We understand the heaviness of your heart after speaking harshly in anger, and we commend you for turning to the Lord in repentance. The Bible reminds us in Ephesians 4:29, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* And again in Proverbs 15:1, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Your regret shows the conviction of the Holy Spirit, and that is a sign of a heart that seeks to honor God.
Yet we must also ask: who is this person you’ve hurt? If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage—or worse, one that defies God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman—then the deeper issue must be addressed. The pain of sinful words is real, but if the relationship itself is built on disobedience to Scripture, no amount of kindness can make it right in God’s eyes. First Corinthians 6:9-10 warns, *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* If this relationship is not one that honors God’s design for marriage, we urge you to repent not only of harsh words but of the relationship itself. True love does not lead another into sin but points them to Christ.
If, however, this is a godly relationship—such as a courtship between a believing man and woman seeking marriage, or a family member or friend—then your prayer for healing is right. James 5:16 tells us, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* We encourage you to humbly ask for forgiveness from the person you’ve hurt, making amends where possible. Proverbs 28:13 says, *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."*
Let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You are a God of mercy and restoration. Lord, forgive them for the harsh words spoken in anger, and cleanse their heart from all unrighteousness. If this conflict arose in a relationship that does not honor You, we ask that You convict them deeply and give them the strength to walk away from sin, no matter how painful it may be. Let them not be unequally yoked with unbelievers or bound in relationships that defy Your Word. If this is a godly relationship, soften the heart of the one who was hurt and bring reconciliation through Your love. Heal the wounds caused by these words, and let Your peace rule in their hearts. Remind them both that *"the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth"* (2 Timothy 2:24-25).
Father, we also ask that You guard their tongue in the future. Let their words be seasoned with grace, that they may build others up and not tear them down. Fill them with Your Spirit, that the fruit of self-control, patience, and kindness may abound in their life. And above all, let them seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness in every relationship, knowing that Your ways are perfect.
We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can forgive sins and restore what is broken. Amen.
Finally, we leave you with this encouragement: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32). If you have not already, confess your wrongdoing to the person you’ve hurt and seek their forgiveness. And if this relationship is not one that aligns with Scripture, we urge you to surrender it to God, trusting that His plans for you are good—even when obedience feels costly. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). Walk in His strength, and He will guide you.
Yet we must also ask: who is this person you’ve hurt? If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage—or worse, one that defies God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman—then the deeper issue must be addressed. The pain of sinful words is real, but if the relationship itself is built on disobedience to Scripture, no amount of kindness can make it right in God’s eyes. First Corinthians 6:9-10 warns, *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* If this relationship is not one that honors God’s design for marriage, we urge you to repent not only of harsh words but of the relationship itself. True love does not lead another into sin but points them to Christ.
If, however, this is a godly relationship—such as a courtship between a believing man and woman seeking marriage, or a family member or friend—then your prayer for healing is right. James 5:16 tells us, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* We encourage you to humbly ask for forgiveness from the person you’ve hurt, making amends where possible. Proverbs 28:13 says, *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."*
Let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You are a God of mercy and restoration. Lord, forgive them for the harsh words spoken in anger, and cleanse their heart from all unrighteousness. If this conflict arose in a relationship that does not honor You, we ask that You convict them deeply and give them the strength to walk away from sin, no matter how painful it may be. Let them not be unequally yoked with unbelievers or bound in relationships that defy Your Word. If this is a godly relationship, soften the heart of the one who was hurt and bring reconciliation through Your love. Heal the wounds caused by these words, and let Your peace rule in their hearts. Remind them both that *"the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth"* (2 Timothy 2:24-25).
Father, we also ask that You guard their tongue in the future. Let their words be seasoned with grace, that they may build others up and not tear them down. Fill them with Your Spirit, that the fruit of self-control, patience, and kindness may abound in their life. And above all, let them seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness in every relationship, knowing that Your ways are perfect.
We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can forgive sins and restore what is broken. Amen.
Finally, we leave you with this encouragement: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32). If you have not already, confess your wrongdoing to the person you’ve hurt and seek their forgiveness. And if this relationship is not one that aligns with Scripture, we urge you to surrender it to God, trusting that His plans for you are good—even when obedience feels costly. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13). Walk in His strength, and He will guide you.
We're here for you, dear friend. We understand that hurting someone we care about is a heavy burden to bear. Let's lift this up together to our Father in heaven.
Lord Jesus, we come before You today, carrying the weight of harsh words spoken in anger. We ask for Your forgiveness, knowing that You are a God of second chances and new beginnings. Help us to learn from this, to grow in kindness and patience. If this relationship is not aligned with Your will, give us the courage to walk away, even if it's difficult. But if it is a godly relationship, help us to seek reconciliation and healing. Let Your peace rule in our hearts, and help us to use our words to build others up, not tear them down.
We also ask for Your help in controlling our tongues in the future. Fill us with Your Spirit, that the fruit of self-control, patience, and kindness may abound in our lives. Above all, help us to seek Your Kingdom and Your righteousness in every relationship, trusting that Your ways are perfect.
We pray this in Jesus' mighty and holy name. Amen.
And remember, as it says in Ephesians, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." If you haven't already, confess your wrongdoing to the person you've hurt and seek their forgiveness. Trust that God's plans for you are good, even when obedience feels costly. Walk in His strength, and He will guide you.
Lord Jesus, we come before You today, carrying the weight of harsh words spoken in anger. We ask for Your forgiveness, knowing that You are a God of second chances and new beginnings. Help us to learn from this, to grow in kindness and patience. If this relationship is not aligned with Your will, give us the courage to walk away, even if it's difficult. But if it is a godly relationship, help us to seek reconciliation and healing. Let Your peace rule in our hearts, and help us to use our words to build others up, not tear them down.
We also ask for Your help in controlling our tongues in the future. Fill us with Your Spirit, that the fruit of self-control, patience, and kindness may abound in our lives. Above all, help us to seek Your Kingdom and Your righteousness in every relationship, trusting that Your ways are perfect.
We pray this in Jesus' mighty and holy name. Amen.
And remember, as it says in Ephesians, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." If you haven't already, confess your wrongdoing to the person you've hurt and seek their forgiveness. Trust that God's plans for you are good, even when obedience feels costly. Walk in His strength, and He will guide you.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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