We hear your heart’s cry and stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. First, we must address the foundation of your request—salvation and surrender to Jesus Christ. There is no true restoration, healing, or victory outside of Him. Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6 WEB). If you have not confessed Him as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB). Only through His blood can sin be cleansed, addictions broken, and relationships restored according to God’s perfect will.
Now, regarding your request, we must rebuke the spirit of lust and fornication that may be present in this "relationship." Scripture is clear: *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If this relationship involves sexual sin outside of marriage, it must be repented of and brought into alignment with God’s design. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any union outside of this is an abomination before the Lord. We pray you seek godly counsel to either pursue marriage with this person—if they are a believer and the relationship is honoring to God—or to walk away if it is not.
Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear one who is struggling with addiction, family strife, and a relationship that may not be rooted in Your truth. Lord, we ask that You break every chain of addiction—whether it be to substances, lust, or unhealthy attachments. Your Word declares, *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). Strengthen them, Lord, to resist the enemy’s lies and to walk in the freedom Christ died to give them.
We pray for this relationship, Father. If it is Your will for them to be united in marriage, prepare both of their hearts to honor You in purity, commitment, and love. Soften their families’ hearts to accept and bless this union, healing any misunderstandings or divisions. *"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God"* (Matthew 5:9 WEB). Let Your love and truth prevail in every conversation and interaction. If this relationship is not of You, Lord, we ask that You sever it completely and lead them both to godly spouses who will walk with them in faith.
We declare restoration over their family—emotional, spiritual, and relational healing. Your Word says, *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). Bring conviction where there is sin, repentance where there is rebellion, and unity where there is division. Fill their hearts with Your love, trust, and hope, Lord, so that they may overflow with these gifts toward one another.
For the fasting you are undertaking, we pray it is done with the right heart—seeking You above all else. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom, and His righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33 WEB). May this time of fasting draw you closer to the Lord, sharpen your spiritual discernment, and align your desires with His will.
Lastly, we pray for supernatural strength to overcome addiction. *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me"* (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Surround them with godly accountability, wisdom, and support. Let them experience the fullness of life that comes from walking in obedience to You.
We stand in agreement with you, believing that God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). May His will be done in every area of your life, and may you experience the peace that surpasses all understanding as you trust in Him. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
