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CDiaz38369
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My husband has always been a great husband and father. 18 years of marriage and knowing him for at least 25. This February he was telling me how much he loved me. But in March he did a 360 and said that he is no longer in love with me and the romance is gone. He no longer reaches out to me to touch me and become intimate with me. He is civil and polite. This all started after he went to visit his brother. Now ever 6 weeks he takes a trip over there. I do know he is going through a bit of middle age crisis with age and a few other issues. But now I see he is hiding screen names from me on -banned site- and Skpe. This is not the man I knew, something dark has entered our home. He did point out some minor flaws that I need to work on and claims this is why for years the marriage has been gone. But in Feb of this year, I did not feel this at all. Never had any worries of a divorce. He says when the kids are of age which is 2 years, we might be parting our different ways. But he also said, that maybe things will get better between us. But the only one making any effort is me. He is not being true. Not sure if it is a physical or maybe just social networking with the opposite sex. But something is wrong. He will not even be Internet with me, which is not normal for a man. He is cold when I try and be affectionate. I just don't see how someone can just fall out of love from the month of Feb to the month of march. We are now in June almost and my heart aches. I do not pressure him and allowing his space. The biggest problem he had with me was that I always wanted to be with him and did not like when he went out with his friends. I am guilty for that. But I am working on that change and have not said anything. Even when he takes the trip to his brothers, and I think there might be someone there or just the private time on the chat rooms. I know for a fact he is visiting the chat rooms and I saw a girls picture up, which he closed very quickly and got made at me because I was being nosy.
This is not the man I know. He is a Christian and very honest and humble man. He always was there for me and now he wants all this time by himself. He is home every night but is taking frequent trips about every 6 weeks now.
We are living in the same home and the past two days, with lots of prayer, have been a bit more positive. I feel the prayers are working, but there is a long road ahead of repair for the marriage.
I have turned the problem over to God to fight this battle for me and i am changing myself to be a better wife, with the help of God.
I ask for others to join me in prayers to heal my marriage. I ask for prayers to heal my husband and remove any dark evil to be removed from his heart that he may become closer to God. I ask for prayers to help me change, and become a better wife and to give me the strength and knowledge I need to help my husband find a place for me in his heart again and to become the loving husband he once was.
This is not the man I know. He is a Christian and very honest and humble man. He always was there for me and now he wants all this time by himself. He is home every night but is taking frequent trips about every 6 weeks now.
We are living in the same home and the past two days, with lots of prayer, have been a bit more positive. I feel the prayers are working, but there is a long road ahead of repair for the marriage.
I have turned the problem over to God to fight this battle for me and i am changing myself to be a better wife, with the help of God.
I ask for others to join me in prayers to heal my marriage. I ask for prayers to heal my husband and remove any dark evil to be removed from his heart that he may become closer to God. I ask for prayers to help me change, and become a better wife and to give me the strength and knowledge I need to help my husband find a place for me in his heart again and to become the loving husband he once was.
