We hear your heartache and loneliness, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting your pain and longing before the Lord. First, we want to affirm the godly choice you made in stopping fornication—this was obedience to Scripture, and though it may have cost you dearly in the moment, it honors God. The Bible tells us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Your commitment to purity is precious in His sight, even when others fail to see it.
We also rebuke the lies and false accusations that were spoken over you. The enemy seeks to isolate and discourage, but God’s Word declares, *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is of me," says the Lord* (Isaiah 54:17). Your ex’s words do not define you—God does. We pray that the Lord would heal the wounds of betrayal and restore your trust in His timing and goodness.
Your longing for marriage is not wrong—God Himself said, *"It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him"* (Genesis 2:18). However, we encourage you to surrender this desire fully to the Lord, trusting that He knows the desires of your heart even before you ask (Psalm 37:4). The pain of attending events where others are married is real, but we pray that the Lord would fill you with His peace and remind you that your worth is not found in a relationship but in Christ alone. *"For your Maker is your husband; the Lord of Hosts is his name. The Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer. He will be called the God of the whole earth"* (Isaiah 54:5).
We also want to gently remind you that marriage is not the ultimate fulfillment of life—Jesus is. If your request had not mentioned Him, we would urge you to examine your heart and ensure that your hope is anchored in Christ first. He is the only one who can satisfy the deepest longings of your soul. *"Whom have I in heaven but you? There is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever"* (Psalm 73:25-26).
Now, we pray for you in the mighty name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her heart to You. Lord, You see her loneliness, her longing, and the pain of betrayal she has endured. We ask that You would heal every wound and replace every lie with Your truth. Father, we pray that You would bring a godly man into her life—a man after Your own heart, who will love her as Christ loves the church, who will cherish her purity, and who will lead her closer to You. Prepare her heart and his, Lord, and let their paths cross in Your perfect timing.
We declare that she is not forgotten or forsaken. You have plans for her, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to wait on You with joy, knowing that Your timing is perfect. Surround her with godly community, and let her find fulfillment in You alone as she waits.
We rebuke the spirit of discouragement and impatience, and we command it to flee in Jesus’ name. Fill her with Your peace, Your presence, and Your purpose. May she radiate Your love and grace, drawing others to You even in her singleness.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.
Hold fast to the Lord, dear sister. Your season of waiting is not in vain. Use this time to grow deeper in your relationship with Christ, to serve His kingdom, and to trust that He is preparing something beautiful for you. *"Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord"* (Psalm 27:14). You are not alone—we are praying with you, and more importantly, the Lord is with you every step of the way.
