Dexter2020
Good and Faithful Servant
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We hear the deep pain, frustration, and sense of betrayal in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The church is called to be a place of refuge, love, and truth, not judgment, gaslighting, or hypocrisy. What you’ve described is not the Christianity we see in Scripture, nor is it the heart of God. The body of Christ is meant to reflect His love, grace, and justice, not worldly standards of power, control, or financial favoritism. When the church fails in this, it wounds the very people it is meant to heal, and that is grievous to the Lord.
First, we must rebuke the sinful behavior you’ve encountered, gaslighting, judgment masked as "God’s will," and the twisting of humility into something oppressive. Scripture is clear: "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:1-2). The parable of the talents (Matthew 25:14-30) is about stewardship, not about shaming someone for their career or financial stability. If leaders in the church are weaponizing Scripture to belittle or control, that is a distortion of God’s Word and must be called out.
We also rebuke the lie that God is a hypocrite because His people are hypocrites. God is holy, just, and unchanging (Malachi 3:6). His character is not defined by the failures of His followers. "If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself" (2 Timothy 2:13). The church is made up of broken people, but that does not invalidate the truth of the Gospel. It does, however, mean we must hold the church accountable to that truth.
You mentioned feeling pushed away from Christianity entirely, and we understand why. But we urge you not to abandon Christ because of the sins of His people. Jesus Himself warned that there would be wolves in sheep’s clothing (Matthew 7:15) and that the world would hate His followers (John 15:18-19). Yet He also promised: "I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it" (Matthew 16:18). The church is not perfect, but it is His bride, and He will purify it.
We must also address the bitterness in your heart. Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, it means releasing the debt to God, who is the ultimate judge. "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord'" (Romans 12:19). Holding onto anger will only poison your soul. That said, forgiveness does not require you to stay in a toxic environment. Jesus Himself withdrew from those who sought to harm Him (Luke 4:28-30).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who has been deeply wounded by the very people who were meant to show him Your love. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the confusion he feels. You know the lies that have been spoken over him, lies that say his worth is tied to his job, his finances, or the approval of men. We rebuke those lies in the name of Jesus. Your Word says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that our value comes from being Your beloved creation, not from the opinions of others.
Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds inflicted by judgmental words and hypocrisy. Where there is bitterness, bring Your peace. Where there is doubt, restore faith. Where there is isolation, surround him with true believers who will love him as You do. Lord, we pray for the churches that have failed him, expose the darkness, bring repentance, and raise up leaders who will shepherd Your people with integrity and humility.
We also pray for his career. You have given him skills and talents, and we trust that You have a plan for his life. If this current path is not where You want him, open doors to something better, something that aligns with Your will and provides stability. Give him wisdom to discern Your leading and courage to walk in it.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that he would not turn away from You. The enemy would love to use the sins of Your people to drive him from Your arms, but we declare that he is Yours. Draw him close, remind him of Your unfailing love, and let him experience Your presence in a fresh way. Help him to see that You are not like the hypocrites who have hurt him, You are holy, just, and full of grace.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who died to set us free and who intercedes for us even now. Amen.
To you, dear brother, we say this: Do not let the failures of others define your faith. Jesus is worth following, even when His followers fall short. Seek Him in His Word, in prayer, and in the company of those who truly love Him. If you need to step away from toxic environments, do so, but do not step away from Christ. He is your refuge, your defender, and your hope.
And if you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so now. The Bible says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). Salvation is found in no one else (Acts 4:12). Come to Him, and let Him heal your heart.
First, we must rebuke the sinful behavior you’ve encountered, gaslighting, judgment masked as "God’s will," and the twisting of humility into something oppressive. Scripture is clear: "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:1-2). The parable of the talents (Matthew 25:14-30) is about stewardship, not about shaming someone for their career or financial stability. If leaders in the church are weaponizing Scripture to belittle or control, that is a distortion of God’s Word and must be called out.
We also rebuke the lie that God is a hypocrite because His people are hypocrites. God is holy, just, and unchanging (Malachi 3:6). His character is not defined by the failures of His followers. "If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself" (2 Timothy 2:13). The church is made up of broken people, but that does not invalidate the truth of the Gospel. It does, however, mean we must hold the church accountable to that truth.
You mentioned feeling pushed away from Christianity entirely, and we understand why. But we urge you not to abandon Christ because of the sins of His people. Jesus Himself warned that there would be wolves in sheep’s clothing (Matthew 7:15) and that the world would hate His followers (John 15:18-19). Yet He also promised: "I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it" (Matthew 16:18). The church is not perfect, but it is His bride, and He will purify it.
We must also address the bitterness in your heart. Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, it means releasing the debt to God, who is the ultimate judge. "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord'" (Romans 12:19). Holding onto anger will only poison your soul. That said, forgiveness does not require you to stay in a toxic environment. Jesus Himself withdrew from those who sought to harm Him (Luke 4:28-30).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who has been deeply wounded by the very people who were meant to show him Your love. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the confusion he feels. You know the lies that have been spoken over him, lies that say his worth is tied to his job, his finances, or the approval of men. We rebuke those lies in the name of Jesus. Your Word says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that our value comes from being Your beloved creation, not from the opinions of others.
Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds inflicted by judgmental words and hypocrisy. Where there is bitterness, bring Your peace. Where there is doubt, restore faith. Where there is isolation, surround him with true believers who will love him as You do. Lord, we pray for the churches that have failed him, expose the darkness, bring repentance, and raise up leaders who will shepherd Your people with integrity and humility.
We also pray for his career. You have given him skills and talents, and we trust that You have a plan for his life. If this current path is not where You want him, open doors to something better, something that aligns with Your will and provides stability. Give him wisdom to discern Your leading and courage to walk in it.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that he would not turn away from You. The enemy would love to use the sins of Your people to drive him from Your arms, but we declare that he is Yours. Draw him close, remind him of Your unfailing love, and let him experience Your presence in a fresh way. Help him to see that You are not like the hypocrites who have hurt him, You are holy, just, and full of grace.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who died to set us free and who intercedes for us even now. Amen.
To you, dear brother, we say this: Do not let the failures of others define your faith. Jesus is worth following, even when His followers fall short. Seek Him in His Word, in prayer, and in the company of those who truly love Him. If you need to step away from toxic environments, do so, but do not step away from Christ. He is your refuge, your defender, and your hope.
And if you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so now. The Bible says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). Salvation is found in no one else (Acts 4:12). Come to Him, and let Him heal your heart.
Violetblue
Beloved
I am sorry you are so upset as this is completely understandable. This “church mentor” that you speak of is not a true Christian. The manner in which you have been treated is unacceptable. Please know that those of us that truly follow God will not gaslight you, judge you or deceive you, or mistreat you. We would certainly be respectful and genuinely concerned for your wellbeing. Your experience is inexcusable and should not be tolerated. Kick the dust off your feet and don’t look back; move on from anyone that does not treat you properly. God finds you worthy and so do we. You have found true and loyal friends on this website. Please continue to communicate with us.
I have been praying for you and will continue to do so in the name of Jesus. Rest easy dear friend, we support you and uplift you - we care.
I have been praying for you and will continue to do so in the name of Jesus. Rest easy dear friend, we support you and uplift you - we care.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. Although your original request did not include specific details and we do not fully know what you are carrying, we have continued to lift your unspoken need before the Lord who knows and understands all things. We are comforted that the Spirit himself intercedes for us when we do not know what to pray as it says in Romans 8:26 and that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted in Psalm 34:18.
If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know so we may rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered or you are still waiting, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer.
We are praying for you to experience the peace and wisdom of God and to know His presence and guidance in every step. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His Son Jesus Christ. We pray this in Jesus Name Amen.
If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know so we may rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered or you are still waiting, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer.
We are praying for you to experience the peace and wisdom of God and to know His presence and guidance in every step. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His Son Jesus Christ. We pray this in Jesus Name Amen.
