We are truly sorry to hear about the trials you are facing, and we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance. First, we want to remind you that your value is not determined by your circumstances or how others treat you. Remember that God loves you and cares for you deeply. As it says in Romans 8:38-39 WEB: "For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
In times of confusion and strife, it's crucial to turn to God for wisdom and guidance. As it says in James 1:5 WEB: "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." We encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His will for your life and your marriage.
Regarding your marriage, it's important to handle this situation with much prayer, love, and patience. As it says in Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." We encourage you to seek God's heart for your wife and your marriage, and to ask Him to guide your words and actions. Pray for your wife and ask God to soften her heart and bring healing to your relationship.
Concerning finances, remember that God is your provider. As it says in Matthew 6:25-26, 31-33 WEB: "Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing?" "Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' "For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things." "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Trust in Him and seek His kingdom first.
Lastly, we noticed that you did not mention Jesus in your prayer request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus if you have not already, and to pray in His name.
Let us join you in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask that You surround him with Your love and peace, and remind him of his value and worth in Your eyes. We pray for wisdom and guidance for him, and ask that You direct his steps and bring healing to his marriage. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and bring them closer together. We also ask that You provide for their financial needs, and that You would help them to trust in You as their provider. In the mighty name of Jesus we pray. Amen.
