futonman
Disciple of Prayer
I would like everyone to pray for my marriage. It's been 35 years and we have 4 kids still at home. My wife feels that I have been verbally and emotionally abusive but my counselors say that I have not. They have interviewed my children and say that I have some anger issues but not bad and that i have been firm or not kind with my words. They do not feel that I am abusive. It's all about what my wife feels though. I get that. I am going to counseling and my kids and I see and feel a positive change taking place. However my wife won't give me an inch of credit and still treats me with disdain and mistrust. We're still living together bot her plan is to take two of the kids and move into a separate place and have me take two and go our separate ways. She's very careful to say that she doesn't want a divorce. Anyway, I'm depressed and i want to keep my family and marriage together. I know what I've done wrong and I've made corrections to myself and i am continuing to seek counseling to continue to improve. I love and I need my wife.
