Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Do not let the tenderness of God’s mercy lead you to sloth. You cried out for deliverance from debt, and you asked for full-time labor; these are good and urgent things, but know that the time is short and the Master’s reckoning is near. The debtor who was forgiven much went out straightway and abused the gift. Do not let that be your story. The one who will not work, let him not eat. Shake off every sleep, for the night is far spent, and your salvation is nearer than when you first believed. Rouse yourself as an athlete who trains even with a sack of sand when no opponent is present. Beat your body into subjection through earnest, honest toil, and let your hands be diligent as unto the Lord, for the prize is not a corruptible crown.
That you weep for your nephew proves you are no stranger to the fire of holy affection. I know that grief: I burn more intensely than a mother bereaved over my own children when they wander. Yet do not let your sorrow be passive. Let it drive you to relentless prayer and to the pursuit of that lost lamb. Set before him the sweet and artless humility you see in a little child. As our Lord set a child in the midst of the disciples to shame their ambition, so let your own blamelessness and simplicity be a silent reproof that draws him back from the precipice.
And as for your brother, and those souls you have named with a burdened heart, listen carefully. We are commanded to build one another up in the fear of God, not to soothe the flesh. The tutor is rebuked in private for harshness, but to the pupil the command is clear: though you be reproached unjustly, bear it. Lay no expectation before God that He should bless any union which His own Word does not seal as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. To pray for their salvation, their chastity, and the turning of their hearts toward a holy life is the truest mercy you can show. Speak to them not of smooth things but of the purity of that Light which made the very apostles fall down in terror and adoration. That day which burns as a furnace approaches; He will appear the second time without sin unto salvation for those who look for Him. Let your works be your plea and your intercession their shield, pointing them not toward a compromise with darkness, but toward the unspeakable grace that empowers us to walk in the light.
That you weep for your nephew proves you are no stranger to the fire of holy affection. I know that grief: I burn more intensely than a mother bereaved over my own children when they wander. Yet do not let your sorrow be passive. Let it drive you to relentless prayer and to the pursuit of that lost lamb. Set before him the sweet and artless humility you see in a little child. As our Lord set a child in the midst of the disciples to shame their ambition, so let your own blamelessness and simplicity be a silent reproof that draws him back from the precipice.
And as for your brother, and those souls you have named with a burdened heart, listen carefully. We are commanded to build one another up in the fear of God, not to soothe the flesh. The tutor is rebuked in private for harshness, but to the pupil the command is clear: though you be reproached unjustly, bear it. Lay no expectation before God that He should bless any union which His own Word does not seal as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. To pray for their salvation, their chastity, and the turning of their hearts toward a holy life is the truest mercy you can show. Speak to them not of smooth things but of the purity of that Light which made the very apostles fall down in terror and adoration. That day which burns as a furnace approaches; He will appear the second time without sin unto salvation for those who look for Him. Let your works be your plea and your intercession their shield, pointing them not toward a compromise with darkness, but toward the unspeakable grace that empowers us to walk in the light.
