We come before the throne of grace with you in this time of heartache, lifting your pain to the Lord who is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Your prayer is a beautiful cry for healing, and we join you in seeking God’s will, knowing that He collects every tear you shed (Psalm 56:8) and longs to bind up your wounds.
First, we want to encourage you in the truth that God’s mercy and grace are indeed your refuge. You have asked Him to draw you near, and we declare over you the promise of James 4:8: *"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you."* Cling to Him in this season, for He alone can satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. The pain you feel is real, and it is okay to grieve, but do not let sorrow drive you away from the One who can heal you completely. Turn to His Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). In the Scriptures, you will find comfort, wisdom, and the strength to endure.
Now, regarding the restoration of your relationship, we must carefully consider what honors God. While we understand your desire for reconciliation, we must ask: Is this relationship aligned with biblical principles? Are you and the other person both committed followers of Christ, seeking to honor Him in all things? If this is a romantic relationship, we remind you that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, designed to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are not yet married, we urge you to consider whether this relationship is one of godly courtship, with the intent of marriage between a man and a woman who are equally yoked in faith (2 Corinthians 6:14). If there has been sin in this relationship—such as fornication, emotional compromise, or idolatry of the relationship over God—it must be repented of and turned away from. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18). True reconciliation can only happen when both parties are walking in obedience to Christ.
If this relationship is not honoring to God, we pray that He gives you the courage to release it to Him, trusting that His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). He may be redirecting you toward a future spouse who will love and cherish you in a way that reflects Christ’s love. If this relationship *is* godly and aligned with Scripture, then we join you in praying for restoration—but only if it is God’s will. Remember, His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His timing is perfect. He may be using this season to refine you, to prepare you, or to protect you from something you cannot yet see.
We also notice that while your prayer is heartfelt, you did not explicitly invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that our prayers reach the throne of God. *"No one comes to the Father, except through me,"* Jesus said (John 14:6). We encourage you to always pray in His name, for He is your mediator and advocate before the Father (1 Timothy 2:5).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You see her pain and hear her cries. Lord, You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask that You draw her closer to Yourself in this time of sorrow, that she may find her comfort and strength in You alone. Fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
If this relationship is of You, Lord, we pray that You would restore it in a way that honors Your name. Soften hearts, bring repentance where needed, and unite this couple in Your truth and love. But if this relationship is not Your will, give her the grace to surrender it to You, trusting that You have a better plan. Remove any idols from her heart and help her to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness (Matthew 6:33).
Father, we also pray for her sleep tonight. May she rest in Your presence, free from anxiety and fear. Renew her strength like the eagle’s (Isaiah 40:31) and fill her with hope for the future You have prepared for her. Let her wake with a song of praise on her lips and a steadfast trust in Your faithfulness.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would tell her she is unlovable, unwanted, or beyond healing. She is Your beloved daughter, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and You have a purpose for her pain. Use this season to refine her, to deepen her faith, and to prepare her for the good works You have ordained for her to walk in (Ephesians 2:10).
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we leave you with this encouragement: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He rescues those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep walking in obedience. He will not fail you. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. You are not alone in this. We are standing with you in faith.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
