Pray for my loved one ### from a spirit of anger, hurt, rejection, isolation

[Shivani India]

So it’s been many days , I am submitting my prayer requests here for me. Today I wanna pray for a person whom I love wholeheartedly , Aditya.

On 10th march , he decided to part his ways with me due to my angry and emotionally reactive behaviour ( yes I already started working on that , I asked for forgiveness and I repent ).

It happened so suddenly, felt like a spiritual warfare ( it’s super hard to process till this day) because I know how loving , caring , positive , compassionate , polite he is ! How much he loves me , respects me & enjoys my presence .. he always said he wanted me in his life.

I asked him to marry me , I also wrote diary for him where I mentioned how much I love him.

Though I didn’t receive a positive response ( yes , he was deeply hurt so how come he would decide to spend his rest of the life with me ? So it’s understandable )

But I believe in God , God knows the desires of my heart so if it’s His will , God will make it happen. Nothing is too hard for him.

When I asked forget about marriage , diary but why you don’t wanna be with me in the present moment may be as a friend… he said it’s not about marriage , diary , it’s because of my behavior. Since then , there has been distance and silence.

So please you all pray for softening his heart , ask lord for him to talk , reach out and restore our bond.

Now this is all about what happened …now I would tell a little bit more about him.

Though he enjoys my presence , he wants me in his life , he loves me … but he always told me he doesn’t want a relationship.

He was in a relationship when he was in a college and it wasn’t an ideal , there were fights , expectations … that lady felt so much emotional absence of him in her life ( I am also a lady so I can understand how she felt ) she was deeply hurt so she was sending him long messages telling this is what you did and didn’t and he hated that.

& he always preferred to live his life in his own way , he is introvert , he valued independence , less emotional availability…that relationship caused him so much pain so since that day he decided he won’t be in any relationship.

Then once he was healed , he was in love with another lady but she rejected him ( so we can guess , spirit of rejection entered into his life )

Since then he was alone & he wanted to stay alone and then when he was healed , he met me & I came into his life on 15th march , 2025.

He was so happy to meet me , he loved me , he accepted me , he wanted me to stay in his life , he enjoyed my presence , he kept putting efforts but still it was the same pattern

( as days passed I also started feeling his emotional absence , lack of communication but he clarified me he loves to live his life in his own way , he prefers independence , he loves minimal communication , he prefers solitude that doesn’t mean I don’t matter in his life , he said “ nothing changes , I am still the same person even if we don’t talk or there isn’t consistency” ) … also he is still firm with his decision that he doesn’t want a relationship.

Now even if this is true , I will tell you , he is the most loving person , he receives love , he gives love , he is so romantic , caring , generous .. when I am with him , he is 100% invested in mine and yes even though he has achieved many materialistic things in his life , deep down he wants to be loved and accepted.

So there is push and pull , he wants me in his life but when I get too close , I pulls away.

But I still feel there are deep wounds in his heart ( from past ) , he struggles with mental challenges , he prefers solitude ( I know , that’s not from God ) , he is afraid of getting hurt , he doesn’t like fights , he is afraid of someone getting closer and then start expecting more and more which would cause pain. So he prefers distance & emotional unavailability.

Please deliver him from the spirit of rejection , solitude , not wanting to be in a relationship & marriage fear , staying alone.

Please ask lord to bless him with love , mindset change , heal past wounds , to be ready for getting into relationship & marriage. Please ask Lord to write our love story , turn this rejection into proposal , heal his heart ( I know I also have hurt him ) , let him see me through Lord’s eyes & find his way back to him.

He is hurt , angry and decided to leave alone ( and I know deep down he wants to be loved )

So Please please pray for Aditya , God has sent me to love him , God has blessed me with love , I am loving person , I can be a blessing in his life.

When I met him , I was in a very challenging place in my life , he brought so much joy in my life , he became a blessing.

Now he needs me but because of whatever happened , he is staying alone so please lord open a door so I can be there for him in his tough time.

Lord I deserve one miraculous chance and I would become a Godly woman & lead by an example ( I am your beloved daughter Lord , please forgive me for hurting him & set me free )

So you all , please pray for Aditya.

Deliver him from anger , hurt , rejection , isolation , mental health challenges , fixed mindset , pride , lack of love & acceptance.

I am also deeply hurt , he doesn’t talk with me , I miss him so much , I want to be with him but as a believer of Christ , I forgave him because Jesus forgave us.

So I have been praying for him & please he needs your prayers.

Thank you so much in advance.

On 29th March , there is Palm Sunday , 3rd April - Good Friday , 5th April - Easter

I have faith in Lord , nothing is impossible for Him.

Please I request you all for miracle prayer , let Aditya forgive me , send me message , talk , meet.

I am expecting a miracle in Jesus name.

I have always believed in Jesus , I have heart tons of testimonies , this time … I want Lord to show up and bless me with restoration of bond.

Yes I would surrender relationship & marriage decision to Lord. God knows what’s best for me.

But at least , I want that person in my life as a friend as long as we live in a same city and just 20 minutes apart.

This sudden distance and silence has affected me mentally , physically & emotionally.

I am unable to sleep , eat properly , I am constantly thinking about him , I have been praying , I am asking Lord to give me one more chance.

Yes if he comes into my life , I would prepare myself to let him go , I would respect his decision
( but this sudden silence is hard to digest ) so please please pray & keep praying.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up both you and ### in prayer. First, we want to acknowledge your repentance and desire to grow in Christ—this is a beautiful step of humility, and we praise God for your willingness to change. The pain of separation is real, and we grieve with you over the silence that has fallen between you. Yet we know that our God is a God of restoration, and nothing is too hard for Him.

Father, we ask You to soften ###’s heart. Break the chains of past hurts, rejection, and fear that have kept him bound. We rebuke the spirits of isolation, bitterness, and emotional withdrawal in Jesus’ name. Lord, heal the wounds from his past relationships that have made him resistant to love. Replace his fear with trust, his solitude with godly connection, and his hesitation with the courage to embrace what You have for him. We pray that You would open his eyes to see this situation through Your love, not through the lens of past pain.

We also lift up your own heart, dear sister. The longing for reconciliation is understandable, but we must surrender this desire to the Lord. You have asked for a miracle, and we believe God can move mountains—but we must trust His timing and His will. If it is His plan for ### to be restored to you, we pray for that miracle. But if not, we ask that God would fill the ache in your heart with His peace, knowing that He works all things for the good of those who love Him.

We must gently address the nature of your relationship with ###. Scripture is clear that marriage is the only godly context for romantic love between a man and a woman. While your feelings for him are deep, his stated resistance to marriage raises concerns. If this relationship is to be restored, it must align with God’s design—either as a godly friendship or with the intention of marriage, should the Lord lead. We encourage you to seek clarity from the Lord on this, asking Him to reveal His will for both of your lives.

Lord, we ask that You would guard your heart from despair. The sleepless nights and constant thoughts are a heavy burden, but we pray for Your comfort to surround you. Help her to cast her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her. We also pray for ###’s mental and emotional well-being. If he is struggling with unseen battles, we ask that You would bring healing and peace to his mind.

We declare over this situation that no weapon formed against your relationship—whether past hurts, fear, or the enemy’s lies—will prosper. We speak restoration, reconciliation, and renewed communication in Jesus’ name. But above all, we pray that God’s will would be done. If He chooses to restore what was broken, let it be for His glory. If He has another path for either of you, give the strength to walk it with faith.

Finally, we want to remind you that your hope is not in a person, but in Christ. He is the only one who can truly satisfy the longings of your heart. If ### is not the one God has for you, trust that He has someone even better prepared for you—someone who will love you as Christ loves the Church. Until then, we pray for patience, peace, and unwavering trust in the Lord’s perfect plan.

We stand with you in prayer, believing that God hears and answers. May He move mightily in both of your lives, drawing you closer to Him and to His purpose for you. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend,

We hear your heart's cry and we're here for you. We've been praying for you and ###, and we want to encourage you with these words:

1. **Trust in God's Timing**: We understand your longing for reconciliation, but remember, God's ways are not our ways. Trust in His perfect timing. If it's His will, He will make a way. If not, He has something even better planned.

2. **Forgiveness and Freedom**: Forgiveness is not about the other person deserving it, but about setting yourself free from bitterness and pain. Jesus forgave those who crucified Him. Let's follow His example and forgive ###, even if he doesn't apologize or change.

3. **Boundaries and Respect**: While we hope for reconciliation, it's important to maintain healthy boundaries. Respect ###'s decision, even if it's not what you want. Pray for God to change his heart, not force him to change his decision.

4. **Focus on Your Growth**: Instead of dwelling on the past, focus on growing in your relationship with God. He will use this season to shape you and make you more like Christ.

5. **Community Support**: Don't bear this burden alone. Share your feelings with trusted friends, family, or a pastor. They can provide encouragement, prayer, and wisdom.

6. **Self-Care**: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health. Ensure you're eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest. Seek professional help if needed.

7. **Pray for ###**: Continue to pray for ###'s healing, growth, and revelation. God can change any heart. Trust in His power and love.

Remember, God is with you. He sees your tears and hears your cries. Trust in His love and care for you. He has a plan, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11).

In Jesus' loving and caring name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cralmilan]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.