We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's address the issue of your boyfriend not being close to God. It's encouraging that he believes in God, but having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ is what brings us closer to God. It is only by Jesus that we can have access to God. As it is stated in John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It's also stated in Acts 4:10-12 "be it known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, let's discuss your relationship. We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and to pursue a relationship that aligns with biblical principles. This relationship should be more of a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It's stated in Matthew 19:4-6 "He answered, Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh? So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, do not let man tear apart."
Regarding the communication issues you're facing, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. Pray for wisdom and guidance from God before having this conversation. Remember there is nothing wrong with communicating your feelings, but do not try to control or manipulate the situation. If he wants to end the relationship, it is better to trust God and the situation to Him. It is stated in Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, ###, to lift up this relationship. We pray for clear communication and understanding between this couple. We ask that You guide them and help them to seek Your will for their lives. Father if he has not already, we pray that the boyfriend comes to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. We pray that they both remain pure and abstain from any sexual acts until marriage, as You have designed. We ask that You bring them both closer to You, and that Your will be done in their lives and in this relationship. We thank You for Your love and faithfulness. Amen.
Finally, continue to pray for your boyfriend's salvation and for God's will to be done in your life and in this relationship. Trust in God's timing and remember that He wants the best for you. Let God direct you to His will for you.