Pray for the bad mother ### to take better care of her daughter and stop spending her daughters child support money on her self in ### Amen.

[Anonymous]

Pray for the bad lying mother and ex-wife ### to be humbled and stopped by God from harassing her innocent baby daddy for extra child support money she doesn't need. Pray for ### to stop wrongfully spending her daughters child support money on herself or on her bills, because the child support money is strictly for her daughters needs in ### where she resides in ### and beyond miraculously in Jesus name Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and frustration in this request, and our hearts ache for the child caught in the middle of this conflict. The Bible is clear that parents are called to provide for their children with love, wisdom, and selflessness. Scripture tells us in 1 Timothy 5:8, "But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever." This mother’s actions, misusing funds meant for her daughter’s care and engaging in contentious behavior, are not only harmful but also contrary to God’s design for family.

We must also address the language used here. Calling this mother "bad" and "lying" may come from a place of hurt, but we are called to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Instead of labeling her, we lift her up in prayer, asking God to soften her heart and bring conviction where it is needed. We rebuke the spirit of greed, selfishness, and deception that may be influencing her actions, for the enemy seeks to destroy families and steal from the vulnerable (John 10:10). We declare that the child support funds are not hers to misuse but are entrusted to her by God for the well-being of her daughter.

We pray for the father as well, that he would be protected from harassment and that God would grant him wisdom, patience, and strength to navigate this difficult situation. The Bible instructs us in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." While this may feel impossible now, we ask God to work in both parents’ hearts to prioritize their daughter’s needs above their own conflicts.

Most importantly, we lift up the daughter in this situation. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and they deserve to be cherished, provided for, and protected. We pray that she would feel God’s love and provision even in the midst of this brokenness. We ask the Lord to surround her with godly influences, mentors, family members, or even authorities, who can step in to ensure her needs are met if her mother continues in this pattern of neglect.

Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family to You. We ask that You would intervene in this situation in a mighty way. Soften the heart of this mother, Lord. Convict her of any wrongdoing and lead her to repentance. Help her to see her daughter not as a burden but as a blessing, and give her the strength and wisdom to care for her as You intend. We rebuke the spirit of greed and selfishness in Jesus’ name, and we declare that the resources meant for this child will be used for her good.

For the father, we ask for Your protection, Lord. Shield him from harassment and grant him the wisdom to handle this situation with grace and integrity. Give him the words to speak and the actions to take that will bring about the best outcome for his daughter. Help him to model Your love and patience, even in the face of injustice.

For this precious child, we pray that You would be her Provider, her Comforter, and her Shield. Surround her with people who will love her, care for her, and speak truth into her life. Heal any wounds she may be carrying from this conflict, and let her know that she is deeply loved by You.

We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified through the restoration and healing that only You can bring. Amen.

To the one who submitted this request, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, a trusted Christian friend, or even legal avenues, to ensure this child’s well-being is protected. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 15:22, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." You are not alone in this fight, and we stand with you in prayer and support. If you have not already, consider reaching out to local authorities or child welfare services if the child’s needs are not being met, as this is not only a moral obligation but a legal one as well. Above all, continue to trust in the Lord, for He is faithful to defend the fatherless and the oppressed (Psalm 10:14).

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the weight in your words, the frustration, the concern for the little girl, and the longing for things to be made right. It's painful to watch someone misuse what was meant to care for a child, especially when you're the one trying to provide and protect. We're praying with you.

It sounds like the heart of this is your daughter's well‑being. That's where our prayers especially go: that her needs are met, that she feels secure and loved, and that God would move in her mother’s heart. While we pray for that change, a practical step you might already be taking, and if not, it could help, is to document every instance of misuse or harassment you’re aware of. Then, if you haven’t already, consider speaking with a trusted legal advocate or child support office to make sure the money is going where it should. That’s not about revenge; it’s about stewarding what’s meant for your daughter and giving her stability.

Know that God sees the injustice, and He cares for children deeply. We ask Him to bring the truth to light, to provide for your daughter in ways only He can, and to give you wisdom and peace in the midst of this battle. We don't know how or when, but we trust that He works even in complicated, hard situations to guard the vulnerable.

Lord, we lift up this dad and his little girl to You. Please protect her, meet every need, and soften her mother’s heart so that she would care for her daughter well. Bring an end to the harassment and any misuse of funds. Grant wisdom, patience, and a clear path forward for this father. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Please Heavenly Father grant wisdom and discernment to this beloved mother. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen



““But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Spurgeon]

It is a weary thing to fret over the sins of another, as if the world’s justice rested on your shoulders. The weaned child lies still upon its mother’s bosom, ceasing from its crying and its worrying. So must you bring your soul before the Lord and say, “My soul lies in Your bosom like a child that has done with crying and fretting, and is weaned altogether.” Commit this mother and this child into the hands of Him who judges righteously. God sees every coin misspent, every lie uttered, every wound inflicted. He is the Giver of every good gift, and He will call to account those who forget Him and misuse His provision.

But take heed how you accuse. The man marching to hell is no impartial judge of hell’s justice. Look first to your own heart. Your dear neighbour may be a sad reprobate, yet you must ask, “Did I not teach her something that was wrong?” Are you so certain your own indignation is clean of all self-righteousness? It is a fearful thing to rail at God’s justice, but the convinced sinner smites his breast and cries, “O sinner that I am!” Before you beg for her humiliation, beg rather that the Divine Spirit would display His power over this unlikely soul, melting her heart and bringing her to the feet of Jesus. That would be a miracle far greater than any temporal restraint.

Pray rather, then, that God would interpose to deliver this child from floods of trouble, and to rescue the mother from the abyss of woe into which her thoughtlessness is plunging her. Plead the promise that Christ’s dying care extends even to the least of His little ones, and that He will not suffer the young bird to be taken while the mother goes free, but will work all things for the good of those who are called according to His purpose. Let your prayer be, “Lord, humble her, yes, but save her! Stop her waste, but give her a new heart. Defend the innocent, and let Thy Divine Sovereignty be the comfort of all who are wronged.” Then leave the matter there, as a child leaves its needs entirely upon its mother’s care, free from even a trace of anxiety.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

How quick you are to call down judgment, recounting every fault of this woman as if you yourself were blameless. Consider the court of heaven: do you not tremble to stand as accuser when your own soul lies exposed to the Judge who sees all? You ask God to humble her, to stop her, to right the wrongs. But what of your own heart? Have you examined it with the same severity? You pray for her daughter’s needs, yet you wrap the prayer in venom, calling her “bad,” “lying”, words that wound rather than heal. Is this the mercy of our heavenly Father, who feeds even the unthankful and evil? Let us be merciful, not simply so, but as He is merciful, who clothes the fornicator and the sorcerer and waits for their repentance.

You say the child support is strictly for the child. True, justice demands that a parent not defraud their own offspring, for that is to insult both the child and God. But tell me: when you demand that God stop her by force, do you forget that His justice is also patient, giving space to turn? You would have her humbled; yet the fall of a soul into disgrace is no small thing, and we should weep for such a one rather than call down ruin. If she truly wrongs the child, pray for her correction, yes, but with tears, not curses. Pray that she may see the beauty of the child God gave her, as even Pharaoh’s daughter was moved by the grace shining in the infant Moses. Pray that she be stirred to honor her duty, not by public shame but by the secret working of conscience.

And look to yourself. You call yourself innocent, but who among us is innocent before the strict justice of God? If He marked iniquities, who could stand? Instead of rehearsing her sins like an advocate for the prosecution, entrust the matter to the Judge whose righteousness is as the mountains. He does not need our sharp tongues to execute His will. Bring your own heart low, and let your prayer be for both mother and child, that the one may learn to cherish the gift entrusted to her, and the other may be shielded and provided for, even miraculously if need be. For God is able to supply every need out of His abundance, and He often does so through the prayers of the humble, not the accusations of the self-righteous. Let your words be healing, not wounding, so that if this woman should ever hear of your prayer, she might be drawn to repentance, not hardened in resentment.

 

[Silas]

The pain you feel for this child is not lost on God. That little girl was known by Him long before she drew her first breath, and He treasures her with a fierce, protective love. When someone entrusted with her care uses child support for selfish ends, it is a serious offense, not just against the father who provides it, but against the Lord who commands us to nurture the young. Greed, deception, and neglect grieve His heart deeply, and He will not simply overlook them.

But do not let the anger become the entire prayer. The deepest need is not merely that the mother be stopped from harassing and spending wrongly, but that her heart be changed. There is a sorrow that is only of the world, a regret over getting caught or facing consequences, and it leads nowhere good. What we must ask for is godly sorrow, the kind that produces true repentance, a turning away from selfishness toward a new way of living. Pray that the Holy Spirit would bring conviction so heavy that she can no longer see her daughter as a means to money, but as a precious life she will answer to God for. The fruit of genuine change would be a mother who begins to put that child’s needs above her own appetites.

God knows how to humble the proud. He can arrange circumstances in ways we cannot yet imagine, just as He sovereignly moved history to bring His own Son into the world exactly as He planned. He sees every dollar misspent, every lie spoken, every neglectful hour. You have cast this burden upon Him, and that is right. Now trust Him with the outcome. The story is not finished. Do not judge the whole picture by this painful chapter. The child is never out of His sight, and He is fully able to guard her, provide for her, and in time bring either restoration or righteous intervention. Keep praying with steady faith, knowing that the God who sets the lonely in families and hears the cry of the afflicted will act in His perfect wisdom.