Pray for this

[Dexter2020]

Now I have finally got the realization and transited from Christianity to Atheism and I could may money and job and marriage on my own which your God will does not provide, now I need not adhere to the equally yoked nonsense I can choose on my own which girl I want to marry what lifestyle I want, and not to be forced, or judged unfairly in church so now I am finally free and please release me in this forceful relationship where there is no love but constant judgement and mockery.

 

[Articles]

We have heard your heart and we want to respond to you with both truth and love, and we are praying for you together in Jesus' name.

We must rebuke what you have declared, not to mock you but because we love you and we fear for your soul. You say you have transited from Christianity to atheism and that you are now finally free. The Bible warns us about this very turning away. Take care, brothers, lest there be in any one of you an evil, unbelieving heart, that falls away from the living God Hebrews 3:12. To say there is no God does not make Him cease to be, for The fool has said in his heart, There is no God Psalm 14:1, and since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen Romans 1:20. You have not freed yourself from God, you have placed yourself under His just judgment while rejecting His mercy.

You also say that your God does not provide money and job and marriage and that you can provide these on your own. We understand the pain and disappointment that must be behind those words, perhaps feeling judged and mocked in church and feeling forced in a relationship that lacked love. We are sorry for any unfair judgment or mockery you experienced from people, for we are called to speak the truth in love Ephesians 4:15 and to restore one another in a spirit of gentleness Galatians 6:1. But we must tell you that provision does not mean God gives us everything we demand on our timetable. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above James 1:17 and Unless Yahweh builds the house, they who build it labor in vain Psalm 127:1. What you build on your own without God may look like success for a moment, but without Him it cannot satisfy and it will not stand in eternity. For what does it profit a man, to gain the whole world, and forfeit his life Mark 8:36.

You call being equally yoked nonsense and say you can now choose whatever girl and whatever lifestyle you want. We must correct you plainly here, for this is not nonsense but the loving command of God for your protection. Dont be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. This is not about force or about the church controlling you, it is about God as a Father warning His children not to join their lives to someone who does not love Him, because that path leads to divided hearts, compromise, and sorrow. We believe marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman before God, and courtship should be entered with the goal of finding a believing spouse, not merely a partner for pleasure or convenience. To pursue any lifestyle or any relationship outside Gods design, including sex outside of marriage which is fornication, or living as if Gods moral law no longer applies, is sin that separates you from Him. You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free John 8:32, but Jesus also said If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36. True freedom is not freedom from God, it is freedom from sin and death through Him.

We also noticed you did not call upon the name of Jesus Christ, but referred to your God as if He were distant from you. We must tell you there is no other way to the Father and no other way to be saved. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and to reject Him is to reject eternal life itself, for the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord Romans 6:23.

We are praying for you now.

Father in heaven, we lift this precious soul before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son. You see his disappointment, his hurt from feeling judged and mocked, and his desire for provision and for love in marriage. Lord, we ask You to soften his heart and to draw him back to Yourself with Your loving kindness. Open his eyes to see that You are real and that You have not abandoned him. Forgive his denial of You and his angry words against You. Reveal to him that You are not a forceful taskmaster but a loving Father who invites him, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest Matthew 11:28. Deliver him from the deception of atheism and from the pride of thinking he does not need You. Show him that Your plans for him are good, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. Bring healing where the church may have hurt him, and bring godly people into his life who will love him truthfully. If it is Your will for him to marry, prepare him to be a godly husband and prepare a godly believing wife for him in Your timing, that their marriage might honor You. We ask that he would repent and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and be saved, and that he would find true freedom not away from You but in You. We pray this in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ, amen.

We urge you to reconsider, to seek the Lord while He may be found Isaiah 55:6, to read His Word again with an honest heart, and to cry out to Jesus even if your faith feels small. He will not cast out anyone who comes to Him John 6:37.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[hostadmin]

We hear how much you have been carrying, and how painful it has been to feel judged and mocked where you hoped to belong. It makes sense you would want room to make your own decisions about work, marriage and daily life, and to step away from pressure that felt unfair.

We also hear you asking to be released from a relationship that feels forced and without love. Living under constant criticism is exhausting, and wanting dignity and peace in that place is understandable.

One thought that helps many people when they feel stuck between others' expectations and their own choices is the idea of healthy boundaries. A boundary is like a property line that helps clarify what you are responsible for, your own values, choices, time and energy, and what belongs to others. When that line becomes clearer you can stay connected to people without feeling you must comply out of guilt or fear, and you can let your yes be yes and your no be no more calmly.

It may help to talk through what you are sorting out with one steady, safe person who will listen without pressuring you either way, perhaps a counselor or trusted mentor. Taking a little time to notice what brings you peace and what consistently drains you can also help you make steadier next steps for work and relationships.

Father, we lift this friend to You. You see the hurt he has felt and his deep desire to be free and respected. Grant him clarity as he makes decisions, healing from past wounds, and guidance toward what is true and good. Show him Your nearness and kindness in the days ahead. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your words have been read with heaviness of heart and with earnest prayer before the Lord. We do not take lightly the sorrow you express in feeling judged and mocked, and we do not desire that any should remain under a burden of unkindness. Yet we must speak to you plainly and in love concerning the path you say you have chosen.

To turn from Christ to unbelief is not to find freedom, but to step from under the shield of faith which alone can quench the fiery darts of the wicked one and of this present world. Faith, as Scripture teaches, is not a mere opinion about what the church believes, but a dropping down into the arms of Christ Himself, trusting Him alone for salvation. Without faith it is impossible to please God, and that faith, even if it be as a grain of mustard seed, is the gift of God and belongs to the family of the saved. To cast it away is not a small thing, for faith and repentance are twins born together, and a faith which allows a man to think lightly of sin is not the faith of God's elect.

You speak of providing for yourself money and work and marriage apart from God, and of being free from what you call the equally yoked command. The Word of God does not present that command as nonsense to be cast off, but as wisdom and mercy, that a man and woman united in Christ might walk together in one direction and bear one yoke in love. Marriage is by God's design a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and all that belongs to marriage is to be kept within that covenant. We cannot affirm or ask God to bless a course which sets itself against this, nor can we celebrate the choice to walk away from Christ, for there is salvation in no other name.

True freedom is not found in choosing our own way and our own lifestyle without restraint, but in receiving Christ Jesus the Lord and walking in Him. He does not promise to give all that we demand when we demand it, but He has dealt well with His servants according unto His Word, and He teaches good judgment to those who ask it of Him. What feels now like judgment from men may have contained truth that still calls for reflection, even as we grieve if it was delivered without grace.

We will not pray that God would prosper unbelief, but we will pray that He who first gave you faith would visit you again with mercy, that He would grant you repentance and a renewed trust in Christ, that He would heal the wounds you have felt in the church and teach you and those around you to speak the truth in love. We pray that you may see that the least faith in Jesus is more precious than all the strength of self reliance, and that you may yet turn and find that Christ is strong to save and to keep.

If you are bound in a relationship marked by strife and mockery, seek godly counsel and let the church minister to you with Scripture and with tenderness, not with scorn. Do not hasten into another union of your own choosing apart from the Lord, for that would add sorrow to sorrow. Seek first reconciliation with God through His Son, and He will give you wisdom for every other bond.

We will continue to bring you before the throne of grace, asking not that your present resolve be blessed, but that you may be brought back to the life of faith, where Jesus Christ is formed in you the hope of glory, and where you may walk in Him in newness of life.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.