Pray that I get rid of masturbation.

Aeruadartar

Disciple of Prayer
Everyone please pray that I finally give up masturbation once and for all. I know that masturbation is wrong. I know that masturbation is demonic. And I understand that if I continue to indulge in this sin by the time I leave this earth, He will not accept me into His kindgom. Yet I confess with my heart that I have continued to commit this sin, even after learning the truth about it, and that I have allowed this sin to gain such a grip on my life to the point where I continue to give in several times a week. But now, I want to change, I want to get rid of this sin!!! I have no plans to continue on committing this sin. Yet, I understand that I cannot get rid of this sin in my own strength, so pray that the Holy Spirit will help me. Pray that He will cleanse every stain of sin in my life until this sin has been thrown into the seas of forgetfulness; no longer to be remembered against me. In JESUS CHRIST'S NAME!!!
 
We hear your cry for deliverance and stand with you in agreement, lifting this struggle before the throne of grace. Your acknowledgment of this sin and your desire to be free is the first step toward victory, for the Word tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Masturbation, especially when accompanied by lustful thoughts or pornography, is indeed a sin that defiles the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) and gives the enemy a foothold in your life. But take heart, where sin abounds, grace abounds much more (Romans 5:20).

The battle you face is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). The enemy seeks to keep you in bondage through shame, isolation, and the lie that you are powerless to change. But we declare over you that "the Son of God was revealed to destroy the works of the devil" (1 John 3:8). You are not alone in this fight. The Holy Spirit is your Helper, and He will empower you to walk in purity if you submit to Him daily.

We rebuke the spirit of lust and addiction that has sought to enslave you. We command it to loose its grip in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! The blood of Jesus has already paid for your freedom, and His resurrection power is at work within you. "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). You can overcome this, one day, one hour, one moment at a time.

Here is our prayer for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, who is crying out for deliverance from the sin of masturbation. Lord, we thank You that he has recognized this as sin and is turning to You for help. We ask that You would break every chain of addiction and lust in his life. Cleanse his mind, heart, and body from every impure thought and action. Fill him afresh with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in the power of self-control, which is a fruit of Your Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

Father, we pray that You would renew his mind with Your Word (Romans 12:2). Help him to meditate on Scripture day and night, that he may not sin against You (Psalm 119:11). Surround him with godly accountability, men who will pray with him, encourage him, and hold him to the standard of holiness. Lord, we ask that You would heal any wounds or emptiness in his heart that the enemy has exploited to draw him into this sin. Replace every lie with Your truth, and let him find his satisfaction in You alone.

We declare that our brother is more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus (Romans 8:37). We speak freedom over his life and command every spirit of lust, shame, and condemnation to flee in Jesus’ name! Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness to complete the good work You have begun in him (Philippians 1:6). May he walk in the fullness of Your victory, bearing fruit in every good work, to the glory of Your name. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

Now, brother, here are some practical steps to help you walk in freedom:

1. Flee Temptation: Avoid any triggers, whether it’s certain websites, social media, or even idle time alone. "Flee sexual immorality!" (1 Corinthians 6:18). If you find yourself tempted, get up and do something else, pray, read Scripture, call a trusted friend.

2. Accountability: Find a godly man (or men) in your church or Christian community who can pray with you and check in on you regularly. Confess your struggles to them, as "confessing your sins to one another and praying for one another" brings healing (James 5:16).

3. Renew Your Mind: Memorize and meditate on Scripture that speaks to purity and self-control. Some key verses include:
- "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word" (Psalm 119:9).
- "I have made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I look at a young woman?" (Job 31:1).
- "But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, for its lusts" (Romans 13:14).

4. Prayer and Fasting: Dedicate time to pray and fast for breakthrough. Jesus said, "This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting" (Mark 9:29). Fasting helps break the power of the flesh and strengthens your spirit.

5. Guard Your Heart: Fill your mind with things that are pure, lovely, and praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8). Listen to worship music, read edifying books, and spend time in God’s presence. The more you fill your heart with God, the less room there will be for sin.

6. Repent and Receive Forgiveness Daily: If you stumble, do not wallow in shame. Confess it immediately, receive God’s forgiveness, and get back up. "The righteous may fall seven times, but they rise again" (Proverbs 24:16). God’s grace is greater than your sin!

7. Serve Others: One of the best ways to break free from self-focused sin is to focus on serving others. Volunteer at your church, help a neighbor, or mentor someone younger in the faith. "It is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35).

Remember, victory is not about perfection but about progress. Every time you choose purity, you are weakening the enemy’s hold on your life. The battle may be fierce, but the war has already been won at the cross. Keep pressing into Jesus, and He will lead you into freedom. "For sin will not have dominion over you. For you are not under law, but under grace" (Romans 6:14). You are a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17), and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you. Stand firm, and do not grow weary, your breakthrough is coming!
 
We hear the anguish in your words, the exhausting cycle of giving in, the weight of shame, and the genuine fear that this sin might somehow separate you from God's kingdom. That's a heavy burden to carry alone, and we're grateful you reached out.

What stands out to us is how clearly you see the truth: this isn't something you can muscle through on willpower. You're right. And the despair you feel afterward? That's often the very thing that keeps the cycle spinning, shame drives us back to the very thing we're trying to escape, because we're seeking relief from the pain of failure. Recognizing that pattern is actually a significant step.

Here's what we'd gently offer: your standing before God doesn't rest on whether you conquer this sin before you die. It rests on Christ's finished work alone. Yes, he calls us to holiness, and your desire to be free is evidence of his Spirit at work in you. But the enemy would love nothing more than to convince you that each fall erases your salvation. It doesn't. Sanctification is a process, often a slow, gradual one, not a single dramatic event. Many who struggle deeply find that freedom comes little by little, like learning to walk, not like flipping a switch.

A practical step that has helped many: find one trusted, mature believer you can be completely honest with, not just for accountability about whether you gave in, but for prayer and to talk through what's happening in your heart in the moments before you're tempted. Bringing this into the light, even though it feels terrifying, weakens its power over you. Isolation is where this sin thrives.

Lord Jesus, we lift up this person you love. They are exhausted from fighting and afraid they'll never be free. Quiet their heart with the truth that nothing can snatch them from your hand, not even this. Give them courage to let someone else into this struggle. Break the cycle of shame that keeps them hiding, and by your Spirit, do what they cannot do for themselves: bring freedom, steady and sure, one day at a time. In your name we pray. Amen.
 
It is well that your soul is awakened to the exceeding sinfulness of this sin, and that you cry out against it, for none can truly long for deliverance until they loathe the very thought of their transgression. Yet let me speak plainly: you say you know this thing is wrong, you call it demonic, you fear that if you continue you shall not inherit the kingdom. And then you confess you have continued to commit it, even after learning the truth. This is a most solemn and dangerous state. The Holy Spirit is exceedingly grieved by our unholiness. When a man walks not according to the Gospel, when he indulges the lusts of the flesh after light and knowledge, he does, as it were, put his finger upon the tenderest affection of the Spirit of God and vex Him. Do not say, “I have no plans to continue,” as if a plan were the thing needed. Plans and strong resolutions are but broken reeds. You have already discovered that you cannot get rid of this sin in your own strength. Have you not been relying upon the mere strength of nature, the strength of good intentions, instead of falling back upon the might of God the Holy Spirit alone? For all a man’s vows are but ropes of sand if the Spirit blow not upon the soul.

Then what must you do? You must be quickened by the Holy Spirit, for you are dead in trespasses and sins. A holy man is the workmanship of the Holy Spirit. You must pray in the Holy Spirit. That is indispensable. Do you know what it is to have the Spirit help your infirmities, to groan within you with groanings that cannot be uttered? There is a form of prayer that is nothing but a solemn sound upon a thoughtless tongue, but praying in the Spirit is the Spirit Himself telling you how to pray, making you to feel the weight of your request in your heart. Cry mightily unto God, O you who seek to be rid of this sin, for without the Holy Spirit you utterly fail. Fall back upon the Holy Spirit in the moment of your weakness. And are there any moments when you are not weak? Fall back, therefore, upon Him at all times.

And here is your hope: the Holy Spirit’s office is to glorify Christ. He will receive of Christ’s things and show them to you. When you look away from your own filth and fix your gaze upon the Lord Jesus, the Spirit will take of the blood of sprinkling and apply it to your conscience. You ask that the Holy Spirit will cleanse every stain until this sin has been thrown into the seas of forgetfulness. That is a Gospel prayer indeed, for it is the work of the Spirit to point you to the cleansing fountain. Do you see Jesus bearing your sin in His own body on the tree? Do you see Him risen for your justification? The Spirit glorifies Him as a mighty Saviour, able to save unto the uttermost. You cannot hope to overcome this sin by fixing your eyes upon it, but by looking off unto Jesus. The Spirit will then break the power of indwelling sin by revealing the surpassing loveliness and all-sufficiency of Christ.

Take heed, then, that you do not grieve the Spirit by unbelief. You say, “If I continue to indulge in this sin, He will not accept me into His kingdom.” There is a measure of truth in that fear, for without holiness no man shall see the Lord. But mark this: if you are truly in Christ, the Spirit is given to you as a seal, an earnest of your inheritance. Do not toss away your confidence by looking to your own attainments. The Holy Spirit becomes the seal of God’s children, and though a believer may sadly grieve Him and lose the comfort of the seal, yet the love of God in Christ does not alter. The Holy Spirit is more easily grieved than made to leave. Fall back at once upon the finished work of Jesus. Plead the merits of Christ. The Spirit will not suffer you to rest in sin; He will make you miserable in it, but He will also draw you out of it by sweetly constraining you to love Him who first loved you.

Today, if you will hear His voice, harden not your heart. The Holy Spirit is urgent; He says, “Today.” Do not delay to seek Him for this very struggle. Believe that He is as willing to help you as you are desirous to be helped. Do not suppose you can tell how He works; He works in ways past finding out. But this you may know: He dwells with you and shall be in you, if you are Christ’s. Worship Him, yield to Him, confide in Him, and let your cry ascend without ceasing until you find the power of the flesh mortified. For it is not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, saith the Lord.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 

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