Dear Mike,
I know exactly how you feel, I just went through a very similar thing with my girlfriend. The confusion and the sadness. Mike please hang in there and know that God is with you always. Pray to him for guidance in this hard time, because I have prayed everyday since the breakup and finally a month later we are talking again and God-willing will get back together. It is important to have hope and trust in God because only He can change the hearts and minds of others. I believe that you need to step back from your realarionship and take an objective look at it.(that means without anything stopping you from seeing the truth)If you do this it will help you to better understand what is going on between you and what is in the way of true love. I realize now that I made a lot of mistakes in my relationship and I would never have been able to change those things if I had not taken that look. God can do anything, but you have to sincerely look to Him for help and believe he can help you.
Dear Lord,
Thank you for all of the love you have on this earth,
Sometimes you challenge us with the loss of love,
God we trust in your plan for us, but please help your son Mike to understand what is going on in his marriage,
and please help him to clear the evil thoughts from his mind and heart and help his wife to do the same,
Lord please, in your name, help this couple to be reunited in love, but still trust all of themselves to you.
Amen