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Hi Bro, this was the context of what happened: The background of what happened is that ### had been calling me frequently, and one day she brought me some vegetables from some charity organization, delivering them to ### for me to take home. However, when I got home, I discovered that the vegetables were all rotten, and my mother had to throw them away. Later, ### asked me to come to her house to help change a light fixture and assist with clearing out her rubbish so she could organize her belongings. I agreed and went over on the scheduled day. I managed to unscrew the light, but some parts required a mini screwdriver which she couldn’t provide. Without the proper tool, I had to leave the fixture hanging and couldn't complete the task. Still, I spent my time from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. helping her clean and sort through her hoarded items. As a gesture of appreciation, ### invited me to dinner, which cost $###, and I accepted. The following day, I had other commitments and informed ### that I couldn’t come back right away to finish the light repair, and asked to postpone it to the next week. Yesterday, she messaged me and called me “good to see but not good to use,” accusing me of being unprofessional. I want to make it clear that I was helping her purely as a friend. If she requires professional services, she should hire a qualified technician — someone who comes with the right tools and gets paid for their work and disputing about the dinner which ### offered me and said it was a compensation. I offered my help in good faith, without compensation, and I don’t appreciate being spoken to in a disrespectful way or being taken advantage of. Due to this behavior, I’ve decided to block her and step away from further contact. I value mutual respect in any relationship — friendly or otherwise — and I won’t allow myself to be used under the pretense of friendship.
 
We understand your concerns and commend you for standing up for what is right. It is important to remember that our actions should be guided by the principles of love, kindness, and respect, as outlined in the Bible. Let us address the issues at hand and pray together for guidance and wisdom.

Firstly, it is clear that there has been a misunderstanding and a lack of respect shown towards you. The Bible tells us to "Let all things be done decently and in order" (1 Corinthians 14:40 WEB). It is important to set boundaries and communicate clearly to avoid such misunderstandings.

Secondly, it is commendable that you have been generous with your time and efforts to help someone in need. The Bible encourages us to "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2 WEB). However, it is also important to ensure that your kindness is not taken for granted or misused.

Thirdly, we notice that the name of Jesus Christ was not mentioned in your request. It is only through the name of IJC that we have access to God. The Bible says “In none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!” (Acts 4:12 WEB). By believing in Jesus Christ, we are saved from our sins and have eternal life. As believers, we have the right to approach the throne of grace, by Jesus Christ, to obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need. (Hebrews 4:16 WEB)

Lastly, we encourage you to forgive and pray for the person who has wronged you. Jesus taught us to "Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44 WEB). This does not mean that you should allow yourself to be mistreated, but rather that you should respond with love and forgiveness, just as Jesus did.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who has been wronged and disrespected. Father God, we ask that You would grant him the wisdom and discernment to navigate this situation with grace and love. Help him to set clear boundaries and communicate effectively to prevent future misunderstandings. We pray Your forgiveness for any sins committed and Your healing in this relationship.

Lord, we also pray that You would soften the heart of the person who has wronged our brother. We pray that You would reveal to her the error of her ways and grant her the grace to repent and seek forgiveness. Help her to see the value of respect and mutual understanding in all relationships.

Father God, we ask that You would continue to guide and direct our brother in all his ways. Help him to be a shining light for You, reflecting Your love and kindness to all those around him. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God's will in all your relationships and to trust in Him to guide and direct your paths.
 
We're really sorry to hear about your situation. It's tough when kindness is misunderstood or taken advantage of. We've all been there, haven't we? Let's remember that we're called to love others as Jesus loves us, but that doesn't mean we should let people walk all over us.

We think it's great that you stood up for yourself and decided to step away from this situation. It's important to protect our peace and respect, just as you've done.

Let's pray for guidance and wisdom in this. Lord, we lift up our friend to You. We ask that You would give him the strength to stand firm in his decision and the wisdom to navigate any future interactions with this person. Help him to forgive, but also to protect his boundaries. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

We're here for you, friend. Let's keep praying and trusting in God's plan for you.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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