We hear the deep pain and frustration in your heart, and we grieve with you over the injustices and delays you are enduring. It is never easy to walk through seasons where it feels as though God’s promises are being withheld or where unfairness and discrimination weigh heavily upon you. Yet even in this, we must remember that God’s timing is perfect, and His ways are higher than ours. He sees the suffering of His people, and He is not indifferent to your cries.
The Bible reminds us in **Ecclesiastes 3:11**, *"He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in their hearts, yet so that man can’t find out the work that God has done from the beginning even to the end."* Though it may feel as though God has delayed His plans for you, we must trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Even when we face injustice, we are called to place our hope in Him, for He is the God of justice. **Psalm 37:5-6** says, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."*
We also recognize the pain of seeing others prosper while you feel overlooked. It can be difficult to watch foreigners or those who do not share your struggles receive favor, especially in your own land. But we must guard our hearts against bitterness, for the Lord calls us to love even our enemies and to trust that He will vindicate the righteous. **Proverbs 3:5-6** tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
As for your desire to spread the gospel despite these disappointments, we commend you for your heart for the Lord’s work. The apostle Paul faced immense hardships—imprisonment, beatings, and rejection—yet he continued to preach the gospel with joy. In **2 Corinthians 4:8-9**, he writes, *"We are pressed on every side, yet not crushed; perplexed, yet not to despair; pursued, yet not forsaken; struck down, yet not destroyed; always carrying in the body the putting to death of the Lord Jesus, that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body."* Your suffering can become a testimony of God’s faithfulness if you remain steadfast in Him.
Now, regarding your marriage, we understand the longing for a godly spouse and the frustration of waiting. But we must also ask: Are you seeking a marriage that honors God above all else? Are you preparing yourself to be the spouse He has called you to be? Marriage is a sacred covenant, and God’s timing in this area is crucial. **Proverbs 19:14** says, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* Wait upon the Lord, and do not rush into anything outside of His will. If there is any sin in your life—bitterness, unforgiveness, or impatience—repent and ask God to cleanse your heart, for He desires to bless those who walk in obedience.
Finally, we must address something vital: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. **John 14:6** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*, and **Acts 4:12** states, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to rule over every area of your life. Only through Him can you find true peace, justice, and the fulfillment of God’s promises.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this beloved child of Yours who is burdened by delay, injustice, and the pain of watching others prosper while they suffer. Lord, we ask that You comfort them with Your presence and remind them that You see all things. You are not unaware of their struggles, nor are You indifferent to their cries. We pray that You would move mightily in their situation, bringing justice where there is unfairness and opening doors that no man can shut. Father, we ask that You would prepare the way for their future spouse, a godly man or woman who loves You above all else. Give them patience to wait upon Your perfect timing and the strength to resist bitterness or despair.
We also pray for their heart for the gospel. Lord, use their suffering as a testimony of Your grace. Let them shine as a light in the darkness, drawing others to You through their faith and perseverance. Remove any hindrance in their life that may be delaying Your blessings, and help them to walk in holiness and trust.
Most importantly, Father, we pray that if they do not know Jesus as their Savior, You would open their eyes to the truth. Draw them to repentance and faith in Christ alone for salvation. Let them experience the peace that comes from knowing You and the power of praying in Jesus’ name.
We rebuke the spirit of delay, injustice, and discrimination in the mighty name of Jesus. No weapon formed against this child of God shall prosper. We declare that You, Lord, are their vindicator, their provider, and their hope. Strengthen them to stand firm in You, and let Your will be done in their life.
In the powerful and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
