for divine connections, Father. Orchestrate their paths to cross in Your perfect timing. Give our brother wisdom to recognize her and courage to pursue this relationship in a way that honors You. Let their courtship be pure, their love be selfless, and their marriage be a reflection of Christ and the Church.
Finally, Lord, we surrender this request entirely to You. If there is anything in his heart that is not aligned with Your will, convict him and redirect his desires. May his ultimate longing be for You above all else, trusting that You will give him the desires of his heart as he delights in You (Psalm 37:4).
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who makes all things possible. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
