Dexter2020, we understand your concern and will pray with you regarding this situation. It is crucial to be in a relationship with someone who shares your faith and values, as the Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Firstly, we commend you for praying to Jesus for revelation. It is only through His guidance that we can discern the true intentions of others. As it is written in John 14:13-14 (WEB), "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
Your observations about your ex-girlfriend's behavior indicate that she may not be walking in faith. Her actions suggest that she values worldly possessions and status more than spiritual growth and companionship. As the scripture says, "Do not love the world, neither the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love is not in him." -1 John 2:15 (WEB).
Regarding the sanctity of marriage and relationships, we encourage you to seek a spouse who loves the Lord and aligns with biblical principles. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication and is against God's will. We feel that you must be aware that ### or any Cathedral is a church and any church is for everyone who is a Christian. Being a Christian is not about being rich or poor. We pray that you will find a godly spouse who will support you and help you grow in your faith.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother ###. We thank You, Lord, for revealing the true intentions of his ex-girlfriend and protecting him from an unequally yoked relationship. We ask that You continue to guide him, giving him discernment and wisdom in his future relationships. Help him to find a godly spouse who loves You and aligns with Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and to trust in Him to provide a suitable spouse who shares your faith and values. Be steadfast in your faith, and remember that God has a plan and a purpose for you. As it is written, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." -Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB).