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My husband is going to the bank to find out if we can make one lump sum pmt. on our house. It would equal one years worth of pmts. If we do that I am hoping they will not foreclose on our house. I have been so sick inside over all of this. It has been a battle financially for the past five years. That is when I married my husband. He brings in more money than I have ever seen at one time, yet he has no wisdom when it comes to taking care of our finances. I am an excellent money manager, yet he won't give me the money to take care of things. I am very frugal, and I can live on very little... But this is causing me to want to leave him. I worked like a dog for several years at a job I hated in order to pay off all the debt my ex husband dumped on me. I did not make very much, yet I was diligent to pay what I owed. I made a LOT of sacrifices to get rid of the debt. I am so hurt and angry that I am in a position that is far worse financially than I have ever been in. I have never wanted to file for bankruptcy, yet I am even considering that. That is how desperate I am. It is making me sick!!! If I leave him, I will have to live in a low income apt., close to a job, because I won't have a car, and I don't know what else I will do...This is causing me a lot of pain, and emotional anguish.
It is hard to love someone who has taken all the excellent credit that I have worked so hard to attain, and forced me, by threatening divorce, to get credit on his behalf. It is a major struggle...Thank you for your prayers!!!!
It is hard to love someone who has taken all the excellent credit that I have worked so hard to attain, and forced me, by threatening divorce, to get credit on his behalf. It is a major struggle...Thank you for your prayers!!!!
