God bless you ###. ###, as a woman of God, I cannot and will not mislead you, just to make you feel alright, then I will be a people pleaser and not for God. I have to be accountable to God. Therefore I cannot pray a prayer that is not in the perfect will of God. God will answer prayer that in His will. The word of God says "people perish for lack of wisdom" not knowing the will or the word of God or taking the scripture out of context. Remember God loves you. He wants you to know the truth and be free. God establishes marriage. Relationship outside of marriage, He calls fornication, which is sin. So how is God going to go against His nature, His Word, His statutes and law, His will. This may seem hard, but a Heavenly Father knows what is best for His daughter.
Father, in Jesus name I ask that You comfort this woman heart and soul even her child and be their counselor and comforter at this time in her life. As she forgives her ex-boy-friend heal her heart and her child's heart in Jesus name. Father I pray also for that man, that is wandering from place to place for he is lost looking for love, trying to comfort himself with alcohol, to meet with him. Send Your ministering angels of salvation, send your servants to witness to him salvation message to him. Father I pray for Holy Spirit anointing to break the yoke of bondage in his life so he won't be a slave to Satan.
Father, I pray against the emotional affects that is on this child for You to heal her. I also pray that her mother will begin to take her to church so she can learn about You.
You said you feel unloved. Can you accept God's love? God loves you. He knew you before you were conceived in your mother's womb. The greatest love is God's love. His love is also sacrificial where He is willing to lay down His life for you. This is how you are so important to him. You said, you have no self-worth, when you are in Christ, your identity is in Jesus, your worth is not in man or friends, but in God, for we are made in God's image. Identify yourself in God and His standards, not in a man or society. God says "lean not on the arms of flesh, for it will fail you".
Father I pray that You will open up the doors of provision for this woman as she learns to follow You and that You will give her courage and strength not to compromise to weaken who she is. Pour out your loving kindness upon her and her child, and send Godly mothers, to help nurture her in you. God loves and blesses you.
