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Good and Faithful Servant
SINGAPORE – A man who was a pastor when he repeatedly molested a girl with severe specific language impairment was sentenced to three years’ jail on May 6. The 72-year-old man had pleaded guilty in April to a molestation charge. Two other charges were considered during his sentencing. Details about him and the church cannot be disclosed due to a gag order to protect the identity of the victim. Her condition is a developmental disorder that affects her ability to understand and use spoken and written language, despite having no hearing or intellectual problems. Before handing down the sentence, Deputy Principal District Judge Ong Chin Rhu said the case involved a serious abuse of trust and the man’s offence involved skin-to-skin contact with the girl. She also noted that the offender was a pastor of the church which the victim had attended. A woman, who identified herself as the man’s friend, told The Straits Times outside the courtroom that he is no longer a pastor at the church. In earlier proceedings, the court heard that the girl’s mother had frequently sought advice from the man on family and spiritual matters. The victim began accompanying her mother to church daily during her school holidays. The man later asked for the girl to help him with paperwork and administrative duties in his office. He started committing the offences between April 16, 2015, and April 15, 2016, when she was 12 years old. He molested the girl for the first time by touching her chest over her clothes. On another occasion, she was in his office when he slipped his hand underneath her top and touched her bare skin. A few weeks later, the man molested her again by touching her private parts over her clothes. Deputy Public Prosecutor Adelle Tai told the court in April: “Following the first incident... the accused began giving the victim $20 weekly. On certain weeks, the accused would give her $40. “The victim understood these frequent payments as consideration for her silence regarding the offences, though this was not explicitly communicated by the accused to the victim.” From then until 2019, he continued targeting the girl, performing acts including touching her chest and private parts. By then, she had received around $2,000 from him. The victim stopped going to the church regularly in early 2020 due to Covid-19 pandemic restrictions. She did not tell anyone about her ordeal, as the man had told her to keep it a secret. But in early 2022, the girl was praying when she suddenly experienced flashbacks of the acts that the man had committed against her. Unable to endure the distress any longer, she confided in her sister and mother on Sept 13 that year. The victim alerted the police two days later, and she sought medical assistance at a hospital. A medical report stated that she was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder associated with a two- to three-year history of increased anxious mood, recurrent thoughts about past molestation incidents, nightmares and avoidant behaviors. The man was arrested on Dec 8, 2025.
 
We are deeply grieved and outraged by the horrific betrayal of trust and the unspeakable evil committed against this vulnerable young girl. The fact that the perpetrator was a pastor—a man who should have been a shepherd protecting the flock—makes this sin even more egregious. The Lord detests the abuse of power, especially when it is used to exploit the weak and defenseless. Scripture is clear: *"Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea"* (Mark 9:42 WEB). This man not only violated the law of the land but also the holy law of God, and he will answer for his crimes both in this life and the next.

We lift up this precious child, now a young woman, who has endured years of trauma, silence, and pain. Her condition made her especially vulnerable, and the enemy sought to use her struggle as an opportunity for wickedness. But God sees her, knows her, and will heal her. *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18 WEB). We pray that the Holy Spirit would minister to her in ways that words cannot, bringing comfort, restoration, and a deep sense of her worth in Christ. May she come to know that she is not defined by what was done to her but by the love of her Heavenly Father, who calls her His own.

We also pray for her family, who must bear the weight of this betrayal alongside her. May they find strength in the Lord, wisdom in their decisions, and unity in their healing. *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble"* (Psalm 46:1 WEB). Let them experience the peace of God that surpasses all understanding, guarding their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

To the church involved, we say this: repentance must be swift and thorough. A shepherd who preys on the sheep is a wolf in disguise, and the body of Christ must never tolerate such darkness. *"Be on guard for yourselves and for all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the assembly of the Lord and God which he purchased with his own blood. For I know that after my departure, vicious wolves will enter in among you, not sparing the flock"* (Acts 20:28-29 WEB). We pray that this church would undergo a season of deep examination, accountability, and reform, ensuring that no one else is ever harmed under their watch. May they turn to the Lord with humility, seeking His forgiveness and guidance to rebuild trust with their community.

We rebuke the spirit of deception and manipulation that allowed this man to continue his abuse for so long. The enemy thrives in secrecy, but God brings all things to light. *"But all things, when they are revealed, are revealed by the light, for everything that reveals is light"* (Ephesians 5:13 WEB). We declare that the truth will continue to prevail, and justice will be served. We also rebuke any spirit of shame or fear that may still be gripping the victim or her family. Jesus came to set the captives free, and we stand on His promise: *"So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed"* (John 8:36 WEB).

Finally, we pray for the man who committed these atrocities. While we do not excuse his actions, we recognize that even the worst of sinners can find redemption through the blood of Jesus Christ. If he has not already done so, may he fall on his knees in genuine repentance, confessing his sins before God and man, and seeking the mercy that only Christ can offer. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). However, true repentance must be accompanied by a willingness to accept the consequences of his actions, including the legal sentence he now faces. May God have mercy on his soul, but may justice also be served.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this broken situation to Your throne of grace. We ask for Your healing touch to rest upon the victim, that she may experience Your peace, Your love, and Your restoration in every area of her life. Comfort her family and give them the strength to walk this difficult path together. Expose any remaining darkness in the church involved, and bring about a revival of holiness, accountability, and truth. We pray for the man who committed these crimes, that he may come to a place of true repentance and seek Your forgiveness. And Lord, we ask that You would use this tragedy to bring about greater awareness, protection, and justice for the vulnerable in our world. May Your name be glorified, even in the midst of such pain. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
 
We're deeply saddened by this news, and our hearts go out to the young woman who has endured so much pain and trauma. We stand with her, believing that justice will be served and that God will bring healing and restoration to her life. We pray for her family, that they may find strength and unity in their healing journey. Let's also remember the church involved, praying for repentance, accountability, and a renewed commitment to protecting the vulnerable. And while we cannot condone the actions of the perpetrator, we must also remember that God's mercy is available to all who truly repent. Let's lift this situation up to God, asking for His healing touch, His justice, and His glory to be revealed in the midst of this pain. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
🤺Guard Us by 📖 The Word, 🙏 Prayer, 🌾Preaching, 👨🏽‍💻Teaching, 💒 Fellowship, 🥖 Breaking of Bread, 🤲 Corporate Prayer, Acts 2:42, 🙌 Praise & Worship, 🙏 Thanksgiving, 🙇🏻Humility, Holiness😇... 🙏 Father in Heaven -- Thank You for Your light and truth, Ps 43:3, allowing us to understand and believe in Christ, Matt 11:25, Matt 16:17, 1 Cor 1:30, and for faith in the blood of Jesus Christ Your Son, Rom 3:25, which cleanses us from all sin, 1 Jn 1:7. Thank You for the power of the stripes that wounded Jesus that heal us and make us whole, Isa 53:5, Matt 8:17, 1 Pet 2:24.

We specifically ask for protection from deception and lies, Prov 30:8, from greed, Lk 12:15, Heb 13:5 and may You perform it by granting contentment, 1 Tim 6:6-7, 8, 9, Phil 4:11-12, 13. Let Your Bride walk in the light, 1 Jn 1:7, help us make ourselves ready, Rev 19:7. It seems only You can do this for You who begin a good work ultimately bring it to completion, Phil 1:6, You perfect that which concerns us, Ps 138:8, perhaps we do not have because we do not ask, James 4:2. May it not be said on that day that we did not ask for the holiness without which no one will see You, Lord, Heb 12:14. The pure in heart see God, Matt 5:8, when we come out of their midst and are separate, 2 Cor 6:17-18, perfect holiness in the fear of You, Lord, 2 Cor 7:1

Protect us all from sin, Zeph 3:13, Ps 119:11, Rev 14:5, let us not enter into temptation, Mk 14:38, Lk 11:4, keep us from the evil one, John 17:15, and keep us on Your path of increasing clarity, Prov 4:18, Col 1:9. Keep us especially from deception, 2 Thes 2:9-10, John 3:19, by Christ's water washing of the water of the Word, Eph 5:26, The Word of Truth, Eph 1:13, 2 Cor 6:7. Sanctify us in Your Truth, Your Word is Truth, John 17:17, James 1:18.

Protect us from the dragon's false doctrine and persecution spewing across the world, Rev 12:15. Help restrain these evils, 2 Thes 2:7, and use godly government to restrain and punish evil, 1 Tim 2:1-2, 3, 4; Rev 12:16, Rom 13:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7. We pray for grace to stay on the alert, Mk 13:33, for strength to escape all that's coming and stand before The Son of Man, Luke 11:36.

We ask antichrist be revealed, slain and annihilated, 2 Thes 2:8, that the saints are guarded from buying into his system, Rev 13:6, and that he and the false profit and devil be fully and finally sentenced forever, Rev 20:10. May we fear you, Ecc 12:13, Rev 14:6-7, be wise and win souls, Prov 11:30, leading many to righteousness, Dan 12:3, and instructing many, Mal 2:5, 6, Matt 28:20.

With thanksgiving we offer these requests for ourselves, our family, friends, church-mates, pastors and online praying believer-friends, Heb 10:25, so we have fellowship, 1 Jn 1:3, 5-6, 7-8, 9-10, and may the peace of God guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, Phil 4:6-7, Amen, Rev 3:14, 2 Cor 1:20. 🙌
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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